The 70th birthday of Alhaji Abdul Lateef Ayinde Lawal, the proprietor of Allahu Lateef Private Schools in Ijebu-Ode, Ogun State was a huge celebration in Ikeja, Lagos, reports AMIDU ARIJE 

The Proprietor of Allahu Lateef Private Schools in Ijebu Ode, Ogun State, Alhaji Abdul Lateef Ayinde Lawal, has joined the septuagenarian club, praising God for preserving his life to be 70.

According to him, there is no other way to thank Allah for his life than throwing a party for people to felicitate with him.

Alhaji Lawal was excited; he smiled all through as he acknowledged cheers from guests. Those he could not shake hands with, he waved to from afar.

His wife, Alhaja Aminat, was beside him. The celebrator was in brown buba and sokoto with an agbada.

Alhaja Aminat wore brown iro and buba with a headgear to match.

Earlier, the Nasrullahi-Li-Fatihi Society of Nigeria led by its National Missioner, Alhaji Abdullahi Akinbode, held a special prayer for him.

After the prayer, the Chief Imam of Olabisi Onabanjo University (OOU), Ago Iwoye, Ogun State, Prof Kamaldeen Balogun, gave a lecture.

Balogun praised the celebrator for his doggedness and character.

For the reception, the celebrator changed into white buba and sokoto with agbada. The reception, which was anchored by the duo of Alhaji Abdul Rahman Ekelojuoti and Abdul Rasaq Onasowo started with prayers.

The band of Hello Melodies led by Seyi Olusanya entertained guests; there was no dull moment. The music added glamour to the occasion.

Guests nodded their heads and shook their bodies to the rhythm of the songs dished out by the band.

When the celebrator and his wife arrived, all stood still to welcome them.

Once seated on the beautifully-designed chair made for him and his wife, a prayer was said and the ceremony started.

The occasion was chaired by his schoolmate, Senator Jubril Martins-Kuye, who showered encomiums on him.

He described the celebrator as a responsible and religious man.

“He is a very responsible man, very religious and honest, his good character has brought us here today,” he said.

Martins-Kuye also supervised the cutting of the cake. The cake was cut after the spelling of Allah.

This was followed by cheers from the guests.

The celebrator’s first child, Alhaji Abdul Yekeen Lawal, said his father is the best on earth.

He hugged his father and prostrated for prayers from his dad.

“He is a righteous, kind, honest and God-fearing father. He takes everyone around him as his child, he never segregates,” he said.

Another child, Rasak Lawal, said his father “makes sacrifices for us no matter what.”

There was a short health talk by Dr Isa Abdul Mujeeb-Tosin on health is wealth.

Mujeeb-Tosin encouraged all to take to a good lifestyle and avoid alcohol.

“For you to live above 70, you must eat fresh fruits, avoid alcohol and engage in regular exercise,” he said.

In attendance were Senior Special Assistant to Lagos State Governor on Protocols, Hon Dimeji Showora; Executive Secretary Education Authority, Ifako Ijaiye, a Lagos suburb, Mr Murisik Taiwo Balogun; Chief Steve Omolale-Ajulo, his wife Clara; Alhaji Shehu Aroworamimo; Alhaji Mikail Atanda Erinfolami; Otunba Bola Otudeko; Mrs Ibilola Sholaja, among others.

The Nasrul-lahi-L-Fatih Society of Nigeria (NASFAT) is 10. It held a fundraiser for the building of a mosque and awards presentation to mark the anniversary. BUKUNMI OGUNDARE reports.

They were small in number when they started 10 years ago. As years passed, they have grown beyond their expectation.

Ten years after, they have not only secured a permanent place of worship, their number has increased tremendously.

Members of the Nasrul-lahi-L-Fatih Society of Nigeria (NASFAT) Isolo Branch converged on the Isolo praying ground penultimate Sunday to celebrate their 10th year anniversary.

The event featured a N100 million fundraising for the building of a mosque and presentation of awards to some personalities.

The event was anchored by Alhaji Ojulari Surajudeen.

The society’s colour of blue and white dominated the venue. Most members were in the colour and the hall was also adorned in the same colour.

The ceremony began with prayer before the principal guests took their seats.

The occasion was chaired by Alhaji Rafiu Adisa Ebiti and Alhaja Modupeola Bello.

Mudiru, Daru Dawah Walirshad, Isolo Sheikh Mustapha Zuglool Sanusi, who delivered a lecture, praised the society for liberating lives and guiding them to the pristine practice of the Islam.

Sheikh Sanusi, a renowned scholar, urged members to stand firm against all odds, saying their tribulations and trials would be over in due course.

He urged parents to bring up their children in the Islamic way.

NASFAT World wide Chief Missioner Sheikh Abdullahi Akinbode described the branch as the gateway to Lagos.

He urged the members not to relent in their efforts at uplifting the society.

Ebiti urged members to donate generously towards the project, saying that Allah would reward them bountifully.

Chairman of the branch Alhaji Tajudeen Imran thanked all members for their commitment.

A renowned industrialist, and the Parakoyi of Ibadan land, Chief Bode Akindele, was the cynosure of all eyes at a well-attended thanksgiving service at the Methodist Church Cathedral, Agbeni, Ibadan and a lavish reception to mark his 80th birthday.

Both events were attended by ‘A’ list guests.

The celebrator was given a rousing reception by church members, well-wishers and other guests when the service began at 11:30am.

The church was decorated with cream and gold ribbons, even as family, friends, business associates thronged the ancient cathedral in the densely populated Agbeni.

Decked in a white and wine Aso Oke, the birthday ‘boy’ was accompanied by his two wives, Atema and Olabisi, as he stepped into the church hall in style.

The opening of the service was as memorable as any other aspect of the event. As the processional hymns were being rendered, the bishops marched in one after the other.

The presbyter, Rev. Opeyemi Awe, announced the purpose of the gathering with glee. He congratulated Chief Akindele.

Delivering a sermon entitled: The strength of those that put their trust in You, the Archbishop of Ibadan, Methodist Church, Nigeria, Bishop Kehinde Stephen, urged leaders and citizens be focused, disciplined and God-fearing.

He lamented the high rate of corruption in the country, saying: “We have to come to terms with God. Let us focus on all that is true.”

The cleric urged Nigerians to pursue all that is true, just as Saint Paul charged the people in the Bible.

He said the celebrator was renowned in many ways.

“He has touched many lives. We should emulate his lifestyle. Among others, Methodist Church, Nigeria is appreciative of your contributions towards the establishment of the Wesley University in Ondo,” the cleric said.

The celebrator donated some air conditioners, padding for the pews and an organ to the church to mark his birthday.

The church service was followed by a reception at the Banquet Hall of the celebrator’s home in Alomaja Village, Ibadan.

Bolaji Akindele, son of the celebrator, described his father as the best every child could wish for. He said he is very kind, courageous and worthy of emulation.

The celebrator thanked his family and guests for their love over the years.

The octogenarian said he was not aware of the party put together by his wives until four weeks ago, but thanked God that it was a success.

Dignitaries included Chairman, Dangote Group, Alhaji Aliko Dangote; Senator Gbenga Ashafa; Otunba Adeniyi Adebayo; Nobel laureate Prof Wole Soyinka; former Prelate of the Methodist Church, Nigeria, Dr. Sunday Mbang; former Archbishop of Ilesa Methodist Church, Ayo Ladigbolu (rtd); wife of the Prelate, Methodist Church, Mrs. Elizabeth Makinde; Very Rev. Bayo Akinlawon; Sir Bola Ogunsanwo; Chief Adebayo Akande; Chief Olu Falomo; Chief Olabisi Akindele; Bamidele Oladeji; Chief Olawale Kuye, Chief Aminat Abiodun; Vice-Chancellor (VC), Federal University of Technology, Prof. Biyi Daramola, represented by his Deputy VC (Academics), Prof. Adedayo Fashakin; Registrar, Dr. Modupe Ajayi, and the Dean, School of Management Technology, Prof. Zacheous Opafunsho, among others.

The Rotary Club of Festac Central, Lagos, has been chartered. Mrs Anthonia Agugoesi was decorated as its president. NNEKA NWANERI reports.

IT pays to be good and to wait on the Lord. This maxion holds true for Mrs Anthonia Agugoesi who is now reaping the reward of her good works. The Rotary Club of Festac Central invested her as the first president. The club was also chartered that day.

In line with the Rotary tradition, members were dressed in either traditional or English attires.

Despite the rain, which lasted till noon, many guests came to celebrate with her at the Golden Tulip Hotel, Amuwo Odofin, venue of the induction.

With the hotel decorated in the Rotary colours of blue and yellow, friends and various cliques occupied a table each.

The District Governor, Dr Kamoru Omotosho, welcomed guests, saying, it is a thing of joy for a mother to have a new child.

“Having been watching them with keen interest, I see this club is unique with a difference. Their expectation is very high. I see a lot of them adding value to the Rotary and my hopes keep rising for them,” he said.

The District governor lauded the Rotary Club of Festac for the high quality of preparation and impressive preparation. He urged that because of the essentiality of service to mankind, it is important to use service to thank God so that all can live a fulfilled life.

Omotosho was charged with the responsibility of performing the task of carrying out the induction and presentation of the club.

Decked in a black agbada, Omotosho called on Mrs Agugoesi and her team to stand out. They all quietly filed to the front, wearing beautiful smiles. They stood tall and smart before their guests in front of the hall.

He described the newly-inducted president as one with so much passion for the club.

“She has been given a role to play having been exemplary in everything the Rotary stands for – strength and substance,”he said.

After presenting her with a certificate of charter, he wore her the insignia of office and handed her a gong. She later decorated her officers with the Rotary lapel. The members of the board are men and women from various ethnic groups.

As she performed the task, she spoke to them in low tones: “I give you this to wear with pride and defend what you believe in”. To another, she said: “This pin speaks volumes of who you are and what you believe in anywhere around the world.”

In her acceptance speech, the new president gave a run down of some of the club’s project it hopes to undertake during her tenure, urging its members to employ prowess in nurturing and growing the club, as well as effective mentoring for members to be retained

Right after the induction, the guest speaker and Director-General of Nigerian Association of Chambers of Commerce, Industry, Mines and Agriculture (NACCIMA), Dr John Isemede, took to the microphone

He told of where the country was in the past and where it is gradually heading to. He said some actions should be taken lest Nigeria falls, adding that parents should go closer to their children to help them develop their future.

It was fun all through the evening as the guests held a raffle draw. Many went home with various packages.

The remains of the wife of Senator Ben Obi, Collete Ojirhomu, were laid to rest in Awka last Friday after a funeral service at the Old Tracas Stadium, Awka, Anambra State. NWANOSIKE ONU reports

For Senator Ben Ndi Obi, it was hard to say good bye to his jewel of inestimable value – the late Mrs Collete Ojirhomu Obi.

Mrs Obi, a former Nigerian Television Authority (NTA) member of staff member, died at 59.

The funeral service, held at the Old Tracas Stadium, Awka, Anambra State, last Friday, turned out to be a political carnival of sort, with notable politicians from within and outside the state in attendance.

The daily downpour in the past two weeks gave way to a clement weather, and even the vultures that used to gather around the stadium obeyed the instructions of the town crier.

Besides politicians, there was a large presence of royal fathers.

The politicians, especially the governorship aspirants in Anambra State, came in exotic cars while the women made fashion statements with their attires.

The brown casket, coated with silver, conveying the remains of the late NTA ‘Iron Lady’, kept sympathisers on their toes, with everyone straining neck to catch a glimpse of it.

The difference on that day was that there were no cultural displays, but the uniformed attires of many groups spoke volumes of whose funeral it was.

Security operatives from the police, Civil Defence, Federal Road Safety Commission (FRSC), State Security Service (SSS) to the military were on hand to ward off any problem.

The majestically dressed in-laws of the chief mourner, Senator Obi, from Jakpa, Uvwie Local Government Area, and those on his mother’s side from Itsekiri, Warri South Local Government Area, all in Delta State, added clour to the funeral. They held sympathisers and guests spell bound.

Many believed that the deceased left an indelible mark in Awka kingdom given the large number of people who came to pay their last respects to the her.

At the church service conducted by the Anglican Primate, Most Rev. Nicholas Okoh, he advised people to love one another the way Collete Obi did in her life time.

He said people should not cry for the deceased; rather they should weep for themselves, as the society’s values have been eroded because of the quest for wealth.

Rev. Okoh said: “People handle pains, agonies and disappointments in different ways; some take to drugs, yet without solution; some develop many relationships with opposite sex, among others, but only God can solve all our pains, sorrows, frustrations and agonies.

“Let us bring the value of selflessness, but if we ignore it and continue going the way we are going, the sun will rise in the West against us. Let us weep for our country and seek complete reconciliation between us and God.”

Others, who spoke after Rev. Okoh’s sermon, included Anambra State Governor Mr Peter Obi; Prince Arthur Ezeh and the deceased’s husband, Senator Obi.

He narrated how his in-laws treated him when his mother, who came from the same area with his late wife, died some years ago.

Obi said the difference between his late mother and his wife was that his wife’s wish was to be buried in Awka and not in Warri.

He thanked everybody that took part in the funeral, especially, Prince Ezeh; the traditional ruler of Awka, Obi Gibson Nwosu; Senators; the President and his cabinet; Awka people and Governor Peter Obi, for standing beside him all through.

Turning to the deceased, Obi said: “Collete, how do I go from here? It is unbelievable to fathom a life without you, after an existence that was creamed with your presence, my backbone and support.”

The Coordinator, Transform Nigeria Movement (TNM), Obi Ochije, praised the late Mrs Obi. He described her as a hard worker and a woman with listening ears.

Ochije prayed God to grant the Obi’s family the fortitude to bear the loss.

For the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) President Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor, it is not how well people lived on earth, but how they lived their lives.

Pastor Oritsejafor cited the lives of Aaron and Jesus who lived over 100 years and 33 years, adding that the truth is that Collete had gone but that God would continue to keep the family she left behind.

The reception ground in the same venue was decorated by Unique Rental Services of Awka.

The decoration was awesome. The arena was fully air conditioned and filled with people clicking glasses.

Two local bands entertained the visitors.

There were enough food and choice wines for all.

Among the dignitaries were former Vice President Atiku Abubakar; former Ebonyi State Governor Sam Egwu; former Senate Presidents Ken Nnamani and Adolphus Wagbara; Senator Jim Nwobodo; Ambassador Bianca Ojukwu; Chief Philip Asiodu; Gen. Ike Nwachukwu (rtd); Chief Tom Ikimi; Alhaji Idi Farouk; Senator Azu Agboti; Senator Uche Chukwumerije; Mike Ajaegbo and wife Julie; Prof Ben Nwabueze (SAN); Chief Audu Ogbeh; wife of People’s Democratic Party (PDP) Board of Trustee Chairman Mrs. Josephine Anenih; Prince Arthur Ezeh and Dr George Obiozor.

Also in attendance were Senator Hope Uzodinma; former Central Bank of Nigeria Governor Prof. Chukwuma Soludo; former Independent Electoral Commission (INEC) Chairman Prof Maurice Iwu; APGA Chairman Chief Victor Umeh; Alhaji Isiaku Ibrahim; Mr Bisi Olatilo; Southeast Traditional Council Chairman Eze Cletus Ilomuanya; Col Austine Akobundu; Prof Chinwe Obaje; Chief Clem Nwankwu; Chief Chidi Anyaegbu; Chief Tony Okam; Zik Obi; Igwe Chris Onyekwuluje; Amb Jerry Ugokwe; Most Rev Paul Udogu; Most Rev Emmanuel Chukwuma and Most Rev Christian Efobi, among others.

A former National Life journalist, Rev Timothy Oyeola, has given out his daughter in holy matrimony to Samuel Fele, an engineer, at the Fear of God Gospel Ministry (FGGM), Akute, Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports

June 8 would linger in the memory of Rev Timothy Oyeola, the President of Fear of God Gospel Ministry (FGGM) and the Feles. Their children Victoria and Samuel got married that day.

The couple is from Ekiti State.

Samuel is a graduate of the Lagos State Polytechnic (LASPOTECH); his love, Victoria, is a graduate of Political Science from the University of Ibadan.

The ceremony started with the engagement at the FGGM in Akute, Ogun State.

It was followed by the wedding in the same venue. The church choir opened the floor with praise songs and stylish dance steps.

The groom was the first to enter the church accompanied by his best man. The bride followed.

Pastor Joseph Atunase took the Bible reading from Philippians 2:1.

Pastor Moses Oyeola, in his exhortation, noted that marriage is an honourable estate instituted by God and it signifies the union between Christ and the Church.

He said: “Marriage is not a thing to be rushed into. It should not be undertaken to satisfy our carnal lust and appetites, but it should be done in the fear of God.”

Pastor Samuel Oduntan joined the couple in holy matrimony. After they took their vows, the Pastor joined them. Exchange of rings followed.

In his sermon, Pastor Oluwole Oluwatemi told the couple to ensure the spirit of God dwells in their home, adding that, this is the only way they can live in peace and harmony. He urged them to build their marriage on unconditional love and a forgiving spirit.

The couple with their parents and some pastors went for the signing of the marriage register, after which Pastor Moses presented the marriage certificate to the couple.

The reception followed at Martins Memorial Methodist Church, Akute.

Seyi Best and his Life Band entertained guests.

The couple cut their four-step cake designed by gifted hands and minds.

The couple took to the floor to dance to their hearts content. Guests joined them on the dance floor.

Samuel decked in black suit and a lemon shirt thanked God for making the day a reality.

“Our marriage today is God’s arrangement because when I met her about seven years ago, we were just friends but, today, the story has changed. Everything about her attracted her to me and she carries all the qualities that I ever wanted in my woman; she is beautiful, focused and supportive,” he said.

Victoria, in her white flowing gown, described her husband as the most handsome man in the world.

“For me, everything about him is attractive; he has all the qualities I want in my man,” she added.

The couple’s parents wore green lace.

The groom’s mother, Mrs Felica Fele, urged the couple to stay close to God in their endeavours.

The groom’s father is late and was represented by one of the groom’s elder brother’s, Mr Femi Fele.

The bride’s father, Rev Oyeola said: “I am happy about the celebration of the day. It is a great joy seeing Victoria, our last born and the only female child, getting married.”

He urged the couple to serve God with all their hearts.

How to Persuade reluctant audience

We have been having a nice time talking about persuasive speech. We are deliberately spending quality time on this type of speech because it is what I will like call an “action speech.” While I was in school, I often wondered how applicable some of the things I was learning were. What is the relationship between theory and practice? If, for instance, I studied business management in school, does that mean I can go right ahead and manage a business? Well, information alone has the tendency of leaving us hanging if we don’t know how to convert it into useful activities. Hence, persuasive speech always aims at showing its audience an action path, how to walk therein and the time to start, which is now!

Last week, we examined some of the challenges a persuasive speaker is likely to face, which are making the audience to listen, dealing with attitudes towards commitment and dealing with ethical challenges. Today, we shall be exploring the ways we can persuade reluctant listeners. The strategies we shall be discussing are very important and they can make a difference when you really need success. Now, let’s check them out:

• Win goodwill early: you cannot possibly speak to people who have not accepted your person. Your listeners must accept you before they accept you ideas. So, at the very beginning of your speech, you must win the hearts of your listeners. One of the most effective ways to do this is to associate with them. Look for what you have in common with them- culture, past experiences, values, mutual respect for an iconic person known to your audience, etc. Simply put, start on a friendly note. It is easier to persuade friends than to persuade enemies.

• Begin with areas of mutual agreement: you will be making a terrible mistake if you begin your speech on sensitive and controversial issues. You will be killing the cow before milking it. If you want to make a presentation about improving management efficiency in your organization, you don’t begin by condemning current practices and blaming people for the situation. You have to begin by appreciating efforts made so far, and then go on to talk about there always being room for improvement. Who would disagree with that? To persuade people, you should look for areas in which you agree, and then you can move gradually towards your point. Always respect your audience.

• Present your points instead of rejecting theirs: focus your attention on explaining your points with as much clarity and facts as possible. If your preoccupation is to disabuse their minds, you will spend more time arguing. You will end up getting yourself into situations that are better avoided.

• Cite authorities accepted and respected by your audience: this is a very good means of winning the goodwill of your audience. If your talk is on the prevention of HIV/AIDS through abstinence, for instance, and your listeners are youths, you may want to cite a movie star, musician or fashion legend as an example. If they truly respect and accept that individual, they will also respect his/her views.

• Don’t aim too high: it may amount to a tall dream if you expect that the entire (formerly unsympathetic) members of the audience would simply “fall at your feet” at the end of your speech and accept all you say. While this happens easily in movies, real life is something else. Don’t set goals that are too high for yourself. If they listen to you enough to consider your points as being realistic, you have achieved a lot already. If they are willing to listen to you again sometime in the future, it means they may buy your idea after more clarification. And if they are willing to act according to your suggestions, then congratulations!

• Make a balanced presentation: throughout your speech, your listeners should be able to see that you are mindful of all sides of the argument. You shouldn’t focus on your own points alone so that you don’t seem narrow minded. Your audience must believe that you have considered all sides before taking your stand.

Above are some strategies that will help you to convince your reluctant audience. These are just few points, and I suggest you read more on the topic. With this, we have come to the end of our adventure on persuasive speech. But, hey, we are not done yet! There are other types of speeches to explore and I’m sure you’ll really enjoy them. Watch out.

ARCO Petrochemical Engineering Plc held a dinner on Thursday last week in Lagos to honour the President, Society of Petroleum Engineers (SPE) International and Chairman, Guaranty Trust Bank (GTBank) Sir Egbert Imomoh, reports NNEKA NWANERI.

SIR Egbert Imomoh has entered the Guinness Book of Records as the first black and African to become the President, Society of Petroleum Engineers International.

“His future was predicted by the headmaster of Immaculate Conception High School, Enugu, because he was studious and intelligent. The prophecy has come to pass. He has made us proud nationally and internationally by erasing the negative perception the world has about Nigeria,” said former Minister of Petroleum Chief Don Etiebet, who has been a friend and colleague of Imomoh since their primary school days.

Last Thursday, his colleagues gathered at the Sky Restaurant, on the topmost floor of Eko Hotels and Suites, Victoria Island, Lagos, to felicitate with him.

As guests stepped out of the elevator, they were greeted by a waiter, who handed them a glass of wine during the cocktail before the dinner.

The hall was conducive. While they drank and chatted, old friends caught up recent happenings.

The view was stunning. The Atlantic Ocean was seen through a glass. The scenery was enchanting and guests were relaxed.

Saxophonist Yemi Sax played scintillating tunes.

Two hours after cocktail, guests were ushered into the restaurant, where the tables were already set for dinner. It was segmented by shiny crystal decorations.

Frank Edoho of Who Wants to be a Millionaire anchored the ceremony.

Hon Uduimo Itsueli prayed to the kick start the event.

Chief Executive Officer of ARCO Petrochemicals Alfred Okoigun, in a welcome address, said the honour for Sir Egbert was well-deserved, adding that being the second Nigerian to become Deputy Director of Shell Exploration after Mr Godwin Omene earned him the name ‘Mr Shell’.

He added that it took Imomoh six months to agree to the dinner date. He thanked him for excelling in the global arena and making the country proud.

A similar dinner was hosted last year by ARCO for former minister of Power Prof Barth Nnaji and Dr Henrietta Ugwu, in London, for excelling in science and technology.

“He has distinguished himself in the true sense of it, considering what the world thinks of Nigerians. He has exhibited his nationalism and changed the industry to be of world class through his intellectualism”, Okoigun said.

He appealed to Sir Egbert to come back after his tenure to help develop the country.

Every speaker poured encomiums on Sir Egbert. He was in the spotlight.

To Ademola Adeyemi – Bero, Sir Egbert is a friend, confidante and a living example.

One of Sir Egbert’s sisters, Mrs Gloria Aiyegbusi relieved how they lost their father at a tender age and were educated by an illiterate mother.

“All I can say is that with God, all things are possible,” she said.

Sir Egbert was short of words to respond to all that was said about him. He said though he studied Mechanical Engineering for his first degree, he has never practised. With stories to illustrate, he told his friends and associates of how he renews his passport every 18 months because he travels often.

“People now call me VIPP- meaning Visa in Previous Passports. I have gone to places I never dreamt of and met people I never thought I will meet. I have no home; I sleep in hotels and aeroplanes. All I do is seek good and do what is right,” he said.

Giving an insight into what he hopes to do when he retires in October, he said: “I will rest and enjoy my life with my wife and children who are scattered all over the world.”

Sir Egbert was born in 1945. He hails from Agenebode in Edo State. He attended St Patrick and St Theresa Primary Schools, in Zaria, Kaduna State. He graduated from the University of Birmingham in 1968 and he bagged a Doctorate Degree of Science from the University of Port Harcourt in 2012.

He is a Knight of the Order of the Knights of St Mulumba.

At the event were: Managing Director of Ecobank, Jubril Aku; Chairman of Channels TV, John Momoh; The Nation Editorial Board Chairman, Mr Sam Omatseye; Chairman ICMG Securities Ltd, Michael Osime; Rev Anthony Fadairo of Divine Mercy Catholic Church, Lekki; Chairman, Sovereign Trust Insurance Ltd, Ephraim Faloughi.

Also present were some students.

The University of Lagos Muslim Alumni (UMA) held its 19th Pre-Ramadan lecture last Sunday in Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI was there.

The downpour did not prevent many from attending the event. They walked all the way to the auditorium from the park.

Guests came in exotic cars. Security officials and ushers stood in and outside the hall to ensure that guests were comfortable.

The hall was decorated in pink, blue and cream. Many of the guests were in traditional attires; many women donned hijabs.

Men sat on the right, women on the left.

It was the 19th pre-Ramadan lecture organised by the University of Lagos Muslim Alumni with the theme: Corruption and justice in Nigeria.

Dignitaries, members of the association and well-wishers converged on the main auditorium of the school last Sunday for the event.

The event started with the opening du’a and recitation from the holy Quran. It also featured the award of postgraduate scholarships to some applicants. Six doctorate and 12 Masters students were given scholarship.

The association’s Deputy President and Chairman of the Scholarship Committee, Dr Khalid Adekoya, said the scholarships were given to encourage Muslims in their academics.

In his welcome address, the President of the association, Alhaji Lere Alimi, said “corruption is the main reason for the decay in our educational system, health facilities, security system and infrastructure.

“Funds that are supposed to be used to provide amenities by the government have been either embezzled, misapplied or misappropriated,” he said.

Chairman on the occasion, Alhaji Yusuf Ali (SAN) said: “Doing away with corruption will benefit the entire country. Ramadan is a time to renew our minds and set the pace for others.”

The first guest speaker was the former chairman, Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), Mallam Nuhu Ribadu. He argued that corruption is the major factor undermining the nation’s independence, economy and politics.

He expressed concern over the level of corruption in Nigeria, saying so many corrupt people get away with their acts, largely because of their relationships with heads of institutions that ought to counter or expose their abuse of office.

He added that the National and State Assemblies, independent and incorruptible judiciary, the law enforcement agencies have to be enhanced to win the war against corruption.

National Missioner, Nasrul-Lahi-L-Faith Society of Nigeria (NASFAT), Sheikh Abdullah Akinbode, enjoined Muslims to be faithful and trust worthy.

Sheikh Akinbode urged them to do that which is right and to shun evil.

“We should reconstruct ourselves and redefine our strategies, renew our minds to achieve the life Allah wants us to live. This is what we should ensure during Ramadan,” he said.

Lagos State Governor Babatunde Raji Fashola, who was represented by the Senior Special Assistant on Religious Matters (Islam), Hakeem Kosoko, said Ramadan is a time for Muslims to be steadfast in the teachings and practise of Islam.

“We are expected to be of good conduct, good behaviour and do what will be beneficial to people around us in and out of Ramadan,” he said.

Justice Habeeb Wale Abiru of the Court of Appeal, described Ramadan as a time to unite and understand what it takes to be a human being

He enjoined religious leaders to shun corruption, saying that when we have a corrupt-free nation, everyone will benefit.

He noted that the proceed from the fund raiser would be used for the common good of the people.

Vice Chancellor, University of Lagos, Prof Rahaman Bello, said Ramadan is a season for spiritual engagement.

Action Congress of Nigeria National Legal Adviser Dr Muiz Banire said Ramadan teaches mankind how to be generous and be one’s brothers’ keeper.

“We must watch over our neighbours and ensure that they are happy with us. It is a season to share with others because some people do not have at all. Religious leaders should not just preach, but must set good examples for others in their behaviours,” he said.

Inner Wheel Club has held its yearly general meeting in Lagos. Two new clubs were presented with their charter certificates on the occasion. BUKUNMI OGUNDARE reports.

The Vocational Training Centre of the International Inner Wheel District 911, Amuwo Odofin, Lagos State, was a beehive as members gathered for the yearly general meeting and presentation of certificates to new clubs.

The twin events featured the presentation of charter certificates to two new clubs in Lagos and Ogun states.

Members and friends of the club trooped into the venue as early as 10 am.

Most of them shone in native attires; a few were on English wears.

The decoration of the hall spoke volume. It was beautifully done in various colours, with blue and yellow standing out.

Welcoming guests, the club’s President, Mrs Taiwo Adisa, thanked all for their support over the years.

After her speech, chartered certificates were presented to Igbe, a suburb of Ikorodu and Olumo in Abeokuta, Ogun State as new clubs.

“The clubs were presented with the certificates because they have been up-to-date with their financial obligations,” Mrs Adisa said.

There was excitement when the new clubs were presented with their certificates. Receiving the certificate as Chartered President for Igbe Ikorodu, Mrs Wemimo Olasanya, praised the club for its foresight in granting certificates to the two clubs, saying it will open new opportunities for the club to extend its hands of fellowship to more members of the society in providing them relief materials and making available projects that will better the lives of the host communities and Nigeria at large.

She said the presentation of the certificate is a dream come true.

“It has being a long time dream for me, but I was only waiting for the appointed time. When the time came, I quickly swung into action by forming Inner Wheel Igbe Ikorodu Club. They are already well-informed because we meet once in a month to look at the club’s programme and discuss its progress. Thank God we are granted the certificate today,” she said.

She said she had been able to introduce the Inner Wheel Club core objectives and programmes to the members and they promised to work in accordance with the the constitution and for service to humanity.

Guests on the occasion include Vice Chairman, Inner wheel, Mrs Yemisi Alatise; Mrs Lanre Olomofe Kufeji; former Chairman Mrs Zainab Ikheloa; Victoria Ikogwe; Meg Adegoke; Mrs Sumbo Osunbayo and Mrs. Joe Ebo.

Politicians gathered in Jattu, Estako West Local Government Area of Edo State for the funeral of Pastor Francis Shaibu, father of Majority Leader of the House of Assembly, Hon Philip Shaibu. OSAGIE OTABOR was there.

HE was described as a prayer warrior and a music lover; a good organiser of men and women; a man who believed in the welfare of others.

These were some of the tributes paid to the late Pastor Francis Shaibu, father of Majority Leader of the Edo State House of Assembly, Philip Shaibu.

Pastor Shaibu died on June 23, and the funeral took place within one week in accordance with his wish that his remains should not be kept in the mortuary before interment.

Those who spoke at the funeral service said the late Pastor Shaibu had a premonition of his death. He was said to have paid all his dues at the Estako Progressive Union in Kaduna; asked for forgiveness from those he offended and requested his children not to mourn him for long.

The death of Pastor Shaibu, according to his son, Philip, came to the family as a surprise as there were moves to relocate him from his Kaduna base to his Jattu hometown. Philip said his father promised to return by December but returned home much earlier.

The funeral began with a service of songs and lying-in-state at his Jattu residence. It was well attended by Philip’s political associates.

Pastor George Okpebholo and a close friend of the deceased urged the gathering not to be sorrowful but to thank God for the life of the late Pastor Shaibu.

He recounted their days in the ministry and urged the children to follow in their father’s footstep.

Politicians of different political leanings stormed Jattu for the funeral. All hotels at Auchi and its environs were fully booked.

At the service held at the DPS Event Centre, Jattu, the hall, which was decorated with blue and white was filled to capacity. Many sympathisers could not gain entrance; others stood till the service ended.

Children and grand-children of the deceased wore white and were in a sorrowful mood. Dignitaries came from Kaduna to attend the funeral.

Revd. Godwin Isah, who delivered the sermon, urged the congregation to do good at all times, bearing in mind what people would say after their death.

Governor Adams Oshiomhole, in his tributes, recounted how the late Pastor Shaibu encouraged him to further his studies in Kaduna. He said the deceased helped to organise Estako Women Union in Kaduna and served as the secretary.

Oshiomhole said: “I knew our late brother much more than people understand. Francis encouraged me to further my education. He introduced me to where I enrolled as an architectural draughtman. Our brother helped me and encouraged me to grow.”

The governor urged the sympathisers to always tell the truth at all times, saying Nigeria was in trouble being led by men and women who try to bury the truth.

Philip described his father’s death as a shock because they were preparing for his return home.

“A week before he died, he told my brother that if he died he should be buried where people are being buried and that he should not be kept in a mortuary,” he said.

Guests at the event included Edo State Deputy Governor Dr Pius Odubu; Commissioner for Works, Hon Osarodion Ogie Oluwole Iyamu; South south Vice Chairman of Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN), Pastor Osagie Ize-Iyamu; members of Edo State House of Assembly led by Speaker Uyi Igbe; Hons Paschal Ugbome, Garuba Zakawanu and Godwin Imoudu; ACN Women Leader Modina Emovon, Director of State Security Service Bakori Bello-Tukur, among others.

Old students of Olivet Baptist High School, Oyo State, have held their yearly dinner and award night at the Lagos Sheraton Hotel and Towers, Ikeja, reports SEUN AKIOYE

INNUMERABLE lights dazzled the eyes as one stepped into the expensively furnished banquet hall of the Lagos

Sheraton Hotel and Towers, Ikeja, venue of the yearly dinner and awards night of old students of Olivet Baptist High School, Olivet Heights, Oyo State, last Sunday.

The alumni association has eight chapters – Lagos, Ibadan, Osogbo, Abeokuta, Abuja, Kano, Delta and the United Kingdom.

At the right corner of the hall stood a small band, which played evergreen highlife music. Men and women stood in small groups exchanging pleasantries and engaging in discussions, which were intermittently followed by hearty laughs, pumping of hands and tight hugs, especially by friends who had not seen for long.

As more people arrived, the groups expanded, with the new comers taking their seats. Some were elaborately dressed, others modestly.

The Olivetians – as the old students call themselves – are from diverse backgrounds but are united by a common belief which they hold to passionately: that their alma mater is the best secondary school in Africa.

At the gathering were captains of industry who had made their marks in their fields; politicians, legal luminaries and media gurus.

The alumni’s brazen display of love and affection for their alma mater delighted the non-Olivetians present.

After the exchange of pleasantries and with all seated, the school anthem was sung by Lola Odele.

“The foresight of God’s own people, a new school created…by the highway stands the school, breaking, moulding, preparing for the future. Olivet Heights my school, oh my school,” brought back old memories.

The association’s President, Mr Olusegun Ahmadu, an engineer, said the dinner was organised to bring old students together, identify and celebrate those who have excelled at their professions. He said the dinner provided a platform to draw attention to the beloved Olivet Heights.

“We have rehabilitated the famous Jubilee Hall; we have also upgraded and dualised the road leading to the principal’s office. We donated a Toyota Coaster bus for the use of the students,” Ahmadu said to the delight of the gathering. But he warned that a lot still need to be done to develop Olivet High School and education in Nigeria.

” We need to partner to develop education in this country. These days you see students roam around streets at a time they should be in classes. They have little parental care. They go to bars and restaurants and share things with adults. We appeal to the government to allow us to partner to develop education,” Ahmadu said.

Seven distinguished alumni were honoured for their contributions to the school and the society. Leading the group was Speaker, Oyo State House of Assembly Hon. Monsurat Jumoke Sunmonu.

Others were Dr. Olasupo Ayokunle; Registrar, Samuel Adegboyega University in Edo State, Mr Adeleke Adeboye; Permanent Secretary, Osun State Civil Service, Chief Bidemi Agbedahunsi; a lawyer, Mr. Biodun Laniyonu; Ayo Shamond an architect and a law Professor at the University of Lagos, Taiwo Osipitan (SAN).

The event was not just about singing and dancing. The former students also charted a way for the development of Nigeria. The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) Chairman, Prof Attahiru Jega was the guest speaker.

Jega decried the state of education as he identified ‘chronic underfunding’ as the critical factor militating against the sector. He praised the industry of Olivetians, saying two old students of the college work at the management level at INEC.

“I am proud to associate with you; your ambassadors at INEC are proud examples of your industry,” he said.

While he praised the Olivetians for what they have achieved for their beloved alma mater, he urged them to continue in their efforts to lift education. The INEC boss also listed some of his programmes to ensure free and fair elections in 2015.

He assured that even if corrupt politicians get hold of the voter’s cards it will be impossible to use them.

“Even if politicians’ succeed in buying these cards, on voting day in 2015, God willing, it will be useless. We believe this is an important step forward that can add to the credibility of the electoral process.”

As the evening wore on and the heavens opened up, the Olivetians continued their celebration. Toasts were given, speeches made and banters shared. Senior students mingled with the juniors, sharing drinks and discussing latest business trends. There was no discrimination, just a common love for Olivet Heights.

Olivet Baptist High School was founded by American Southern Baptist Mission on January 29, 1945. The school became a force in the 1960s when it excelled in inter-school academic competitions and sports, earning its place in the hall of greatness.

Some of the notable old students include Ayoola Oba Otudeko; former governors of Ekiti and Oyo states Ayodele Fayose and Rasheed Ladoja; Chairman, First Bank of Nigeria and Chairman of the event Prince Ajibola Afonja; businessman and Chairman, Bi-Courtney Ltd, Wale Babalakin; Director-General, Nigeria Hydrological Services Agency, Ayo Shamonda; President, Nigeria Baptist Convention, Revd. Olasupo Ayokunle.

Others at the event were Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) National Publicity Secretary Alhaji Lai Mohammed and Speaker, Lagos State House of Assembly Hon. Adeyemi Ikuforiji.

Have you ever heard this saying, ‘it is easier said than done’? Well, one hears that a lot when it comes to public speaking. A lot of people believe it is easier to pile up principles about speaking than actually doing it. On the other extreme are those who think there is nothing at all to speaking. ‘Anyone can speak,’ they would say, ‘so why learn it?’ Today, I have brought you a meeting point between these two opinions. Every once in a while, I will be interjecting our topics on public speaking with interviews of public speakers who would share their experiences and lessons over the years. This is aimed at making you see that public speakers are made and not born, the most unlikely people can become effective speakers, challenges can be overcome, and that self development, diligence and excellence are non-negotiable.

It is my pleasure to bring you the first icon in this series. He is a distinguished personality who has influenced too many people for one to attempt to count. Not only is he a mentor, he also supervised my thesis. I proudly present to you Professor Idowu Akanbi Sobowale. I will give you a little background on his life, and then leave him to speak for himself.

Professor Idowu Akanbi Sobowale

Idowu Sobowale was born in a village called Ashipa, near Abeokuta, Ogun State, Nigeria, and his parents were peasant farmers. At the age of 13, all he could think of was an apprenticeship at a mechanic workshop. Fortunately, he moved to Lagos to stay with his brother, who enrolled him at St. Peter’s UNA School, Oyingbo, to spend two years in primary school and be numerated in preparation for his apprenticeship. When he had an excellent result in the elementary school, his brother decided he could sit for entrance examinations to four high schools, and he passed them all. He attended Baptist Academy, Lagos, and later went on to the University of Lagos for his Diploma and Degree in Mass Communication, and Syracuse University, where he completed both his M.Sc. and Ph.D in three years. Idowu Sobowale also has wealth of professional experience as he worked in and rose to the position of a senior editor at the Daily Times newspaper, and also served as Managing Director/Chief Executive of Prime People, among several others. As a government official, he served as a Special Adviser on Education during the administration of Alhaji Lateef Jakande, he served in the same position under the administration of Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, and later became the Honorable Commissioner for Education in the same administration, all in Lagos State. Professor Idowu Akanbi Sobowale is currently the Head of Department, Mass Communication, in Covenant University, Ota, Ogun State. Here are his views.

Interest in Communication: My interest in communication started when I was in form 3 at Baptist Academy. I had a senior, Ajibade Fasina Thomas, who was later to become a reputable sports journalist at the Daily Times; he was reporting school activities on the notice board, and I just took after him when he graduated. After that, the day Chief Olabisi Onabanjo, former Ogun State Governor, was released from detention for the treasonable trial of Chief Obafemi Awolowo and other notable Nigerian politicians, a delegation went to see him from the school. He was the managing director of the Daily Express then, so I told him I was interested in journalism, and would like him to engage me in the Daily Service. He said no, that the Daily Service was dying, but his friend, Alhaji Babatunde Jose, had just established a training school at the Daily Times and he would give me a note to him. He wrote a note instantly. I took the note immediately to Alhaji Jose, who minuted on it and sent me to Ikoyi, where the school was. That was how I started in the Daily Times training school, which also began that day. Ten of us were to spend one year, but after one month, our Australian instructor took two of us and sent us to the newsroom to continue our learning.

First time before a crowd: that was probably when I was in the primary school, because I was the Senior Prefect. I was also the Labour Prefect in secondary school, so I had to face students.

Initial anxiety about speaking: The first few occasions were not easy. I was afraid and I probably stammered. But when I became a journalist, it became rather common for me to face people, interview them and ask questions. Also, when I became the Chairman of the committee that transferred pupils from private to public schools in Lagos State, I had to address mammoth crowds. So, from then on it was easier. But when I became a lecturer, speaking became a way of life.

How to out-grow stage fright: If you speak consistently for a number of times, you will muster sufficient courage. Secondly, there are some techniques that can be adopted such as looking at the crowd instead of a particular person. Sometimes I look my audience in the face and some other times I don’t even look at anybody at all.

Last Sunday, the convener of Awesome Treasures Women Foundation, Mrs Jumoke Adenowo, launched a book titled: Designed for marriage at the Muson Centre, Onikan, Lagos. NNEKA NWANERI reports.

They filled the seats listening with rapt attention to speaker after speaker.

It was the mid-year summit of the Awesome Treasures Foundation, with the theme: Marriage: where are the real men.

Women turned out in their Sunday best. Even the married ones looked chic. They were accompanied by their husbands. The younger ones were gorgeous in their outfits. There were as many men as there were women. Everyone came to gain something from the talk.

Comedian Ali Baba anchored the event. He spiced the occasion with rib-cracking jokes.

It was an interactive session, featuring notable personalities, such as the Managing Director of Standard Chartered Bank, Mr Korede Adenowo; Managing Director, L’Oreal Central West Africa, Idorenyen Enang; Chief Executive Officer of Stanbic IBTC Bank Yinka Sanni and Tonye Cole, the Executive Director of Sahara Group.

They sat on the stage, which was set in form of a sitting room with a centre table. They were visible from every angle of the hall. A large banner bearing Awesome Treasure, with its lion head logo, was hung on the wall.

The discussion centred on how leadership starts from the home. Many of the discussants spoke on the many challenges that mar young marriages.

At the end, it was agreed that real men are those who bear their responsibilities and are masters of their households.

Just as the session was about to end, Ekiti State Governor, Kayode Fayemi walked in with his entourage. He was clad in an all-white agbada.

The governor waited on the front row of the hall till he was called upstage to present the book, Designed for Marriage. As he stepped up, he acknowledged cheers from the audience.

Lauding Mrs Jumoke Adenowo for her love for youths and how she is contributing to national development, Fayemi described her as a true Ekiti daughter, though married to an Ijebu man.

He urged couples to sustain their partnership for the benefit of all, recommending the book to public office holders, campuses and the political class.

Former Deputy Governor of Lagos State Princess Sarah Sosan said the book is a must- have for the married and those who intend to marry.

“This is good for the youth who have now found themselves in critical moments.” she said.

On the book, Mrs Adenowo said it was based on her experiences in counselling, real-life situations as well as time-tested wisdom.

“So, I decided to have an interactive session with real men who live in the real world and face real issues so all can ask questions, speak up and be heard, because we need education on what it means to be a real man.

“No marriage is perfect but I believe men and women can find imperfect spouses who are a perfect fit for them, just as simple as following some basic principles,” she added.

Others at the event were General Overseer of Guiding Light Assembly, Ikoyi, Pastor Wale Adefarasin, and Lt Col Paul Edorobi (rtd) among others.

Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) Board of Trustees (BoT) member Chief Chris Uba has  given out his daughter Nonye in marriage to Anyim (Jnr), son of Senator Anyim Udeh, at Uga in Aguata Local Government Area of Anambra State. ODOGWU EMEKA ODOGWU reports. 

THE couple rode on the political wings of their parents. The groom is the son of a Senator and the bride, the daughter of Chief Chris Uba, a member of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) Board of Trustees (BoT). So, on June 29, all roads led to Umuoru Village in Uga, Aguata Local Government Area of Anambra State, for the traditional wedding of Anyim Udeh (Jnr), son of Senator Anyim Udeh and Nonye, Uba’s daugther.

It was a grand ceremony which attracted the who is who in Anambra and Ebonyi states and other parts of the country. They came to Uga, the Uba’s countryhome for the fairytale wedding. The Junior Udeh, an Abuja-based businessman is the fourth child of the Senator. They hail from Akaeze village in Ebonyi State.

Over four groups wore a uniform fabric aso ebi, with each accompanying the bride, the groom, the bride’s mother, and the Uba family.

The ceremony began around 3:30pm.

Chief Morroco Maduka and his band as well as a musician, Flavour, entertained guests before the arrival of the community elders.

They asked Nonye to go and collect a cup of palm wine from her father as tradition to give her to husband.

Nonye complied; walked round; knelt before a handsome guy and handed him the cup of palm wine, a gesture that signifies, “take me as your wife.”

Anyim (Jnr) drank from the cup and returned it with a wad of notes.

The gathering yelled as the duo stood up, dancing towards the elders who called on some dignitaries to pray for them.

Blessing the couple, Uba prayed God to bless the union. He urged his daughter to love her husband.

“Any day you have a problem, don’t call me or your mother, but go to God. He has a solution to every problem,” he said.

Deputy Senate President Senator Ike Ekweremadu enjoined the couple to live in peace and to place God first in all they do.

The groom’s father, Senator Udeh, who has been in public service for over 46 years, said: “It is a thing of joy for parents to be alive and see their children through educational institutions and get to the age of getting married. I pray God to give them as many children as they want and the resources to train the children. I expect them to go beyond the level I attained in life.”

Senator Andy Uba urged his niece to respect her husband.

“I will want them to respect themselves. We have never abused our wives in my family. My prayer is that they will live together forever till death do them part; and they will be better, richer, and more prosperous than we all are,” he said.

Chief Victor Umeh, the factional national Chairman of All Progressive Grand Aliance (APGA)said: “People from all parts of Nigeria are here to witness this event and, because of that, they have no option in life than to live together in love. Marriage is not as easy as people think. But with love and prayer, they will succeed.”

In their vote of thanks, the couple prayed God to grant the guests journey mercies back home and replenish their purse.

Nonye said: “I am glad for today. For those who are still waiting for their Mr. Right, let them pray and be patient; with time, everything will take its normal shape.”

Anyim (Jnr) said Nonye is the apple of his eyes.

“Based on my relationship with God, I know she is the wife I have been waiting for. She is really wonderful and I am grateful to God,” he said.

In attendance were governors of Anambra and Abia states Peter Obi and Theodore Orji and their Kano State counterpart, Rabiu Kwankwaso; Senators Ayogu Eze (Enugu); Bello Tukur (Adamawa); Kabir Marafa (Zamfara); Garuba Gamawa (Bauchi); Nenadi Usman (Kaduna); Aisha Al-Hassan (Taraba) and the Deputy Speaker, House of Representatives Hon. Emeka Ihedioha.

Also there were Former Minister of Foreign Affairs, Major-Gen. Ike Nwachukwu; former Governor of Old Anambra, Jim Nwobodo; former Minister of Aviation, Ambassador Kema Chikwe; the Corp Marshal of Federal Road Safety Commission (FRSC) Chief Osita Chidioka; former Inspector-General of Police Ogbonnaya Onovo; Special Adviser to the President on National Assembly Matters, Senator Joy Emodi and her Technical Matters Counterpart, Chief Nze Akachukwu Nwankpo; Enugu State Commissioner of Lands, Dr. Emeka Ujam; Hon Justice Chuma of Ebonyi State High Court; Dr Alex Obiogbolu; Arthur Nwandu; Treasurer of Ohaneze Ndigbo Damian Okeke; Anambra State House of Assembly members, Hon Rebecca Udorji, Val Anyika and Tony Muonagor.

The son of Deputy Chairman,  House of Representatives Committee on Finance, Yomi Ogunnusi, Moyosore, got married to his hearthrob Joy last Saturday at the Catholic Church of Presentation, GRA, Ikeja, Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

It was fun when Joy and Moyosore went to the altar to say ‘Yes, I do’.

Families, friends and well wishers gathered for the celebration of love.

Many came in exotic cars, dressed in traditional attires.

The groom, Moyosore, wore a sharp blue suit with a white shirt; his bride was in a flowing cream gown with a pair of white flat shoes.

The bride’s father was clad in an expensive black suit and white shirt. The groom’s father was in blue agbada and cap to match.The couple’s mothers wore the same pink native attire with a blue head gear and ipele to match.

The church hall was painted white and decorated in pink, blue and gold. For the reception at Banquet Event Centre, Ikeja, the decoration was the same as that of the church, but the chairs were set round tables. There were ushers at strategic points, welcoming guests and ensuring their comfort. They wore pink Ankara dress with black shoes. Itinerant drummers were rewarded for their service.

Igumbor Kingsley, a.k.a Kaycee and Akuidolo Oreraogbheme a.k.a. Forever were the masters of ceremony.

The event was spiced up by DJ Lammy and Ajegede live band.

Joy, a Nursing Science graduate of Babcock University in Ilishan Remo, Ogun State, hails from Delta State. Moyosore, an Economics graduate of the same school, is from Ogun State. He later studied International Business and Management at the University of Manchester for his Masters. They met seven years ago at Babcock.

Senator Oluremi Tinubu urged the couple to take good care of their children and love each other perfectly, noting that marriage comes with its ups and downs. Senator Tinubu said God would see them through.

She said the most important thing in the life of any couple is that they should have love just as the Bible says, ‘Love conquers all things’.

“They should make sure that they are able to maintain the love they share, so that it will endure and keep them to the end. From loving each other, they will understand the love of Christ, and that is the most important love of all. I wish them all the best; a graceful life and a fruitful marriage,”she said.

Managing Director African Independent Television, Mrs Tosin Dokpesi urged the couple to put God first because without God they can never make a home.

“They should make God their solid rock so that things will go well and they should always pray for wisdom of God to guide them. I wish them all the best,” she said.

A renowned essayist, Prof Adebayo Williams, said the wedding was a Nigerian wedding where two tribes have come together to be one.

Chairman of the occasion Prince Lowo Adedeji praised the parents for taking good care of their children.

Adedeji, the Chief Executive Officer of Oba Foot Holding Ltd, told the bride: “Be careful of your friends, especially the ones that are not married, or the ones that have issues with their marriages. There should be no third party in your marriage, not even your in-laws or your parents. Marriage is ordained by God, therefore, all issues should go back to God.”

After the couples had kissed and cut the cake at the spelling of J-E-S-U-S, they took to the dancing floor. Others joined them.

Earlier at the church service, the opening prayer was said by the Revd Father Alfred Matthew Nworie.

The church choir sang the hymns and songs.

In his sermon, Bishop, Catholic Diocese of Ijebu-Ode, Bishop Albert Fasima, said marriage should be a reflection of the love of God. He urged the wife to be respectful, and told the husband: “Love your wife even as Christ loved the church.”

He urged them to train their children in the way of the Lord, praying that God would grant them wisdom, knowledge and understanding.

The couple exchanged rings; after which they were presented as the latest couple in town.

The groom’s father, Otunba Ogunnusi, enjoined the couple to be prayerful.

The bride’s mother, Mrs. Olusola Njokanma, advised them to learn to forgive each other daily.

The groom described his wife as beautiful, pleasant and God-fearing.

“Her good heart got me attracted. Her behaviour, the way she stands out and the way she takes care of me is such that I longed for. I love her so much,” Moyosore said.

Joy said: “I feel very happy and elated today because I am getting married to my better half and my superman. He is loving, caring, hard working and God-fearing. He loves me and I love him too.”

At the event were: the Accountant-General of the Federation, Mr Jonah Otunla; Senator Femi Lanlehin, Hon Toyin Surau, a Wema Bank Director, Chief Ope Bademosi; Chief Executive Officer, Tasty Fried Chicken, Mrs Olayinka Adedayo; Chief Mosun Awodipe; Chairman of Daar Communications Plc, Raymond Alegho Dokpesi; Oru of Imoru-Ijebu Oba Adeposi Bashorun; Commissioner of Police, Dr Abimbola Macaulay, among others.

Two daughters of Lagos socialite Alhaji Buhari Abu Oloto – Tawakalitu and Adijat – got married to Nasir Dawodu and Bolaji Aremu at The Haven Events Centre in Ikeja Lagos. AMIDU ARIJE was there. 

THEY are of the same parents and the two of them got married in one day.Tawakalitu Folashade and Dolapo Adijat are children of business mogul and Lagos socialite Alhaji Buhari Abu Oloto. They bid farewell to spinsterhood on June 30.

Tawakalitu Folashade got married to Oluwaseyi Nasir Dawodu; Dolapo Adijat tied the nuptial knot with Bolaji Saka Aremu.

It was serene at the Balmoral Event Centre, Ikeja, Lagos. The weather was clement. The hall was well furnished; draped in white and ash. It was filled to capacity.

Guests from different cadres of life gathered to rejoice with the Olotos, Dawodus and Aremus.

The Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Adeyemi, led some traditional rulers to the event. They were received by Alhaji Oloto.

Shortly after his arrival, the engagement began. The Nikah took place after the engagement.

The brides were dressed in yellow, with a touch of gold and green. They were the cynosure of all eyes.

The grooms looked good in agbada and sokoto with green caps to match.

Oba Adeyemi was asked to pray for them and he did with joy. They knelt before him for royal blessings.

The reception was anchored by Abiola Atanda (A.k.a Madam Kofo).

The brides changed to white flowing gowns for the reception; the grooms appeared in black suits with matching pairs of shoes.

Before the reception started, King Wasiu Ayinde Marshal (KWAM 1) mounted the stage to entertain guests.

At this stage, Oba of Lagos Oba Riliwan Akiolu arrived. Virtually everyone stood in reverence to the Olowo Eko Baba Fuad, as he is fondly called. He was ushered in by Alhaji Oloto with other dignitaries.

Oba Akiolu supervised the cutting of the cake and also blessed the couples.

All took to the floor to dance to KWAM 1’s music.

The couples were the first to dance, followed by their parents and guests. It was like a dancing competition when all of them took to the dance floor.

Other Obas on the occasion included the Onitire of Itire, Oba Abdul Lateef Abayomi Dauda and Oba of Odi Olowo, Oba AbdulFatai Adisa Irawo.

Also in attendance were: Lagos State Commissioner for Home Affairs and Culture, Alhaji Oyinlomo Danmole; Senator Ganiyu Solomon; Prof A.B. Kasunmu (SAN); Prince Bode Oshinusi; Chief Olatunde Badmus; Chairman Muri International Television, Alhaji Muritala Gbadeyanka; Chairman Itire Ikate Local Council Development Area, (LCDA), Hon Hakeem Bamgbola; Hon Wasiu Bashua; Director of Programme, NTA, Lagos, Alhaji Tajudeen Usamot; Ajiroba of Itire land, Alhaji Taoreed Idowu; Chief Bisi Kuye; Alhaji Ajao Minako; Chief Adisa Olatunji; Alhaji Tajudeen Adenekan; Alhaji Hakeem Kosoko; Mrs Riskat Adeniyi Adegeye; Actor Taiwo Hasan (Ogogo), among others.

Need to rehearse before speech presentation: (I watch Professor Sobowale prepare for a public lecture he delivered at Covenant University on 17th May 2013. He rehearsed in his office at least four times and also at the venue of the event. He successfully reduced a 1hour 30 minutes paper to a 45 minutes presentation). It is important for you to practice because you don’t want to speak out of context. You also want to manage your time. And like the experience of Friday (the public lecture), you are not in control of all the elements involved; you have the studio, the school management, and several other people. You want to be sure that you are not just ranting. Time management matters so much because if you speak without controlling yourself or managing your time effectively, you either find people leaving the hall, sleeping or engaging in side-talks. And you don’t want that.

Understanding your audience: it is important to know your audience. That will help you to determine you pitch and the tone of your voice. For instance, if you are talking to people who have seen it all in terms of life experiences, the way you talk to them will be different from you talking to secondary school or primary school students. Know the pace you want to go, the level of your inflection, and make sure that you are, every now and then, looking at their faces and their reactions so that you can adjust, if need be.

Reading vs. speaking speeches: They both have their advantages and disadvantages. When you read, you remain within your prepared speech, so the temptation to veer off or digress is minimized or totally removed. So far you keep looking up and checking the reactions of your audience, I think it is ok. But when the situation does not call for as much seriousness, and you are speaking extempore, you should feel relaxed and free to engage your audience in a cordial atmosphere.

Advice: My first advice is that people interested in public speaking should not try to adopt any new mannerism. They should just speak as naturally as issues come to them. They must be simple in their choice of language. If they are not simple, chances exist that they will commit a lot of blunders- in terms of grammar, sintax, agreement, malapropism, etc. But when they are simple and natural, it will flow well and easily, and people will understand them. Many people think that unless their listeners carry dictionaries to understand them, they have not spoken. Such people are trying to impress, but the idea of speaking is to communicate. If people cannot share your meaning with you, you have failed to communicate.

I believe you have learnt a lot from our icon this week. Several other public speakers will be interviewed for your enlightenment and to bridge the gap between principles and practice. Please send me questions you want our icons to attempt. You may also suggest names of public speakers you want interviewed and I will do all I can to reach them.

Eminent lawyer Aare Afe Babalola (SAN) last week in Ibadan, the Oyo State capital, marked his 50th anniversary at the Bar. The event, which featured the inauguration of a new office and launch of two books, attracted the A-list. ADEGUNLE OLUGBAMILA was there.

Ever seen renowned lawyer Aare Afe Babalola (SAN) digging it on the dance floor? He did just that in Ibadan, the Oyo State capital, last week and onlookers marvelled at his skill.

With his wife, Yeye Modupe, the octogenarian clutched the horsetail which was extended to him by the lead singer of a traditional dance troupe.

Many began to wonder what magic Babalola would perform with the tool which he held for a while. Then he whispered to his wife, who also held a horsetail and the couple rose from their seats on the high table and walked towards the dancers. Waving the horsetails, their action provoked laughter.

It was breathtaking! 50 years of a flourishing legal practice, and Babalola is still firing from all cylinders. Last Tuesday, the quintessential legal icon and philanthropist marked 50 years of his call to Bar with pomp and ceremony.

The Ekotedo, Mokola, Ibadan premises of his Emmanuel Chambers where he inaugurated a new office complex and the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA) multipurpose Hall in Iyanganku, Ibadan, where a lecture/book launch were held in his honour, were a beehive of activities. The events drew the crème-de-la-crème across legal, political, royal and business circles. The dignitaries showered encomiums on Babalola, at an occasion tagged: “Aare Afe Babalola 50 Years at the Bar.”

It was simply a display of wigs and crowns. Notable lawyers, monarchs, traditional rulers, and technocrats first thronged the chambers before ‘reconnecting’ at the NBA hall for the lecture. The event was akin to a reunion. Many who had passed through Babalola’s chambers before setting up theirs were there.

A small crowd thronged his chambers on the Mokola/Dugbe expressway to behold the dignitaries that arrived at the venue in their glory, one after the other.

The atmosphere, became charged when former President Olusegun Obasanjo arrived. He responded to chants of “Baba Iyabo” from those that gate crashed into the venue despite the heavy security.

Then the Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Olayiwola Adeyemi and Olugbo Of Ugbo Kingdom Oba Fredrick Akinruntan stormed the venue with their retinue of aides and posh cars.

Babalola was decked in a sky blue suit, a black-blue tie with orange stripes, and a pair of black shoes to match; his wife donned an orange apparel with a jacket that bore a black flowery design on an orange-like background.

Decked in white agbada with purple dots, Obasanjo, who was chairman on the occasion, was as usual in his humorous best. His short speech was a temporary comic relief to the excited audience.

Reliving his days as president, he said he made some mistakes adding that the celebrator was one of those mistakes.

“I made a mistake when I appointed him (Babalola) as the pro-chancellor of University of Lagos (UNILAG). Many people also considered it a big mistake but it turned out to be a successful mistake,” Obasanjo said, throwing the gathering into laughter.

According to him, Babalola proved his mettle at UNILAG by emerging the best pro-chancellor twice and producing the best vice-chancellor under his administration, capping it up by establishing the Afe Babalola University, Ado-Ekiti (ABUAD).

Denying that he is Babalola’s client, Obasanjo said he would rather see himself as a beneficiary of the SAN’s legal services, than a patron.

“Let me correct an impression some of you are making here that I am a client to Aare. But I will rather see myself as a beneficiary of Aare’s legal services, and his industry and passion for work which we must all emulate,” he said.

Obasanjo said he and the celebrator shared a lot in common. He said aside being old buddies, they possessed a miniature image, are dark skinned, but above all, are great farmers, drawing another bout of laughter from guests.

Ondo State Governor Olusegun Mimiko, who cut short his trip to China, said he did so because “Baba deserves the attention of all.”

“What better way can we celebrate our Baba than being here to rejoice with him. Baba is one of the few distinguished Nigerians who made it from a humble background to become one of the best lawyers, not only in Nigeria but the world at large.”

Most of those who came onto the podium showered encomiums on ‘Baba’ as he is fondly called.

Former Attorney-General of the Federation Chief Akin Olujinmi (SAN), who once served in Babalola’s chamber recounted how hardworking and passionate he is to the legal profession.

“His (Babalola) day in the chamber begins at 8am, and that is when he is not travelling outside Ibadan for a case. With a short break in the afternoon from about 3p.m and in the evening from 6p.m till about 10pm, with occasional stretches to 11p.m. For him, everyday of the week, including Sunday, is a work day.

“Aare loves the law. He lives for the law and no wonder the law has made him great.”

Yusuf Alli (SAN) said: “This event is elevating, encouraging; and it shows that if a man is hardworking, he will stand tall among men.

“The lesson I draw from this is that uprightness, hardwork, honesty and faith in God pay. Baba Afe is a great human being.”

In his tribute, Alhaji Lasun Sanusi (SAN) said: “One great thing about this teacher of lawyers, and Nigeria’s greatest producer of the highest number of Senior Advocates of Nigeria is that he is a man with a large heart. He accommodates all and he is a detribalised Nigerian.

“There is hardly any counsel that passes through him that will not become a renowned practitioner as he exposes all to the rudiment and nitty gritty of law. He is a workaholic and easily falls in love with whoever appears ready for his grooming and learning.”

Wale Olanipekun (SAN), who presented the two books: Thoughts of a legal icon and Current legal issues in contemporary Nigeria, said the books were veritable literatures which cut across board. “They are ideal for students of Law who dream to make it big like the celebrator,” he said.

Olanipekun, the Pro-Chancellor of the University of Ibadan said: “Aare’s achievement in the law profession is known across the world. So what I mean is that these books are tools, especially for young minds still curious to know how Baba rose from humble background to a global figure. That is why I said it is not only books for lawyers alone but anybody who wishes to succeed.”

Babalola thanked the guests and the National Association of Nigerian Theatre Arts Practitioners, Oyo State chapter, which presented a play in his honour the previous day.

The play, he said, revealed the ills plaguing the country. He urged all to work together on the Nigerian project.

“What ails the project Nigeria is dishonesty, mismanagement of funds, corruption, poor planning and execution at all levels, strikes and cultism in our tertiary institutions. There is an urgent need to administer the correct dose of treatment to cure these ailments; otherwise, project Nigeria may die. A serious disease needs drastic treatment. The answer is a new constitution and not palliative treatment termed amendment to a deceased federal constitution,” Babalola said.

Babalola recounted how he cut his legal tooth under the late Justice Olu Ayoola. Nearly two years after he joined the late Judge’s law firm, he left to establish his own chamber – Afe Babalola and Co, where majority of the cases he handled then were magistrate court matters and later divorce cases. Through dint of hardwork, he said, he soon broke away, delving into landmark cases many of which he won.

In attendance were Permanent Secretary, Federal Ministry of Justice Abdulahi Ahmed Yola, who represented President Goodluck Jonathan; Oyo State Governor Abiola Ajimobi; his Ekiti counterpart, Dr Kayode Fayemi; former Ekiti State governor Segun Oni; former Judge of the World Court Prince Bola Ajibola; Ohinoyi of Ebiraland Ado Ibrahim; first female Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN) Mrs Folake Solanke; Chairman, Energy Group Dr Jimoh Ibrahim; Minister of Police Affairs Captain Caleb Olubolade (rtd) among others.

Members of Lions Club International, District 404B Nigeria, last Friday observed Jumat prayers at the Lagos State Secretariat Central Mosque, Alausa, Ikeja to begin a new calendar year, reports TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO

On Fridays, the expansive Lagos State Secretariat Central Mosque, Alausa, Ikeja has never been short of worshippers.

But last Friday was different. Reason – it coincided with two events: the first Jumat service in the month of Ramadan and visitation of members of Lions Club International, District 404B Nigeria.

Many were not surprised with the large turnout, especially those tagged ‘Ramadan Muslims’ as it has become a normal yearly event.

The surprise of the day were the people clad in foreign and traditional attire and capped with yellow apron.

“This year’s Ramadan is going to be special,” a worshipper on his way to the ablution centre, said in Yoruba language.

“Why do you say so?” his friend inquired.

“Can’t you see members of the Lions Club coming to worship with us?” he replied rhetorically.

“Well, maybe they want to benefit from the spiritual reward inherent in the month. Moreso, today is the first Jumat service in this Holy Month,” he said.

Their discussion was cut short with the Athan (Call to prayer) by Muazin, which signifies the commencement of the sermon.

The congregation in the mosque and at the pavilion kept mute. The Chief Imam of Lagos State House of Assembly (LAHA) Alhaji AbdulHakeem AbdulLateef mounted the podium.

Popularly known as Hon Iyepe (sand), his appearance brightened the face of the congregation the more.

Alhaji AbdulLateef, a former LAHA lawmaker and former Special Adviser to Lagos State Governor on Political Bureau was known for his eloquence.

He did not disappoint the worshippers as his sermon was a mixture of happenings in the country and the essence of Ramadan.

AbdulLateef decried the Rivers State Assembly saga where “five members turns majority over the rest 27 members.”

This, he said, can only happen in Nigeria.

He cautioned the political class to be wary of their actions, saying the children are learning from their untoward attitude.

He did not fail to highlight the numerous rewards of Ramadan if properly observed.

The politician-turned-cleric enjoined the congregation to emulate the early Muslims in action and deeds so that their final abode can be paradise.

Barely 10 minutes to the end of his sermon, Lagos State Governor Babatunde Raji Fashola was ushered in with some of his commissioners.

After the two-rakats prayer, a special session was held for members of the Lions Club.

The club, led by its Vice-Chairman, Alhaji Abdul Ganiyu Abiodun Adediji took pictures with the Ulamau and distributed Iftar (breaking of fast) package to the worshippers.

Speaking with The Nation, afterwards, Adediji said Lions calendar runs from July 1 to June 31 the following year.

“So this year, we are putting God first; we want Allah to be with us throughout our year so that we can accomplish our goals,” he said.

“We have the less privilege in our society and part of what God has given to us we want to give back to our community and to join hands with the government and other organisations to help the less privileged in our community. Our main project is on sight, we usually help those who have sight problem and it has been the biggest among other programmes we have for the year,” he added.

Alhaji Adediji urged members of the public to join them lift the society.

Also speaking, the district Cabinet Treasurer Lion Olaniyi Olagoke described as fantastic the experience of being a member of the club.

He said: “It has enabled you to reach the public, see what their needs are and find a way of assisting them in terms of provision of sight, provision of water and some other requirement that the less privileged members of the society need.

“As a matter of fact the one that moved me most was the restoration of sight that we did for more than 1,000 members of the society two years ago. We removed cataract from the eyes of most members of the society in places such as Abeokuta, Ibadan and Lagos to mention a few. That year was awesome.”

Olagoke thanked the management of the Mosque for hosting them.