The average attention span of human beings has dropped from 12 seconds to 8 seconds between 2000 and 2013. This alarming finding was made by the National Centre for Biotechnology Information, at the U.S. National Library of Medicine. While reporting this statistics, Michael Brenner stated in his publication of May 30, 2014 that the attention span of a goldfish is 9 seconds, which means humans are less attentive than the fish.

The Centre defined attention span as the amount of time that a person spends while concentrating on a task without being distracted. It was further stated that, “most educators and psychologists agree that the ability to focus attention on a task is crucial for the achievement of one’s goals. It’s no surprise attention spans have been decreasing over the past decade with the increase in external stimulation”. Michael Brenner agreed with this finding by observing that the advent of social media and the deluge of marketing and advertising messages available on them make them a major contender for people’s attention.

Have you ever noticed how connected people are to their phones, tablets, and other gadgets? Some people hardly look up in public places; they are busy concentrating on their devices. Sometimes in formal meetings, people would rather put their phones on silent rather than switch them off. It can even be a little irritating when you are discussing with someone and he or she intermittently checks out messages, sends replies, etc. I was at a formal event recently and an appeal was made at the beginning of the event that participants should switch off their phones and other devices that could disrupt the proceedings. Not long afterwards, we heard a phone ring. A closer look also revealed that some people had their hands under the table where they systematically made use of their devices. Of course, I doubt that they benefited from the programme as much as they should have.

The National Centre for Biotechnology Information further said that 25% of teenagers forget important details about their families and friends; 7% of people generally forget their own birthdays from time to time; and typical mobile phone users check their devices more than 150 times per day. We may consider these mere statistics that have little or no implication on our lives but we cannot deny that people are getting more and more distracted every day.

The issue of attention span should be a major concern for a public speaker. Think of all the things that are contending with you for the attention of your audience? This is not only about standing before a crowd to speak; it’s a problem no matter who your audience is. Imagine that you and your competitors are making a crucial presentation to potential clients. How will you feel if the opinion leader steps out to receive a call when it is your turn to present? How about defending your final year project before a panel in which more than half of the judges are staring at the screens of their phones while you are speaking? There is no way people can respond to you effectively if they don’t listen to you in the first place.

It is essential for us to learn how to gain and sustain the attention of our listeners. This does not only apply to professional speakers; it also applies to anyone who needs to pass across a message to other people. It is not enough to know what to say; how we say it matters a lot. If we are aware of the little time we have to interest our listeners, we will take special care to plan our speeches. We must realise that in this technological age, listeners have a choice to either pay attention to our presentations or to ignore them. Having people physically present is not a guarantee that they are paying attention.

As a public speaker, one of your greatest responsibilities is to gain access to the thoughts of your listeners. Since the mind is hardly ever empty of thoughts, you should be able to interrupt their current thoughts and get them to give your words some consideration. You should also be able to keep them listening to you. This is no mean feat at all. For you to grab and maintain your listeners’ attention, you have to do the following:

•Understand your audience: you can never interest the people you don’t know. Your first assignment as a speaker is to study your listeners to identify their interests, desires, fears, expectations and turnoffs. You can do this by asking yourself exploratory questions about your listeners. After making a list of what you need to know about them, attempt to answer the questions through observation. The next step is to seek answers from informed people about the questions you cannot answer yourself.

•Be dynamic: it is not enough to be able to grab the attention of your listeners; it is more important that you sustain it. Attracting attention without sustaining it is like wind without rain. You must develop a system to keep your audience involved in your speech. The more they participate the lesser the tendency of you losing them.

In this current series, we shall discuss several ways to grab the attention of your audience. We will also examine some successful speeches to see how the speakers attracted the attention of their audience. Have a blessed weekend.

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The remains of Pa Timothy Onoritsebawo Odolomerun, founder of Dolmark Partnership, have been buried at Victoria Gardens Cemetery in Lekki, Lagos after a funeral service at The First Baptist Church, Broad Street, Lagos, reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI.

There was traffic jam on Broad Street, Lagos penultimate Thursday. It wasn’t caused by the hustle and bustle of the city. It was caused by guests at the First Baptist Church who were attending the funeral service for Pa Timothy Onoritsebawo Odolomerun, founder of Dolmark Partnership, who died on January 23. He was 92.

The church hall was decorated with yellow and cream fabrics. It was filled with those who came to pay him their last respects. Others sat on the gallery.

Pa Odolomerun was a man of many parts.

He was founder, Dolmark Partnership, a frontline firm that handled a lot of quantity surveying jobs for the government. Among other jobs he did were the Federal Secretariat in Ikoyi, Lagos; P and T Obalende and Federal Advanced Teachers Training College at Okene, Kogi State and others at Ogoja and Kano.

The late Pa Odolomerun joined the Rotary International and was the president of Rotary Club of Ikeja, District 9110. Also, he served on the Board of Trustees and was an executive of his church. He was lover of classical and choral music and was Patron of the Sanctuary Choir of the church.

The service began with the processional hymn, as the BMC pall bearers brought Pa Odolomerun’s body into the church. The family led by the widow, Gloria, followed.

The church choir sang hymns such as Must Jesus bear ‘the cross’ alone/” All to Jesus I surrender”, “The day thou gavest Lord is ended” and “For mercies countless as the sand”.

The Warri Choral Society also sang hymns, including, “Everyday I will give thanks”, “Blessed be God’ and ‘The trumpet shall sound”.

His daughter Mrs Ejuaye Urowoli Ajayi read her father’s biography.

In a sermon, Rev Sunday Fagbemi described the late Odolomerun as a man blessed by God.

He said God blessed the the late Odolomerun with a wonderful wife and children who took good care of him. He said the widow was always with her husband.

The cleric said the deceased managed his life well, noting that God’s blessings were for every one but the problem was that of management.

He read from Genesis, 25: 7-11 and Psalm 34: 11-15.

He said God has blessed all Christains with long life but that they have to key into it. “You must fear God, avoid lies and ensure peace with all,” he said.

The cleric said God blessed Pa Odolomerun with long life, adding that he left a good legacy for his children. He urged the congregation to ensure that they get these blessings, stressing that the biggest blessing one should strive for is that of eternal life. He urged the people to live for Jesus,  so that their eternal life would be sure.

Pa Odolomerun’s remains were interred at Victoria Gardens Cemetery in Lekki.

Reception followed at KFA Events Centre in Lekki.

Beautiful women dressed in uniformed blouse and wrapper Ankara led guests to labelled seats.

Guests sympathised with the widow. Itinerant camera men made brisk business, taking ‘wait and get pictures’.

The hall was beautiful; it was decorated with white and yellow fabrics.

Ebony Band entertained guests.

Mrs Odolomerun described the journey with her husband as remarkable and unforgettable.

She wrote: “I testify to God’s glory that my husband lived a fulfilled life and completed all assignments at a ripe age of 92. I thank God as I was privileged to be here with him until the end. It was peaceful; indeed, he was a peaceful and  gentleman to the core,” she said.

Mrs Urowoli wrote that her father was her number one fan. “He had faith in my capabilities, through thick and thin, never gave up on me. He meant many things to many people; to mum and I, he was our companion and friend. He was patient, kind and forgiving, empowering, yet protective”.

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The Founder, Ganiyu Williams and Co (a firm of chartered accountants), Alhaji Abdulganiyu Ajadi Williams, has celebrated

Before noon that day, many Islamic clerics were already seated inside the hall of Eko Club in Surulere, Lagos waiting to lead thanksgiving prayers for the 80th birthday of Alhaji Abdulganiyu Ajadi Williams, an accountant.

The hall was tastefully furnished. The men sat on the right side; the women on the left.

The colour for the day was purple. Some guests wore uniformed Ankara fabric specially chosen for the occasion.

The Master of Ceremony (MC), Alhaji Mohammed Akewushola, introduced guests, stating the purpose of the gathering. He was assisted by Alhaji Isiaq Alaye.

Alhaji Ibrahim Ashorobi and Alhaji Hakeem Thompson, among other clerics, led the prayers.

Alhaji Abdul Rasaq Ariyo recited portions of the Quaran.

In his sermon, Alhaji Ibrahim Afinih, described the celebrator as a  man who has been serving God well.

The cleric urged the gathering not to serve God half-heartedly.

After the prayer, guests posed for photographs with the birthday ‘boy’, who didn’t look his age. He stood and walked unaided.

At the reception, guests were treated to varieties of food and drinks. The Eko Brass Band supplied music.

The celebrator and his family members hardly sat throughout the event. They went round greeting and attending to guests.

The celebrator was full of gratitude that he clocked 80 and prayed God that he would be 90.

He thanked his wife, children, family members and friends who came to rejoice with him.

He said: “I feel excited and I am grateful to God because I enjoy good health. I still feel young and I am full of life.

“Today’s celebration is the reflection of the little I have been able to do years back, but, I still feel I am not fulfilled because there is still a lot that I can do and that I hope to do by the grace of God.

“At 80, I have learnt in life that whatever we are destined to be, we will be; it may take time, it may be longer than we think but whatever happens we will get there if we are steadfast, prayerful and put our trust in God”.

The celebrator’s first daughter, Mrs Abidemi Williams, a business woman described her father as a good man.

His son and Personal Assistant to Lagos State deputy governor, Akinola Williams, described his father as his good friend because he listens and understands situations.

“Daddy taught us to pray five times daily to be a good Muslim and to be responsible Lagosians,” he said.

Senator Muniru Muse thanked God for the celebration, saying the celebrator is a man that should be emulated in all the good things of life. He said the celebrator does not look 80 physically.

Chief Musiliu Anibaba, former president of Institute of Chattered Accountants of Nigeria, (ICAN), described the celebrator as a successful chartered accountant, who runs one of the most successful indigenous practices in Nigeria.

Eko Club President Babatunde Grillo said the celebrator is a former president of the club, and one of its founding fathers, adding that he has done so much for the club. “We are happy for him and we thank God for making today possible and for giving him the opportunity to celebrate 80 years,” he said.

He told the celebrator to devote his life to Allah because he is fulfilled.

Former Chairman, Surulere Local Government Wazee Uthman described the celebrator as a nice man.

is 80th birthday in Lagos, reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI.

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A tribute to Sir Chief Molade Okoya – Thomas OFR, Asoju Oba of Lagos

Chief Molade Okoya – Thomas was, as they say, many things to many people.  To me he became, over the years, a father-figure, a mentor, a role model, and a most cherished friend. As such he will be sorely missed but always remembered in the most endearing terms. I offer my heart-felt condolences to Mama, the children and the entire family he left behind. Eyin Baba a da.  Amin.

I first encountered Chief Okoya – Thomas and got to like him and almost instinctively adopted him as a role model, even before I met him and got to know him.  It was back in the early 1980s and I was recently returned to Nigeria after a long stay abroad.  I had just started my career in investment banking and quickly came across his name on my marketing list of the Deputy Managing Director of CFAO Nigeria Plc, as one of the high net-worth individuals to both market financial instruments to, in both his corporate and individual capacities.  It was years before I actually met him in person, but in the meantime I followed him in the media, long before the days of Twitter and social media! Back then, I was truly intrigued by the way that his presence and personality were writ large across the spectrum of society. He was mentioned regularly on the business pages, while he was also a key figure on the Lagos cultural and social scene; and when you looked at the sports pages he was there also; and his philanthropic work was also regularly mentioned-particularly his steadfast sponsorship of the Asoju Oba Table Tennis competition.

Here was a man who was as easy and comfortable in corporate boardrooms among the elite and international businesses people, as he was playing the traditional role of Asoju Oba in cultural gatherings and doing church work. One day he would be at Roland Garros or in his box at Wimbledon, the next mingling with and encourage young sporting talent at the grassroots level in Lagos. Here was a man showing how to really be a part of society and how to fulfil the lofty goal of contributing to others across several facets of life. Observing Chief Molade Okoya-Thomas from afar, I saw a role model of how to live in Lagos and Nigeria.

As the years rolled by I was fortunate to have the chance to spend many happy hours with Chief Okoya-Thomas in various settings, from formal gatherings to hanging out at his beloved Lagos Lawn Tennis Club. I remain eternally grateful for the effusive kindness and consideration he always showed to my wife and family, whenever he met them. For me, his most endearing feature was his wonderful personality.  The wit, the humour, the kindness, generosity of spirit and humility of the man knew no bounds. Always a master of impeccable hospitality, you only had to visit him at his office lunchtime at – even if he had guests – to be treated to a sumptuous meal, fine wines and an afternoon of rib-cracking tales and eye-watering laughter.

Despite his humble nature Chief, quite rightly, never allowed anyone to sell him short.  If you made the mistake of seating him at anywhere but the highest table, at a function you had invited him to, he would quietly gesture towards the adjacent table, with its reserved signs, and gently ask rhetorically:” is that where the Governor will be sitting?” Then he would ask: “Se ko ye kiawanajokoti Governor”!

Adieu, Sir Chief(Dr) Molade Okoya – Thomas OFR,  Chevalier de la Legion d’Honneur, Businessman, Philanthropist, Sportsman and Bon Viveur!

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A night of tributes/service of songs was held last Wednesday for the late chairman of CFAO Motors, Sir Alexander Molade Okoya-Thomas, a philanthropist, frontline sport enthusiast and socialite. There was an outpour of emotions by many eminent personalities, reports NNEKA NWANERI

Posh cars made their way to Trinity House, Zion Centre on Victoria Island, Lagos. The occupants were not there for the mid-week bible study. They were expatriates, politicians, captains of industries and business moguls, who came to pay tributes to the late Asoju Oba of Lagos, Sir Molade Okoya-Thomas, who died on February 1. He was 79.

One after the other, they made their way quietly into the church auditorium to honour the late business icon; it was a sober gathering. Two large portraits of the deceased placed at the background of the church altar  caught guests’ attention as they reflected on the messages inscribed on them.

The late Okoya-Thomas would have joined the octogenarian club next June 8. He was an entrepreneur, socialite, and industrialist. He held many titles, such as the highest honour of the French Citizenry Commandeur de La Legion d’Honneur de France; Bobasuwa of Remoland; Odofin of Ife and the Asalu Oba Oke-Ona Egba. He was also a papal knight of the Catholic Church; and a patron of the Nigerian Table Tennis Federation. Besides, the late Okoya-Thomas was honoured with the Order of the Federal Republic (OFR).

The event was to celebrate his passage, times, exploits, charity and love for mankind.

The worship session by the Trinity Voices choir of the church added colour to the event. The songs were moving: “Till we meet again”, “Smile again” and “Holy City”. Many fought back tears, damping their faces with handkerchiefs.

A woman from Alliance Francaise’ sang a French song before the first daughter of the deceased, Hon Jumoke Okoya-Thomas, read the first bible passage from  Genesis 1:26-29.

The first set of tributes came from the International Community and related companies.

The French Ambassador, Marcel Escure,  lauded the beneficial relationship the late Okoya-Thomas established between Nigeria and France. He noted that his heritage will outlive him for a very long time.

The Managing Director and Chief Executive Officer of CFAO Motors in Paris, Richard Bielle, said the father of the late Okoya-Thomas worked for CFAO for 52 years from 1902. His son, the late Molade for 56 years contributed tremendously to the company, when he joined as an accountant and rose to become its chairman.

“He will be remembered for his modesty and humility, which endeared him to all. His memory will be missed; his smile so sincere.”

Country Manager, CFAO Motors, Steve Faderin, described his late boss as a man who loved life and people, thus making him the first choice in national and state assignments.

“I still see his smile lit up in his face and I hold his life as a beacon I can aspire to be like,” he said.

Lagos State governor, Babatunde Fashola, in his tribute, said it was a painful, but necessary task. He described the late Okoya-Thomas as a man great in life and in death; a man who never took sides during conflicts, but would always be in the middle seeking solutions.

Fashola described him as ‘Nigeria’s Sports Minister Emeritus’ for dedicating 40 years of his life to promoting sports.

Senator Oluremi Tinubu said the late Okoya-Thomas was a father to her for the past 16 years. She said without him the New Era Foundation, her pet project, would not have thrived.

The second Bible passage from the book of Psalm 23 was read by another daughter of the deceased, Mrs Toyin Alobo-Bakare, before another set of tributes were paid by deceased’s friends and associates.

Founder of First City Monument Bank (FCMB), Otunba Subomi Balogun, said his late friend was a consummate gentleman and an icon of Lagos society.

“I don’t believe he had any enemies because we knew right from our secondary school days when I was in Igbobi College, I used to hear his name mentioned during loud announcements at sporting events in the 40s. He was a great sportsman with many awards. We grew to be special guests at each other’s events and though in death, his soul goes marching on.”

Industrialist, Chief Kessington Adebutu, said he met Sir Okoya-Thomas in 1951, when they were new students at the Baptist Academy.

“MOT as we fondly called him in school, was a great boxer and debater. He was a trusted friend in whom I shared so many intimate things with. He was my number one confidante. Although we spoke a few days before his death, his strong baritone voice gave no indication that he would pass so soon.”

The Baptist Academy Old Students Association, led by its national president, Chief Olatunde Onakoya led other old boys to sing their school song.

Family members later took turns to pay their round of tributes.Grandchildren of the late Okoya-Thomas filed out to honour their grandpa. The eldest of them, who spoke on their behalf,  promised that they will continue the good works their grandfather started.

Son of the deceased, Deji, pledged to continue the legacy of sponsoring the Asoju Oba Cup his father inuagurated and sustained for the past 46 years.

Hon Okoya-Thomas, who represents Lagos Island at the lower chamber of the National Assembly, recalled a day her father beat her up in her grandmother’s house for not brushing her teeth well. She also noted that because her father was always particular about the family name, she has promised never to disappoint him in politics.

Mrs Alobo-Bakare said her father was addicted to a particular perfume for 40 years and “always teased me about my weight”.

Senior Pastor of Trinity House, Pastor Ituah Ighodalo gave a brief sermon on what must be done for all to make heaven.

Also in attendance were: First Lady of Lagos, Dame Abimbola Fashola; APC Women Leader, Mrs Kemi Nelson; Senators Tokunbo Afikuyomi and Florence Ita-Giwa; Sisi Oge of Lagos, Chief Opral Benson; Vice President Association of Lagos Titled Chiefs Chief Iyabo Foresythe; Mr Wale Edun; former Lagos State Deputy governor, Alhaja Sinatu Ojikutu.

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This year’s Elewu Day celebration was held at Odolewu-Ijebu in Ogun State, reports BUSOLA ODUGBESAN

The yearly celebration of Elewu day attracted dignitaries from all walks of life into Odolewu town in Ogun State. Guests appeared in gorgeous attires.

Elewu day is a yearly celebration for indigenes in Odolewu town in Ogun Sate.

The event began with an opening prayer.

Its chairman, former Chief of General Staff, Lt. General Oladipo Diya (rtd), in his opening remarks, hailed the Odolewu indigenes both home and abroad for their moral and financial support.

The Babalaje of Odolewu, Olugbon of Lagos and Group Managing Director, Aresco Limited, Senator Anthony Adefuye, urged Nigerians to develop their roots with regular visit.

He urged the indigenes of the town to return home and develop it. “Disabuse your minds from the age long fear of the unknown, rather, encourage your children, especially the wealthy and the privileged ones to invest positively in their roots,” he said.

Senator Adefuye enjoined government to partner with genuine Investors to develop hinterland.

He called on the distinguished personalities and the Indigenes present at the event to donate handsomely towards the community projects.

The event featured the presentation of an award to Senator Adefuye in recognition of his zeal to improve the lot of others.

Among those at the event were the former Minister of Health Prof Adenike Grange; former Executive Director Mobil Oil Plc, Prince Emmanuel Adesanya; an industrialist, Chief Frank Ekperigin; Omoba Gbenga Osinowo; the Bale of Odolewu, High Chief Paul Ogunkoya; former Lagos Commissioner for Transportation, Chief Lanre Rasak; All Progressives Congress  (APC) chieftain, Chief Seriki Bamu;  Alhaji Denge Anifowose; member, Lagos State House of Assembly Bayo Osinowo; and Jimoh Ibrahim.

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The remains of Pa Timothy Onoritsebawo Odolomerun, founder of Dolmark Partnership, have been buried at Victoria Gardens Cemetery in Lekki, Lagos after a funeral service at The First Baptist Church, Broad Street, Lagos, reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI.

There was traffic jam on Broad Street, Lagos penultimate Thursday. It wasn’t caused by the hustle and bustle of the city. It was caused by guests at the First Baptist Church who were attending the funeral service for Pa Timothy Onoritsebawo Odolomerun, founder of Dolmark Partnership, who died on January 23. He was 92.

The church hall was decorated with yellow and cream fabrics. It was filled with those who came to pay him their last respects. Others sat on the gallery.

Pa Odolomerun was a man of many parts.

He was founder, Dolmark Partnership, a frontline firm that handled a lot of quantity surveying jobs for the government. Among other jobs he did were the Federal Secretariat in Ikoyi, Lagos; P and T Obalende and Federal Advanced Teachers Training College at Okene, Kogi State and others at Ogoja and Kano.

The late Pa Odolomerun joined the Rotary International and was the president of Rotary Club of Ikeja, District 9110. Also, he served on the Board of Trustees and was an executive of his church. He was lover of classical and choral music and was Patron of the Sanctuary Choir of the church.

The service began with the processional hymn, as the BMC pall bearers brought Pa Odolomerun’s body into the church. The family led by the widow, Gloria, followed.

The church choir sang hymns such as Must Jesus bear ‘the cross’ alone/” All to Jesus I surrender”, “The day thou gavest Lord is ended” and “For mercies countless as the sand”.

The Warri Choral Society also sang hymns, including, “Everyday I will give thanks”, “Blessed be God’ and ‘The trumpet shall sound”.

His daughter Mrs Ejuaye Urowoli Ajayi read her father’s biography.

In a sermon, Rev Sunday Fagbemi described the late Odolomerun as a man blessed by God.

He said God blessed the the late Odolomerun with a wonderful wife and children who took good care of him. He said the widow was always with her husband.

The cleric said the deceased managed his life well, noting that God’s blessings were for every one but the problem was that of management.

He read from Genesis, 25: 7-11 and Psalm 34: 11-15.

He said God has blessed all Christains with long life but that they have to key into it. “You must fear God, avoid lies and ensure peace with all,” he said.

The cleric said God blessed Pa Odolomerun with long life, adding that he left a good legacy for his children. He urged the congregation to ensure that they get these blessings, stressing that the biggest blessing one should strive for is that of eternal life. He urged the people to live for Jesus,  so that their eternal life would be sure.

Pa Odolomerun’s remains were interred at Victoria Gardens Cemetery in Lekki.

Reception followed at KFA Events Centre in Lekki.

Beautiful women dressed in uniformed blouse and wrapper Ankara led guests to labelled seats.

Guests sympathised with the widow. Itinerant camera men made brisk business, taking ‘wait and get pictures’.

The hall was beautiful; it was decorated with white and yellow fabrics.

Ebony Band entertained guests.

Mrs Odolomerun described the journey with her husband as remarkable and unforgettable.

She wrote: “I testify to God’s glory that my husband lived a fulfilled life and completed all assignments at a ripe age of 92. I thank God as I was privileged to be here with him until the end. It was peaceful; indeed, he was a peaceful and  gentleman to the core,” she said.

Mrs Urowoli wrote that her father was her number one fan. “He had faith in my capabilities, through thick and thin, never gave up on me. He meant many things to many people; to mum and I, he was our companion and friend. He was patient, kind and forgiving, empowering, yet protective”.

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The Founder, Ganiyu Williams and Co (a firm of chartered accountants), Alhaji Abdulganiyu Ajadi Williams, has celebrated his 80th birthday in Lagos, reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI.

Before noon that day, many Islamic clerics were already seated inside the hall of Eko Club in Surulere, Lagos waiting to lead thanksgiving prayers for the 80th birthday of Alhaji Abdulganiyu Ajadi Williams, an accountant.

The hall was tastefully furnished. The men sat on the right side; the women on the left.

The colour for the day was purple. Some guests wore uniformed Ankara fabric specially chosen for the occasion.

The Master of Ceremony (MC), Alhaji Mohammed Akewushola, introduced guests, stating the purpose of the gathering. He was assisted by Alhaji Isiaq Alaye.

Alhaji Ibrahim Ashorobi and Alhaji Hakeem Thompson, among other clerics, led the prayers.

Alhaji Abdul Rasaq Ariyo recited portions of the Quaran.

In his sermon, Alhaji Ibrahim Afinih, described the celebrator as a  man who has been serving God well.

The cleric urged the gathering not to serve God half-heartedly.

After the prayer, guests posed for photographs with the birthday ‘boy’, who didn’t look his age. He stood and walked unaided.

At the reception, guests were treated to varieties of food and drinks. The Eko Brass Band supplied music.

The celebrator and his family members hardly sat throughout the event. They went round greeting and attending to guests.

The celebrator was full of gratitude that he clocked 80 and prayed God that he would be 90.

He thanked his wife, children, family members and friends who came to rejoice with him.

He said: “I feel excited and I am grateful to God because I enjoy good health. I still feel young and I am full of life.

“Today’s celebration is the reflection of the little I have been able to do years back, but, I still feel I am not fulfilled because there is still a lot that I can do and that I hope to do by the grace of God.

“At 80, I have learnt in life that whatever we are destined to be, we will be; it may take time, it may be longer than we think but whatever happens we will get there if we are steadfast, prayerful and put our trust in God”.

The celebrator’s first daughter, Mrs Abidemi Williams, a business woman described her father as a good man.

His son and Personal Assistant to Lagos State deputy governor, Akinola Williams, described his father as his good friend because he listens and understands situations.

“Daddy taught us to pray five times daily to be a good Muslim and to be responsible Lagosians,” he said.

Senator Muniru Muse thanked God for the celebration, saying the celebrator is a man that should be emulated in all the good things of life. He said the celebrator does not look 80 physically.

Chief Musiliu Anibaba, former president of Institute of Chattered Accountants of Nigeria, (ICAN), described the celebrator as a successful chartered accountant, who runs one of the most successful indigenous practices in Nigeria.

Eko Club President Babatunde Grillo said the celebrator is a former president of the club, and one of its founding fathers, adding that he has done so much for the club. “We are happy for him and we thank God for making today possible and for giving him the opportunity to celebrate 80 years,” he said.

He told the celebrator to devote his life to Allah because he is fulfilled.

Former Chairman, Surulere Local Government Wazee Uthman described the celebrator as a nice man.

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The remains of frontline businessman, sport enthusiast and philanthropist Sir Alexander Molade Okoya-Thomas were interred last Friday at the Ikoyi Vaults and Gardens after a funeral service at The Holy Cross Cathedral on Catholic Mission Street, Lagos Island, reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI . 

Sir Alexander Molade Okoya-Thomas, who died on February 1, was no mean man. He stood larger than life in the worlds of business, education, sports and philanthropy, among others. His death shook the nation. Last Friday, Lagos rose for this late seasoned industrialist, who, among others, held the prestigious title of Asoju-Oba. The cream of the society gathered at his funeral service at the Holy Cross Cathedral Church on Catholic Mission Street, Lagos Island.

The late business mogul was the Chancellor of the Lagos State University (LASU), chairman of CFAO Group; CICA (Nigeria) Limited; Transcorp Nigeria Limited; Oklom Investment Limited and Chiyoda Nigeria Limited, among others.

Curiously, Bureaux de Change operators,  set up shop at the church and reception venue, changing money for those interested. Photographers, traders, hawkers and beggars pushed and shoved for a vintage business position.

Some guests alighted from their vehicles and walked to the church, leaving their drivers to look for a parking space.

Guests were clad in gorgeous and beautiful traditional attires. Most of them made statements with their green head gears or caps, the colour for the occasion.

The late Okoya-Thomas’ children were resplendent in their gold traditional dresses with matching head gears and caps. The widow, Lady Olivet, wore a navy-blue striped Iro and Buba outfit.

The church hall was filled to capacity. Those who could not find space in the hall sat under  tents on the church premises.

Father Anthony Nwosu coordinated the programme; other officiating ministers were the Catholic Bishop of Lagos Diocese,  Adewale Martins,  Monsignor John Aniagwu  and Monsignor Bernard Okoduwa.

The service opened with the singing of a hymn, “Yes I shall arise”. The bereaved family sat on the front row.

Father Nwosu said the opening prayers; the Bible passage was taken from John 11: 21- 27.

In his sermon, Monsignor Aniagwu said the funeral service was a celebration of the late Chief Okoya-Thomas’ life.

The cleric said having close contact with the late Okoya-Thomas and working closely with him had a great impact on him.

“He made a positive impact in the life of all. It is a pity to lose him, but the Lord knows best,” he said.

The deceased, according to the cleric, was tolerant and accommodating.

Offering, thanksgiving and prayers for the bereaved family followed in quick succession, following which the service ended with the recessional hymn: “Hark Hark my Soul”’ as the undertakers, MIC, wheeled the casket bearing Okoya-Thomas’ remains out of the church. A huge crowd followed the funeral train to the Vaults and Gardens in Ikoyi, where his remains were interred.

Others left for Tafawa Balewa Square (TBS), Onikan, Lagos, venue of the reception.

The reception ground was decorated in green and white with Juju maestro Sunday Adegeye (King Sunny Ade) and his band singing praises of the dignitaries and some of his evergreen hits to the admiration of guests.

President Goodluck Jonathan, represented by  Senate President David Mark said with  Okoya-Thomas death, Nigeria has lost not just a consummate entrepreneur, but an uncommon philanthropist and steadfast believer in the manifest destiny of the country.

“He was not just a successful active sportsman in his younger days, but remained fully committed to sports development all his life, dedicating huge resources to the promotion of his various sporting interests.

“Chief Molade Okoya-Thomas, whose life was one of uncommon dedicated service to God, country and community, leaves behind a rich legacy which should be an abiding source of solace and inspiration to us, our family as well as his numerous friends, protégés and associates.”

Lagos State Governor Babatunde Fashola said the late Okoya-Thomas displayed greatness by his gentility and humility.

“He was courteous almost to a fault. His respect for the old and the young was not feigned, it was genuine. His love for people was deep and sincere; he was a bridge builder per excellence. His generosity and philanthropy were deep and sometimes exceeded the limits of his deep pockets, but that was his passion,” he said.

Ogun State Governor, Ibikunle Amosun said the late Okoya-Thomas contributed to the nation’s socio-economic development. “This no doubt accounted for the numerous awards to his name including the prestigious Member of Order of the Federal Republic  (MFR), Officer of the Federal Republic (OFR) and Chevalier de la Legion d’Honneur of France among others”.

Lagos State Deputy Governor Mrs Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire, said the late Okoya-Thomas was a father to all, adding that he was responsible, reliable and kind hearted. “He was a man of God and a very caring father to all of us when he was alive. It has pleased God to take him to Himself and we pray that God will grant him eternal and peaceful rest, and give us peace in our state, in the country and in our heart,” she said.

Lagos State House of Assembly Speaker Adeyemi Ikuforiji said the late Okoya-Thomas lived a life that should be emulated.

“He was an extraordinary man, a great father to all. If there is anyone to be called a great Lagos father, the deceased will be so addressed. He was friendly even to those who can be called his grand children; he took everyone as a real friend and he was a jolly good fellow all the way,” he said.

Senator Gbenga Ashafa, said the deceased was a role model and generous to a fault. “He was one of those who made sports generally the darling of all in Lagos State. He was known to be a very smart sports player and at the same time a bridge builder as far as relationship is concerned. He would be respected by the young and the old and we believe that to fill his shoes, it will take an uncommon human being to resurface and claim the position that he has left. He has definitely left a virtue and God Almighty will assist Lagos State in filling that vacuum.”

Senator Oluremi Tinubu, said the late Okoya-Thomas lived well.

In her tribute, lady Olivet said her husband made her happy to the last moment and never want any discomfort for her.

“You treasured me and were always proud to tell everyone, I can’t question the will of God as I’m confident that you are in Heaven and with the angels. I will always love you. Rest in the bosom of the Lord till we meet to path no more,” she said.

His first daughter and a member of the House of Representatives, Olajumoke Okoya-Thomas described her father as a good man. “He is one of the most unsung, upraised, and yet one of the most valuable asset in our society. “Your memories will never go away and you will never be forgotten,” she said.

She described her father as a lily of the valley. “You brightened my world and that of others around you. You were not without a fault but your sincere heart and kind soul reached out to all those you came across,’” she said.

Communications giant Sir Steve Omojafor said the deceased lived life to the fullest and touched the life of the young and the old. “He took everybody as one, he was humble, generous, a motivator, a good leader, he was nice and wanted everyone to be happy,” he said.

Managing Director/ Chief Executive Officer, Moore Enterprising Nigeria Limited, Dame Felicia Okoli said the late Okoya-Thomas was jovial, loving and generous to a fault. He respected everybody and he would be greatly missed,” she said.

Former Minister of State for Defence Demola Seriki said the late Okoya-Thomas was a man whose presence was felt anywhere he was. “He believed so much in truth and there was no dull moment with him. The entire Lagos State would miss him dearly. He was ready to serve in every capacity and he would be remembered for all his good deeds and virtues because he was an embodiment of humility and generosity,” he said.

At the service were, Minister of Trade Commerce and Industry Olusegun Aganga; All Progressives Congress (APC) National Leader Asiwaju Bola Tinubu;  wife of Lagos State Governor Dame Abimbola Fashola;  wife of Ogun State Governor, Ibikunle Amosun, Olufunsho; House of Representatives Speaker,  Aminu Tambuwal; Deputy Speaker Emeka Ihedioha;  Senator Musiliu Obanikoro;  Hon Abike Dabiri-Erewa; Gen Theophilus Danjuma and his wife Daisy; One time Finance Commissioner, Lagos State, Mr Wale Edun; APC Women Leader  Kemi Nelson;  Deputy Majority Leader Leo Ogor and Hon Samson Osagie, among others.

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A remembrance prayer for a former Lagos State Commissioner for Education, Alhaji Muqadat Bello, has been held at his Ijegun, Lagos home, writes NNEKA NWANERI  

It was not a gathering for dancing and merriment, but one to reflect on the life and times of a patriot. Guests sat quietly on white plastic chairs arranged under three to four sets of canopies. There was soft, soulful music from a standby record player.

It was a remembrance and prayer session for the former Lagos State Commissioner for Education, the late Alhaji Muqadat Bello, organised by the family at his residence in Ijegun, a suburb of Lagos.

Some of the guests were dressed in native attires with matching caps and head gears, while the clerics were easily identified in their flowing white robes and turbans. It was a low-key event.

Although he died five years ago, on March 7, 2010, the attendance by family members, friends, associates and neighbours was an affirmation of a man whose legacies are commendable.

Tributes paid to him in turns by the guests reinforced the fact that the late Alhaji touched and influenced many who met him.

The late Bello was a commissioner during Alhaji  Lateef Jakande’s regime and Secretary of the Awori Resource Group. He died at 79.

One of his cousins, Muhammed Buhari, an engineer, said of him: “Issues that would not benefit him materially stole his attention more than those that made clear economic sense. I have not met a better community leader like him.”

About 15 clerics were in attendance. They came in groups and later took turns to admonish the gathering on the essence of life and the necessity of spiritual uprightness.

They urged the gathering to emulate the good deeds of the late Bello, who they said devoted his life time to serving God the way he served humanity.

The late Bello’s 69-year-old widow, Alhaja Taibat Titilayo, was joined by her siblings including, Alhaja Idiat Buhari; Mrs Kafilat Shodeinde; Mrs. Musili Folawiyo and Mrs. Serifat Folawiyo

Others were the Baba Oba of Ijegun, Alhaji Mustapha Obalagbe, the Eletu Afobaje of Ijegunland, Chief Mutairu Alli and Alhaji Abdur-Rasak Afolabi.

Members of Nasrullahil-Fathi (NASFAT) society, which the widow belongs, were led to the event by their Chairman, Ijegun branch, Alhaji Wasiu Salaudeen; Alhaji Mahmoud Matase, and Alhaji Najeemdeen Abdul-Azeez.

Also in attendance were Nasfat’s Council of Elders Chair Alhaji Adekunle Lukman; Women Leader, Alhaja Kudrat Ariyayo; Alhaji Bashiru Sanni and Alhaji Bakare Moshood. They were joined by Alhaji Olayiwola Omodudu, a socialite and businessman.

Talking about the event, Alhaja Bello said it was to honour her husband, who she described as a friend, brother and confidante.

Alhaji Abdul-Fatai Zubair urged the gathering to emulate the deceased’s great qualities, adding: “This is the only way we all can live well and have something to show when we are eventually called forth to a higher service.”

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The Faculty of Pharmacy, University of Lagos, is 30 years old. To commemorate the event, awards were given to some distinguished persons, reports EVERISTUS ONWUZURIKE.

Guests trooped into the main auditorium of the University of Lagos, with a touch of purple on their attires.

They were there to grace the alumni lecture and 30th anniversary of the Faculty of Pharmacy, University of Lagos (UNILAG), last Tuesday.

The event was anchored by Dr Arinola Joda and Teddy Ehianeta. It began with an opening prayer, which was followed by the recitation of the National Anthem.

In a welcome address, the Dean, Faculty of Pharmacy, Prof Olukemi Odukoya, gave the history of the faculty. She said the faculty was proud to have played its role in the development of pharmaceutical      education in Nigeria.

She said it became a school in the College of Medicine (CMUL), University of Lagos in 1980. The school was recognised by the Pharmacists Council of Nigeria (PCN) as a degree-awarding institution in 1984.

“The school produced its first graduates in September, 1984 and attained the status of a faculty midwifed by Prof Cecilia Igwilo. Today, we are celebrating our past, present and future.” she said.

UNILAG Chancellor Prof Rahamon Bello, who was represented by the Deputy Vice Chancellor, Prof Babajide Alo, thanked all present, stating that the school management is, indeed, proud of the faculty. Headding that the faculty has continued to grow since inception.

According to him, the faculty has continued to lead the train among pharmacy schools in Nigeria as it has continued to lay examples for pharmaceutical practice in Nigeria. He commended all the Deans that have managed the faculty for having done a good work.

He urged the students to be vanguards of the school and pharmaceutical practice as they were joining a group of pharmacists in the country.

The lecture tagged “New Graduates as Agents for Transforming Pharmacy Practice” was delivered by the Chairman Rodot Nigeria Limited, Remi Adeseun

He told the students that they are emboldened and empowered by history but should never be enslaved by it.

“You are graduating as pharmacists and the nation, nay the world, needs you to research, develop, produce, market and manage the drug needs of people. The skills you have acquired in the course of your training can also be deployed to create and share value in other fields ranging from telecommunications sales and marketing to retail banking and management education services.”

He further urged them to dream and hold on to their dreams because of the challenges they would face in trying to be the best pharmacists and to remember always that life is a journey, not a destination and turn life’s obstacles into opportunities.

Past Deans of faculty such as Professor Fola Tayo, Professor David Ifudu, Prof Cecilia Igwilo, and Professor Herbert Coker were awarded for their immense contributions towards the growth and sustainability of the faculty. The Sub-Dean of the faculty, Dr Moshood Olushola Akinleye was also given an award.

The vote of thanks was given by the Chairperson, Faculty Alumni Lecture Series Committee, Dr Glory Ajayi.

Also at the event were Director, Business School Netherlands, Mr Lere Baale, Mr Yinka Fagbohun among other pharmacists and professionals.

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The average attention span of human beings has dropped from 12 seconds to 8 seconds between 2000 and 2013. This alarming finding was made by the National Centre for Biotechnology Information, at the U.S. National Library of Medicine. While reporting this statistics, Michael Brenner stated in his publication of May 30, 2014 that the attention span of a goldfish is 9 seconds, which means humans are less attentive than the fish.

The Centre defined attention span as the amount of time that a person spends while concentrating on a task without being distracted. It was further stated that, “most educators and psychologists agree that the ability to focus attention on a task is crucial for the achievement of one’s goals. It’s no surprise attention spans have been decreasing over the past decade with the increase in external stimulation”. Michael Brenner agreed with this finding by observing that the advent of social media and the deluge of marketing and advertising messages available on them make them a major contender for people’s attention.

Have you ever noticed how connected people are to their phones, tablets, and other gadgets? Some people hardly look up in public places; they are busy concentrating on their devices. Sometimes in formal meetings, people would rather put their phones on silent rather than switch them off. It can even be a little irritating when you are discussing with someone and he or she intermittently checks out messages, sends replies, etc. I was at a formal event recently and an appeal was made at the beginning of the event that participants should switch off their phones and other devices that could disrupt the proceedings. Not long afterwards, we heard a phone ring. A closer look also revealed that some people had their hands under the table where they systematically made use of their devices. Of course, I doubt that they benefited from the programme as much as they should have.

The National Centre for Biotechnology Information further said that 25% of teenagers forget important details about their families and friends; 7% of people generally forget their own birthdays from time to time; and typical mobile phone users check their devices more than 150 times per day. We may consider these mere statistics that have little or no implication on our lives but we cannot deny that people are getting more and more distracted every day.

The issue of attention span should be a major concern for a public speaker. Think of all the things that are contending with you for the attention of your audience? This is not only about standing before a crowd to speak; it’s a problem no matter who your audience is. Imagine that you and your competitors are making a crucial presentation to potential clients. How will you feel if the opinion leader steps out to receive a call when it is your turn to present? How about defending your final year project before a panel in which more than half of the judges are staring at the screens of their phones while you are speaking? There is no way people can respond to you effectively if they don’t listen to you in the first place.

It is essential for us to learn how to gain and sustain the attention of our listeners. This does not only apply to professional speakers; it also applies to anyone who needs to pass across a message to other people. It is not enough to know what to say; how we say it matters a lot. If we are aware of the little time we have to interest our listeners, we will take special care to plan our speeches. We must realise that in this technological age, listeners have a choice to either pay attention to our presentations or to ignore them. Having people physically present is not a guarantee that they are paying attention.

As a public speaker, one of your greatest responsibilities is to gain access to the thoughts of your listeners. Since the mind is hardly ever empty of thoughts, you should be able to interrupt their current thoughts and get them to give your words some consideration. You should also be able to keep them listening to you. This is no mean feat at all. For you to grab and maintain your listeners’ attention, you have to do the following:

•Understand your audience: you can never interest the people you don’t know. Your first assignment as a speaker is to study your listeners to identify their interests, desires, fears, expectations and turnoffs. You can do this by asking yourself exploratory questions about your listeners. After making a list of what you need to know about them, attempt to answer the questions through observation. The next step is to seek answers from informed people about the questions you cannot answer yourself.

•Be dynamic: it is not enough to be able to grab the attention of your listeners; it is more important that you sustain it. Attracting attention without sustaining it is like wind without rain. You must develop a system to keep your audience involved in your speech. The more they participate the lesser the tendency of you losing them.

In this current series, we shall discuss several ways to grab the attention of your audience. We will also examine some successful speeches to see how the speakers attracted the attention of their audience. Have a blessed weekend.

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Alhaja Abiola Saratu Banire, mother of All Progressives Congress (APC) National Legal Adviser Dr Muiz Banire, has celebrated her 87th birthday in Lagos, reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI.

It was a day of joy for Alhaja Abiola Saratu Banire, mother of All Progressives Congress (APC) National Legal Adviser, Dr Muiz Banire, when she celebrated her 87th birthday. Many eminent personalities came to rejoice with her.

Oduduwa Crescent in GRA Ikeja, Lagos, felt the celebration. Exotic cars filled the neighbourhood and the adjoining streets, announcing the celebration. Uniformed and armed security agents were on hand to ensure orderliness.

Some wore turquoise blue lace with the chosen head gears for the ceremony, were in orange attire. Others simply looked charming in choice outfits.

The celebrator was the cynosure of all eyes. She wore a white Iro and Buba with a matching blue head gear, and sat with friends and family members. Many of the guests came around to greet her.

The event began with Alhaji Tajudeen Salisu leading the opening prayers and was coordinated by Abdul Hakeem Kosoko.

Baba Adinni of Lagos Sheikh Abdul Afeez Abou and Abdur-Rahman Lekki led the gathering in prayers.

In a lecture, the National Missioner of Ansaudeen Society of Nigeria, Sheikh Abdur Rahman Ahmad spoke on proper upbringing of children, saying what the celebrator has done for her children is the reason for the celebration. He said the celebrator trained her children well, urging other women to emulate her.

Reception followed with plenty to eat and  drink.

Alhaja said she is happy people came to celebrate with her.

Lagos State APC governorship running mate Dr Idiat Oluranti Adebule described the day as wonderful. She said it was a thing of joy that mama clocked 87 and thanked God for her life.

“With the people here today, we can say that mama has lived a very wonderful life; we pray that the almighty God will continue to be with her, give her sound health and Allah’s favour will not depart from her,” she said.

She urged the family to continue to pray for mama, adding that at 87, mama is still a beauty to behold.

Dr Banire said he joined his mother to thank Allah for sparing her life. He said he was happy that his mother is still around.

He described her as gentle, admirable and an extremely amazing.

“She is free with everybody and not discriminatory. She taught us to be God fearing and she is always willing and ready to express joy, and care for others, both in their joy and in their pain.

“One moment I will never forget about Mama was when we were growing up, she is always ready to follow us anywhere. She is already at our school gate to take us home before school closes and when we are home she ensures we get something to eat immediately,” he said.

Banire’s wife, Olufunmilayo, described her mother-in-law as wonderful and very humble, adding that she has been like her real mother. “She is a jovial person and one in a million. She is warm hearted with a heart of gold and she is worthy of emulation; a role model” .

A guest, Hon Femi Wilson, said the celebrator is a great achiever to have clocked 87 because it’s not everyone that attains that age. He wished her the best.

Another guest, Dr Buhari Oloto, prayed that mama would advance more in age.

Former Chairman, Mushin Local Government Hon Olatunde Adepitan said the celebrator is a mother with a passion. “She has taken good care of her children and what is happening here today is something that mama is worth much more than”.

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Pastor-in-charge of Israel Assembly and the Allen Zone of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) Dapo Awoshika has celebrated his 50th birthday at Nana Arena in Ikeja, Lagos, reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI.

It was a show of class last Sunday at the Nana Arena in Ikeja, the Lagos State capital, as the Pastor-in-charge of Israel Assembly and the Allen Zone of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Dapo Awoshika, marked his 50th birthday.

He joined the golden club on March 10, and was treated to a high-class birthday party by his church members, friends and colleagues.

The hall was tastefully decorated with white fabrics and complemented with colourful lightings.

Chairs were set around tables which had silver overlays. A bevy of beautiful women in white dresses took guests to labelled seats and the waiters ensured that the tables were not empty.

BJ Sax electrified the hall with gospel songs which kept guests dancing and singing along all through the event.

The gathering was relaxed.

Pastor Bolade Osinubu supervised the cutting of the cake by the celebrator and his wife after the spell of JESUS.

Deacon Wole Aderinkomi led the toast.

The celebrator said the party was beyond his imagination adding that he is grateful to God for clocking 50 when life expectancy in the country is said to be 4…

“It is grace to get to 50 in Nigeria of today; getting to 50 is a thing that brings me joy. Being on Gods side has made life good and I aspire to live long, live well and serve God for the rest of my life.

“The peace of God has kept me over the years and I don’t allow anything to trouble me.  If you allow your environment to control you, you will not live long so it is always good for you to allow yourself to be in control of your environment,” he said.

Pastor Bayo Samagbeyi from RCCG Living Faith said the celebrator is dedicated to the work of God. “He is focused, determined and he is a man of integrity,” he said.

Parish Coordinator of RCCG, Israel Assembly Pastor Femi Onasanwo said the celebrator is faithful, adding that he is a man that is always ready to do anything for God.

He said his life is a blessing to others and wished him long life and strength to serve God more.

Assistant Pastor in charge of Admin, RCCG Lagos province 2 Pastor Noruwa Edokplol said the celebrator is a jovial, funny, deep and wise man.

He said the birthday is  a testimony of the impact of the celebrator’s life on people, adding that it is to appreciate him for what he has done.

The celebrator’s son, Toluwani, said he is happy for his father. He described his father as a friend and brother, adding that he has always been there for him.

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The remains of Chief Adenrele Adebiyi Adejumo were interred on March 10 at Ikoyi Cemetery in Lagos. Reception followed at the Harbour Point, Victoria Island. SAFIYYAH ABDUR-RAZAQ was there.

Everywhere was blue. Guests either dressed in blue or had a touch of blue on their attires. The hall was also decorated in blue. This was the setting at the reception for friends and relatives, who attended the funeral of Chief Adenrele Adebiyi Adejumo, the past president, Association of Consulting Engineers of Nigeria, member of Lodge Academic 1150SC and former Deputy District Grand Master, District Grand Lodge of Nigeria. He died on February 1 at 85.

The chairs and tables were decorated in white, sky blue and navy blue drapes. There were lace overlays on the tables.

Members of the District Grand Lodge of Nigeria were dressed in their customary attire of white shirts, black business suits and aprons.

His daughters and their children were dressed in cream lace; his sons and their children wore cream guinea brocade.

As the guests arrived, a bevy of women dressed in blue ushered them to their seats.

The funeral service, conducted by Rev. Canon Josephus Jaja, began with the cleric receiving Adejumo’s remains.

The hymn, Hark, Hark, my soul was sang. It was followed by the scripture reading taken from Ecclesiastes 3: 1-15.

In his sermon, Rev. Jaja urged the bereaved family to be happy because the late Adejumo lived a wonderful life.

After the sermon, the hymn I know that my redeemer lives was taken.

Interment was at Ikoyi Cemetery.  It was followed by reception at the Harbour Point at Wilmot Close on Vitoria Island.

The eldest daughter, Mrs Adefunke Adeteju Kuyoro, described her father as a man with a good sense of humour who loved all his children.

“He educated us to wherever level we wanted. He never told us: “you have had enough. Don’t go forward”. He had a quiet disposition and sound sense of humour. He was not ill. He was running temperature for a day. The doctor came and treated him for malaria and said they were going to run some tests to see if he had any infection. He died before he got to the hospital, but it was as if he was sleeping so I believed he must have died a peaceful death,” she said.

His son, Aderemi, said his father would be missed.

“I am tongue-tied. He was such a wonderful man and did a lot. This is Wilmot Point where the Naval Dockyard is. He built the dockyard and worked in Lagos Executive Development Board as the resident engineer that reclaimed the Victoria Island. One of the memories of him is all that he did. He was very illustrious as you can see from the gathering today. It shows the impact he had on people  and the environment. There is a lot he did in his lifetime and he would be sorely missed,” he said.

One of his granddaughters Mayowa Kuyoro described him as a wonderful man.

Adejumo is survived by seven children and many grandchildren.

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To commemorate the International Women’s Day, the University of Lagos Women Society (ULWS) gave awards to three women for excelling in their fields, writes NNEKA NWANERI.

Gone are the days when women stayed the background; when all they did was to mind the children and keep the house. These days, many are making impacts in their fields; indeed, many have broken the glass ceiling, dared the challenges and made tremendous strides in their careers.

So, when on March 3, the University of Lagos Women Society (ULWS) honoured three women as part of activities to mark this year’s International Women’s Day, it didn’t come as a surprise.

The honorees are Emeritus Professor of Medicine Yetunde Olumide; multiple award-winning literary giant Prof Akachi Ezeigbo and the first female Registrar of the University of Lagos (UNILAG), Mrs Folashade Olumide.

The  Julius Berger Auditorium was filled with women and a few men.

Everyone in attendance had a symbolic orange scarf around their necks.

The event began with a prayer followed by a welcome address by ULWS President and wife of the Vice-Chancellor (VC), Mrs Memudat Bello.

She said the  awardees were chosen because they excelled in their professions and have become role models for every woman in the institution and worldwide.

According to her, the awardees, despite  that they have retired, are still radiant and gorgeous in retirement.

The event was chaired by the Group Managing Director and Chief Executive Officer of Omatek Computers, Mrs Florence Seriki.

A Lagos Magistrate, Mrs. Jumoke Olagbegi-Adelabu, the guest speaker, spoke on the theme for this year’s Women’s Day: Make it Happen.

She urged women to play their roles as homemakers, custodians of their families and take necessary steps to attain greatness and ensure that Nigeria attained greatness.

There was a break from speeches during which a short drama on the gains of women empowerment was performed. It was followed by the reading of the awardees’ citations and awards presentation.

After each presentation, the awardees, who were accompanied by their spouses, made a short speech. Their husbands and children were there to share in their joy.

Prof Olumide, thanked the society for counting her worthy. Olumide, the first woman professor of the over 50 year-old- university, dedicated her award to children. She urged some secondary pupils at the event to see their self worth in life primarily as their relationship with God.

“I never compromised on the time I give to my family; and to keep it, I woke midnights to do my research works,” she said.

Mrs Seriki described Prof Olumide as a light to the country.

Prof Ezeigbo, former head of Department of English, said she is grateful to God for making her a woman. She relived events that almost led to her not getting married to her husband, whom she said is rsponsible for her success. She advised other women not to run their country down with what they say.

Mrs Olumide, 71, said there is a thin line between being successful and being honoured. She worked in UNILAG for 34 years and the university was the only place she ever worked.

Giving the vote of thanks, Channels TV Vice Chairman Mrs Olusola Momoh, represented by a newscaster, Amarachi Ubani, lauded the awardees for doing extraordinary things. She paid tribute to every mother, who has an opportunity to recreate someone’s destiny.

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Lagos State Attorney General and Commissioner for Justice Mr Adeola Ipaye launched his book titled: ‘Nigerian Tax Law and Administration’ at Muson Centre, Onikan. The event drew judges and lawyers, reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI.

The courtroom is the Lawyer’s playground, where he exhibits his skills, arguing cases. But the setting was different last Wednesday when Lagos State Attorney-General and Commissioner for Justice Mr Adeola Ipaye launched his book: “Nigerian Tax Law and Administration” at Muson Centre Lagos State Solicitor-General and Permanent Secretary, Ministry of Justice, Mr Lawal (SAN), welcomed guests. He said the book is a contribution to the nation’s development and applauded the author for finding time to write it.

Justice Amina Augie of the Court of Appeal, said the author was goal-oriented, describing him as an accomplisher.

Book reviewer Tunde Fagbohunlu said the book has added a vital resource to the existing knowledge on tax law and administration. He described the work as “concise”, comprehensive and effective.

Presenting the book, Governor Babatunde Fashola (SAN) said payment of tax should not be taken for granted in any society because there is no way the government can embark on projects without taxes.

Renowned lawyer Prof Itse Segay (SAN), saluted Ipaye’s courage in writing the book.

He described Ipaye as reliable, efficient, intelligent and proactive. “He is a man of excellence, It has been a pleasure meeting him and I have benefited much from our relationship”.

The author said his experience as a teacher and the tax special assistant to former Lagos State Governor Asiwaju Bola Tinubu inspired him to write the book.

He said: “Tax law and administration is an important topic, both in the legal and practical aspect.”

He explained that the law and practice of taxation are complex because people naturally don’t want to pay and there are laws to it.

“The book breaks down the topics into bits, such that people can understand; it can also serve as a textbook for those studying tax law in the university.”

He said the book attempts a review of the major tax laws and the administration structures and processes by which they are implemented.

“It covers the essential background details, including contextual definitions of terms and the basic rules of tax assessment, dispute resolutions and enforcement,” he said.

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Olakunle, son of Bjeg Ventures Nigeria Limited founder Mr Bankole Jegede, married his beau, Tumininu, daughter of a Lagos State civil servant, Mr Oluwadayo Olaitan, last Saturday at the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Victory Centre Parish in Agege, Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

It was a day of joy for Olakunle, son of Bjeg Ventures Nigeria Limited founder, Mr Bankole Jegede, and his beau, Tumininu, last Saturday when they were joined in holy matrimony at the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Victory Centre Parish in Agege, Lagos State.

They were the cynosure of all eyes. The bride was a beauty to behold in her white flowing wedding dress. The groom was handsome in a blue suit and sparkling white shirt.

Their parents wore light blue native attires.

Some of the guests wore the gold lace and blue head gear and cap  chosen for the occasion.

Deaconess Catherine Ojekunle said the opening prayer; Pastor Wole Oluwasanmi took the Bible reading from John 2: 1-11.

The church choir sang the hymn “God give us Christian home”. Pastor Oluseyi Olaore joined the couple after they exchanged marital vows and rings.

In a sermon, Pastor John Ekundayo said marriage is a life time affair, urging the couple to embrace effective communication. “You must learn to work on yourselves and say sorry at all times. Be friends and settle all quarrels between you, ” he advised.

A bevy of pretty women in black dresses, welcomed guests to the reception at LaOcassion Events Centre in New Oko Oba, Agege

The hall was decorated in white.

Heads turned when the couple entered, smiling and dancing.

They were accompanied by friends and family members amid hip pop songs by the Disc Jockey Daniel Stephen.

The chairman on the occasion, Nigeria Guild of Editors President and Editor-in-Chief of The Sun Mr. Femi Adesina congratulated the couple and their parents on the outing, noting that it is a blessing to witness such a day. He told the couple that if they hold on to the scripture all the days of their life, they would enjoy their marriage.

“Bring out the best of yourselves, so that your marriage will work. Do not provoke each other to anger; rather ensure love and good works just as the Bible says,” he added.

He urged them to desire to live together for over 60 years and to carry each other like an egg. He said: “Let your partner be your friend because there are certain issues you may not be able to resolve as husband and wife but you can resolve them as friends”.

The couple cut the cake and fed each other.

Samuel Akinyode, a close friend of the couple, proposed the toast. He said the groom married his first love, insisting that it is possible to do so.

Seyi Michael and his Glorious Band entertained guests. Family members and friends joined the couple on the dance floor.

Prince Adeyemi Balogun told the couple to make God the corner stone of their relationship.

“They should have the spirit of forgiveness and their love must be evergreen at any point in time,” he told The Nation.

Bride’s mother, Mrs Toyin Olaitan, who works with Oyo State Board of Internal Revenue, prayed God to bless the couple with children.

She urged them to manage their relationship with love.

Her father, Mr Oluwadayo Olaitan, said the secret of his marriage is patience, urging the couple to emulate him.

“For your marriage to be successful, you need patience and you need Jesus.  If you have the spirit of God in you, seek God and never rely on your own power, God will guide you,” he said.

Groom’s mother Mrs Bosede Jegede prayed that the marriage would be  fruitful.

She advised the bride to submit to her husband, adding that the couple should encourage each other always. She said they should hold on to God and be prayerful.

Jegede told his son to follow his footsteps in his marital life.

The groom said he felt elated, happy and fulfilled.

He thanked God that their 12-year friendship blossomed into marriage.

He described his wife as the most beautiful woman that he had ever seen. “She is a virtuous woman with good character and a woman every good guy will want to spend the rest of his life with. I am so happy that she said yes to me, I love her so much and I will love her for the rest of my life,” he said.

The bride said she is filled with joy, excitement, happiness, adding that it was the best day of her life, which she has been waiting for.

She described her husband as cool, caring, hardworking and the best.

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Former Nigeria’s High Commissioner in Australia Ambassador Ayoola Olukanni celebrated his 60th birthday and retirement  last Sunday at the national headquarters of The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) in Ebute Meta, Lagos, OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

It was a day of thanksgiving and praises to God for Ambassador Ayoola Olukanni, former Nigeria’s High Commissioner in Australia.

He celebrated his 60th birthday and retirement last Sunday at the national headquarters of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Throne of Grace Parish in Ebute Meta, Lagos.

He was clad in blue Agbada with a wine cap and a pair of black shoes. He sat in the front pew of the church with his family members.

Many guests came to greet him on his seat.

The event began with praises. It was led by the church choir.

Kayode Ojo was the Master of the Ceremony.

After the praise session, BJ Sax led the gathering in another round of praises with his saxophone.

A musician, producer, songwriter and son-in-law of the celebrator, Cobhams Asuquo also led guests in praises, singing and playing the keyboard.

Special Assistant to RCCG General Oversser (Administration and Personel) Pastor Johnson Odesola, in a sermon, told the celebrator that life begins at 60.

He spoke on the need to be rightly positioned, saying  it will determine possession in life.

“You must have something to offer; you must apply your heart to wisdom and we must ensure love among ourselves because with love, the world would be a better place,” he said.

The cleric, who is also the pastor in charge of Region 1, prayed for the celebrator and his family afterwards.

The celebrator said life is great at 60.

“I don’t feel 60, I feel 16 and I thank God for good health. I feel excited and I have begun another race. I still have a lot to do in terms of my contribution to the country.

“My retirement now gives me the opportunity to start a new life. Based on my experience in the Foreign Service, I want to contirbute to the nation in the area of development, culture, environment, education and may be civil society groups.”

His wife, Yemisi  thanked God for His faithfulness and for the grace to build the family.

She described her husband as her dearest friend, soul mate, lover, baby, sweetie and all in all. She thanked him for being a wonderful and caring husband, and for being a loving father to the children.

She said their journey in marriage of about 45 years has been interesting, full of memorable experiences, great achievements and challenges and gave all the glory to God that they are still standing in Him as a family and as husband and wife.

RCCG General Overseer Pastor Enoch Adeboye and his wife Folu were represented by their first son, Pastor Adeolu Adeboye. He congratulated the celebrator and thanked God for His grace and mercy on his life.

He said the celebrator loves dancing, adding that is one part of him that no one can beat.

“You travelled to different parts of the world while in the civil service; you should be a missionary in the second half of your life. We love you,” he said.

Ambassador Michael Ononaiye said it is the grace of God that has kept the celebrator till now.

According to him, the celebrator served excellently well in the civil service, he distinguished himself and he was an energetic worker.

“I am happy to have come across  him. I wish him well and pray that he will continue in the blessings of God,” he said.

Dr Adegbenga Sun-Basorun told the celebrator that this is the time to serve God with all his strength having retired from service.

A friend, Mr Bunmi Makinwa, who has known the celebrator for over 45 years, said Olakanni is an entertainer.

“He loves dancing and no body can compete with him. When we were in St. Lawrence’s Grammar School, Ilesa between 1968 and 1972, he loved dancing like the late Nigerian multi-instrumentalist, musician, Fela Anikulapo. Ayo would dance in front of the class, in parties and he still dances up to today.

“He is a socialist and he would only be either first or second in every competition. He is a super star, he has done well for all and we want him to continue to serve us in a better way.

“He is a man that would never allow anything to go wrong, he is always ready to help, care and assist,” he said.

His first daughter, Mrs Ojuola Asuquo thanked God for the life of her father and prayed that he would live for another 60 years.

She said her father is loving, nice, generous, open hearted, optimistic and practical.

“Words cannot fully convey how full of gratitude I am for your love, acceptance and encouragement. May God grant you more wisdom, influence, new experiences and enjoyment,” she said.

Mr Asuquo said his father-in-law is exceptional, special, and dear to  him.

“He is such a man that you want to have a long relationship with, I wish him the best. He has achieved so many things and I plead to him to share his words of knowledge to our generation,” he said.

The celebrator’s brother, Mr Dele Olukanni said him as warm, handsome, a giver, a mentor and approachable, adding that he can be looked up to.

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The convener of Single’s Platform, a non-profit organisation for young adults, Pastor Olaiwola Abiola, has presented three of his books: Understanding Marriage; The Mystery of the 5 Fingers and Sex! Kini Big Deal, reports NNEKA NWANERI

For the man of God, it was a dream come true, after years of waiting and putting ideas together. Last Saturday, Pastor Olaiwola Abiola, the convener of Single’s Platform, a non-profit organisation for young adults, launched three of his books at the Protea Hotel in Ikeja GRA, Lagos.

Many of his friends, young and old, were there to support him.

The books are: Understanding Marriage; The Mystery of the 5 Fingers and Sex! Kini Big Deal.

The Single’s Platform music group ushered in chairman of the event and president, Simnet Outreach Ministries in the United Kingdom, Prophet Simon Idowu, to speak, with song praise.

The prophet and Abiola’s late father, were friends.

He is happy that Abiola has kept the flag flying.

“I see in him a man with zeal for the work of God, just like his dad who gave everything. This is a calling from God he is attending to.”

Deputy Secretary, Mushin/Oshodi Isolo Province of the Pentecostal Fellowship of Nigeria Austin Ameh reviewed books: The Mystery of the 5 Fingers and Sex! Kini Big Deal. He said in the former, the author used the five fingers to explain the events that took place in Adam’s life.

The thumb represents purpose; the index finger for tasting, represents food; the middle, which is the longest finger, represents man’s potential and the shortest finger signifies man’s shortcomings.

Sex! Kini Big Deal comprises 88 pages and eight chapters.

The reviewer said the book gives  insight into societal decadence.

The book, he said, presents sex in God’s view with relevant spiritual references that will make the young  appreciate sex and practise it in the right sense.

Senior Pastor of The Incorruptible Seed Church, Magodo, Lagos, Morenikeji Ajayi spoke on the need to take the issue raised in the book seriously, because it is one of the treacherous areas of life that makes the end time more scary.

The church, he notes, is facing challenges in raising the standard of God in these perilous times.

“Abiola is preparing the next generation through these books, because long after he is no more, these books will still be useful.

Reviewing Understanding Marriage, by Daniel Asonye, likened marriage to driving a car on a long busy road, where there will be the need to observe traffic signals, speed limits and other vehicles and road users around.

“As you journey, there will be death traps and pot holes to avoid. Without doing all these, the journey can end up being fatal. The book is loaded with the myths and realities of marriage, for which many marriages fail because of the violation of the laws.

Abiola said his programme which  holds every third Sunday of the month,  has met the needs of youths outside the church, with many giving testimonies.

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