The remains of the patriarch of the Ekong family, Edet Udo Ekong, were interred at his country home in Akwa Ibom. JOHN AUSTIN UNACHUKWU writes.

IT was a celebration of a life well spent as the remains of Elder  Edet Udo Ekong were interred.

The funeral rite held  at Ikot Nkim Oku Government Primary School Ibesikpo, Asutan Local Government Area of Akwa Ibom State, was very  colourful.

It was like a carnival as family members, relations, the congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses, in-laws, friends and well wishers gathered in large numbers  from all parts of the country and beyond  to celebrate the life of a  great man, a patriot  who touched the lives of many people, contributed immensely to the economic and socio-political development of his community, State and country.

The late Ekong died on August 13 at 81 years.

The funeral was slated for noon, but before 9am the family house and the primary school field were filled with sympathisers and guests. All sorts of exotic cars, SUVs, heavy security were manifest in the arena causing heavy traffic gridlock around the field.

It was indeed  a gathering of the who-is-who in Akwa Ibom State and beyond,  an occasion to showcase gorgeous cultural and English apparels.

Corporate bodies were not left out in the celebration,  as Airtel built stalls at the venue  and was busy attending to  some of its customers. The downpour that occurred shortly before the programme commenced did not stop any of the burial rites, it rather graced and spiced the event.

The ceremonies  were ably conducted by clergy men from the Jehovah’s Witness, the congregation where Mr.  Ekong worshipped before his death.

After the interment, guests were well entertained. For Paul Usoro, his wife, Mfon and his  family members,  it was indeed a grand occasion as they entertained guests in their family house till mid night. Among them  were lawyers, government functionaries, top company executives, captains of the industries.  The  Akwa Ibom State Governor, Godswill Akpabio, his Commissioners, traditional rulers from the State and political associates from far and near were all part of the event.

One of the daughters of the deceased, Afi Akpan,  said her  “Father was a beneficiary of other peoples’ kindness after loosing his father in his teens. Consequently, with the active support of his wife, he accommodated a lot of relations and less privileged people in his house during his life time.

“Those people grew up with us and invariably became members of our immediate family. He sponsored most of them in schools, helped others to learn vocational skills and many got employed, some become  professionals in different fields of human endeavour and learning. Some learnt business skills from him and consistently acknowledge this fact directly to Papa and Mama or their children. These extended family members, including those who did not live with us, who were not even related to Papa by blood,  traditionally came to Papa for advice on personal or family issues and he happily attended to them  up to his death.

Another  Daugher of the deceased, Mrs  Mfon Usoro said: “Papa was exceptionally kind and generous, he  provided financial support,  assistance and accommodation to a number of people who were really  in need, those people were  not necessarily related to him by blood. Many young men and women passed through our home, quite a number got married or were given in marriage by Papa, right from his home. A number of parents have named their boys after him.”

The remains of the late media icon and former Vice Chairman of The Sun, Igwe Uguru Dimgba Igwe, were interred in his home town, Okafia Igbere in Bende Local Government Area of Abia State, on Saturday October 11. Professionals from all walks of life were there to pay their last respects, reports SUNNY NWANKWO.

Ndiokeh, Umuikpo Okafia Igbere in Bende Local Government Area of Abia State was in a sorrowful mood, when people from far and near came to pay their last respects to one of its illustrious sons and former vice chairman of The Sun Newspapers, Dimgba Uguru Igwe, who died on September 6. He was 58.

The funeral service was anchored by the General Overseer of Evangel Pentecostal Church, Maj Gen Paul Toun;  Bishop Humphrey Erumaka of Wordbase Assembly, Ago, Lagos and Pastor Emeka Onyebuchi of Kingdom Fortress Ministry, Enugu.

The event began at 10:30 am with a lying-in-state.

The wife and children of the late Igwe, in white attires, sat on the front  seats under a canopy.

The event, though a sad one, was an opportunity for those who worked closely with Dimgba to share their experiences and give testimonies of his personality.

His close friend and colleague, Mike Awoyinfa, in a  funeral oration, chronicled his 30 years relationship with his writing partner and a man that saved his life twice.

Awoyinfa said he would have been happy if, instead of funeral oration, he was reading Dimgba’s citation at a Nobel Prize event or award giving day.

He stated that  in their 30 years of  friendship, they never quarrelled over money or placed their ethnicity into perspective when relating with each  other or doing business.

“If this (funeral) had been a Nobel Literature Award I would gladly have stood here to read the profile and achievements of my writing partner. For many times, we had covered the death of many great men like the great Obafemi Awolowo, Nnamdi Azikiwe and Moshood Abiola, among others. It took his death to know he is a great man also.

“Our story should be the story of Nigeria; let us all come together as one, regardless of our religion or tribe.

“My brother Dimgba revived me on the streets of Paris where I was at the point of death. The second occasion was when we were writing the biography of Governor Babatunde Fashola in our hotel rooms. I had a crisis and was bleeding profusely and I called him. He rushed into my room and took me to the hospital and my life was saved.

“I feel very very sad that I could not save him. I feel sadder that I am being asked to give the oration.”

Other notable men also sent condolence messages. National Leader of the All Progressives Congress Asiwaju Bola Tinubu described the late Dimgba as a star in the profession; consistent, reliable and committed.

“His unexpected exit shocks and saddens, but we are comforted that he lived a good life and left a powerful legacy of professionalism and service to humanity. The media profession will miss him. However, his stewardship will light the way for a better country.”

In his tribute, the publisher of the  Sun and former Governor of Abia State, Dr. Orji Uzor Kalu, described Dimgba’s death as a great loss to the establishment, Abia State and the country.

Kalu, who recalled how the late Dimgba contributed to the growth of the newspaper, said it was difficult dealing with the vacumn the loss of Dimgba has created.

Abia State Governor Chief Theodore Orji, represented by one of his special advisers, Ifeanyi Iboko, said the state has lost one of its finest brains and responsible men who deserved to live.

Governor Obiano was represented by Anambra State Commissioner for Information Tony Onyima. The elder brother of the deceased, Prince Hanson Igwe, described the death of his junior brother as one that occurred at the time the country, his readers and the entire family needed him the most.

Hanson said they were yet to come to grips with the loss and regretted that he was burying a man that was supposed to bury him.

For his friends in the media, they will miss a man who, with his wealth of experience, would turn a bad story into an interesting one. For members of the Evangel Pentecostal Church, they will miss a man whose professional career did not affect his service and work in the church. And to the people of Igbere, his home town, they will miss the wealth of knowledge the late media icon would have shared and probably the impetus the community needed to launch the agrarian community into limelight.

In attendance were President of the Nigerian Guild of Editors Femi Adesina; Pastor Ralph Egbu; former Abia State Secretary to the State Government (SSG) Hon. Okey Ezeanata; former Senior Special Assistant to Abia State Government Deacon Agono Duke and former Internal Auditor, UBN Plc and others.

Looking years younger, the former Head of State, General Yakubu Gowon, stepped out  in style to celebrate his 80th birthday. Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory, literarily rose for him, reports AUGUSTINE EHIKIOYA.

HE walked strongly and briskly without showing any sign of senility into the National Christian Centre, Abuja, for his 80th birthday thanksgiving service an hour before the scheduled time.That was the soft-spoken former Head of State Gen Yakubu Gowon, who  still believes in military  precision  and punctuality.

He joined the class of octogenarians on Sunday 19, at a well-celebrated event, organised by the State House, Abuja.

General Gowon was the Head of State from 1966-1975. He holds the record as the youngest Head of State, having assumed the position when he was 31.

Given his love for Nigeria, GOWON’s name formed the popular slogan, ‘Go On With One Nigeria’.

The birthday ‘boy’ was dressed in white babanriga attire, and walked with his wife, Victoria, to their seats where some dignitaries were awaited the commencement of the event.

The Festival Choir dished out various soul-lifting hymns. It was an interdenominational affair.

The personalities in attendance included President Goodluck Jonathan; Senate President David Mark; Governors David Jang (Plateau) , Olusegun Mimiko (Ondo) and Seriake Dickson (Bayelsa); Dr. Alex Ekwueme and wife, Beatrice; Lt.Gen. Theophilus Danjuma; General Oladipo Diya, Brig-Gen. Jones Arogbofa  (Chief of Staff to the President) and ministers; Chief Emeka Anyaoku; Obong Ufot Ekaette; Professor Jerry Gana; Archbishop John Onaiyekan; Bishop Nicholas Okoh; Chief John Odigie-Oyegun; Ooni of Ife Oba Okunade Sijuade; Chief Edwin Clark; Obong Victor Attah; Dr. Ahmadu Ali and President of Christian Association of Nigeria Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor.

Members of the Diplomatic Corps were not left out. They came in their numbers.

Jonathan, who spoke during the service, extolled the good virtues of Gowon during and after his life in the military.

He said he was still in the primary school when Gowon was the Head of State, describing him as a patriot and head of government.

“General Gowon did not see the Biafra side as a team that must be crushed. He saw the war as a struggle of Nigerians and his main target was to keep Nigeria together.

“After dropping the gun, he picked up programmes to keep this country together. He came up with the ‘Nigeria Praise’. And with that he has continued to keep Nigeria one. His commitment is to prepare a better Nigeria for the future generation.” He added

Archbishop of Jos Dr. Ben Kwashi, who gave the sermon, also compared Gowon with the biblical Joel, who faced the problems of his time head-on and did not dissociate himself from them.

Paying tribute to the celebrator, the Catholic Bishop of Sokoto, Bishop Matthew Kukah, also described Gowon as a good man.

Kukah, still on the podium, though not for preaching,  cracked jokes that had the audience reeling with laughter.

On a lighter mood, the Bishop sarcastically gave reasons he is sure he too will live up to 80 years or more. He said this year, he was involved in the funeral of Justice Oputa, who died at 96 years; and at the 80th birthday of Nobel Laureate Prof. Wole Soyinka, and that of the Esama of Benin, Gabriel Igbenedion.

“And here I am. So, if I don’t live to be 80, I think I will hold all these 80-year-old men responsible,” Kukah added, igniting another round of laughter.

He also recounted his experience of the humility of Gowon when he visited him in his home long time ago when Gowon’s wife was not at home.

When the celebrator was asked to give a remark, he humbly asked to speak after President Jonathan. Humbly, Gowon, while greeting the president bowed for him. This caused many to stare and some murmured aloud.

All Gowon could do was to thank God for all he has been able to achieve in his 80 years on earth.

A banker, Mr Sunday Olowoyobiojo, has presented a book at the Chartered Institute of Bankers of Nigeria, Victoria Island, Lagos, reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI.

The title of the book provokes a deep reflection on the happenings in the country.

“Cash-less Nigeria: Benefits, opportunities and challenges” has been presented to the public at the Ijewere Hall of the Chartered Institute of Bankers of Nigeria on Victoria Island, Lagos.

For the author, Mr Sunday Olowoyobiojo, a banker, it was a dream come true.  It took him three years to write the book, which is his first.

Chairman, Standard Bank Limited, Sir Remi Omotosho, chaired the event, which could have been mistaken for a banker’s forum.

Guests came in quality and fitted corporate outfits. They looked smart and gorgeous.

They could not hide their joy as they congratulated the author for the master piece, which many described as the first of its kind. Many shook hands with him, praising him for the great job done.

The beautiful and fully air-conditioned hall was the place to be. Some copies of the book were placed in the middle of the high table. The high table was covered with green and white fabrics, which matched the colour of the book.

Commencing the event, the emcee, Mr Tolu Adeyemi, led the gathering to sing the National Anthem. After, some guests were introduced.

Omotosho in his opening remarks hailed the author for occupying  himself with a result-driven exercise.

He said the book would be useful to all. He urged the young ones to emulate him.

His words: “The book is unique in that it is the first book where we have enlightenment in a consolidated manner for Nigerians on the issue of cash-less economy.

“The days of carrying bags of cowry, loads of naira would come to an end if we embrace the whole process of cash-less economy which was introduced to help us embrace the new phenomenon of transactions.

“Mr Olowoyobiojo has put together the history of money transactions, money spent over time and the advantages and disadvantages of various ways we have been handling our money transactions,” he said.

He lamented the declining reading culture but urged the author to get his book across to the public through proper distribution channels.

Dr Andy Titus Okwu, a lecturer in the Department of Economics, Banking and Finance, Babcock University, Ilishan Remo, Ogun State, reviewed the book. He was represented by Mr Kayode Ibrahim.

Director of Corporate Communications, Central Bank of Nigeria, Alhaji Ibrahim Muazu, represented by Mr Innocent Edozie, said the author has contributed to knowledge and shed more light on the cash-less economy.

This, he said, will help to achieve a secured nation that will be free of robbery attacks on the highways, homes and banks, among other places, because people will no longer carry money around.

Managing Director/Chief Executive Officer, Nigeria Deposit Insurance Corporation (NDIC), Alhaji Umaru Ibrahim, presented the book and set the pace for its purchase. He was represented by Mrs Nurat Kikelomo. Some other guests bought copies.

The author said the book was borne out of his decision to promote a united, prosperous and peaceful Nigeria and also to educate and enlighten Nigerians and foreigners on the importance of a cash-less society.

Olowoyobiojo said the cash-less society will increase the financial inclusion in Nigeria because the book is written in a way that when people read it, they will have a deeper understanding of what cash-less society is all about and it will also facilitate their adoption and usage of various banking channels.

“Since the commencement of the cash-less policy in Nigeria, the rate at which people use ATM, PoS machines and mobile money has increased tremendously; we are moving gradually and we will achieve the cash-less Nigeria of our dreams which the book has shed more light on.”

He noted that going cash-less in the country has some challenges which the book has addressed.

“When people buy and read the book, it will spur them into action and those challenges will be curtailed.

“The book was written to further complement efforts of the Federal Government and Central Bank of Nigeria in the promotion of cash-less society,” he said.

He said the book is unique in every sense; it is portable, easy to read and understand.

The National Headquarters of the Nasrullahi-li-Fathi Society of Nigeria (NASFAT) in Mowe, Ogun State was agog as the women wing of the society celebrated the grand finale of their 15th annual Women’s Week. AMIDU ARIJE was there.

They exchanged pleasantries.

Excitement was in the air as they were all filled with joy. They looked resplendent in their white and blue attires with gold shoes to match. It was their day, so they were there in number.

The venue was beautifully adorned in blue and white satin colours.

It was the 15th annual Women’s Week of the women wing of the Nasrullahi-li-Fathi Society of Nigeria (NASFAT) in Mowe, Ogun State.

Alhaja FadhilatAdebisi and Alhaji Mustapha Bello anchored the programme.

The Dhikr (praises) by Alhaja Adebisi enlivened the gathering as all stood to recite after her.

This was followed by the address of the National Women Affairs Secretary, Alhaja Nofisat Arogundade.

Alhaja Arogundade thanked the members for their support during her tenure. She said she was addressing them for the last time as the Secretary of the organisation for two terms.

Giving account of her stewardship, Alhaja Arogundade said the group was able to empower women in various vocational skills and improve their spiritual life through various programmes.

“At our 4th biennial conference, we took the bold step with the theme ‘Muslimah! It’s time to move’ which was intended to inspire, motivate and empower people from all walks of life to see this challenging moment in history as an opportunity to come together and transform ourselves and our communities as agents of change,” she said.

She recieved a standing ovation as she spoke on her achievements in office.

The NASFAT women leader urged the women to continue to make the difference in all they do to make life better for themselves, their children and the nation at large.

“Let us begin by performing our traditional roles with a difference and do better in what brings us together. We have integrity, making a difference is a big business, a Muslimah (Muslim woman) must make a difference wherever she finds herself,” she said.

Wife of Vice President, Hajia Amina Namadi Sambo, represented by Hajia Aishat Bello Tukur, eulogized the Women Wing of the society for their commitment towards the development of women capacities in the country.

Over the years, NASFAT, Hajia Sambo said, has shown commitment and dedication to the cause of women through its various programmes of which the annual Women’s Week crowns them.

“The Women Week,” she stated, “offers us an opportunity to discuss, aggregate and exhibit the virtuous roles that Muslim women keep playing and should play as major stakeholders in this globalised world to make a difference.”

She noted that active participation of women in nation development is vital.

“The world today is convinced that the active participation of women leads to the development of a peaceful and just society,” she said.

NASFAT President, Alhaji Sheriff Yussuf thanked the Women Wing of the society for the foresight and meaningful programme.

The guest speaker, Dr Lateef Adetona of the Lagos State University (LASU), said the making of a meaningful society lies on the shoulder of the women, urging women to take care of their home.

Lagos State Governor Mr Babatunde Fashola was represented by the Secretary to the State Government, Dr Idiat Adebule; Fashola’s deputy Mrs Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire was represented by Alhaja Riskat Akinode. The Ogun State Governor’s wife, Mrs Funso Amosun was represented by Mrs Bolanle Baturiat Oyedele.

The Rotary Club of Lagos Central has inducted Segun Oluyemo as its 33rd president. The event, which was held at the Yoruba Tennis Club, Onikan, Lagos, was also to raise funds for the club’s projects. NNEKA NWANERI was there.

The Rotary Club of Lagos Central  became chartered in 1981. Since then, it has grown in leaps and bounds. At an epoch-making ceremony, an Estate Surveyor, Mr Segun Oluyemo, was ushered in as its 33rd president. He took over the mantle of leadership from Mrs Victoria Adeyemo.

It was a funfilled day for the club members, their families and friends.

The Yoruba Tennis Club, Onikan, Lagos, was the place to be that day  as the Rotarians gathered to crown a president, who will lead the club for the next one year.

The ceremony also afforded the club a platform to solicit for funds from friends and well-wishers for its projects.

The venue was decked in yellow and blue decorations, colours of the club. Chairs and tables were arranged in four rows, such that everyone could see the happenings on the dignitaries’ table.

The event began with the Rotary anthem followed by other songs. The songs enlivened the atmosphere.

Soon, the chairman of the installation committee, Idowu Ayinde, welcomed guests, soliciting their their moral and financial support towards effectively delivering the projects for the year. Then, it was time for the business of the day.

Taking over the microphone, Mrs. Adeyemo called Oluyemo to the podium to be decorated. Saying that he is the right man for the job, she removed the insignia of office – a medal bearing the names of past presidents – and placed it on his neck to the delight of the audience.

Accepting the challenge, Oluyemo outlined his course of action for the year and went back to his seat.

Chairman on the occasion and Managing Director of First Registrars, who was represented by Mr Sebastain Okeke, lauded the club for comprising men and women who are thoroughbred professionals. He said their wealth of experience had given rise to various laudable projects in the club.

Managing Director of Lagos Waste Management Authority (LAWMA) Mr Ola Oresanya was the guest speaker. He spoke on the Rotary in the early 80s and how their activities and comments influenced government’s policy and his decision to become a waste manager.

He urged the club to motivate the younger generation into selflessly giving to their communities.

Oresanya’s speech was greeted with a loud ovation.

The immediate past District Governor of District 9110, Olubemiga Olowu, who represented the District Governor, Dr Dele Balogun, made Oresanya an honorary member of any Rotary Clubs of his choice.

Olowu removed his club’s lapel pin and decorated the LAWMA boss with it.

This, he said, would see them as partners in progress in the work of bringing about a good environment for all to live.

Mr Ajayi Ayokunle, who has just turned 60, has retired from teaching after 35 years of meritorious service, reports MUSA ODOSHIMOKHE. 

It was a moment to give gratitude to God. A day colleagues, council workers and associates of Mr. Ajayi Ayokunle bade him farewell at a colourful ceremony, after spending 35 years in the service of the Lagos State government.

The event took place at the council hall of the Oshodi Local Government Area, Lagos State.

Beaming with smiles, the retired teacher acknowledged cheers from guests, who came to felicitate with him. Dressed in a black suit on the high table with his wife, Mojisola, one could see fulfillment on his face. He wouldn’t have wished for a better outing.

Guests sat in circles, responding rhythmically to the music coming from the loud speakers. Intermittently, the master of ceremony would interrupt the music to announce the presence of guests as they entered the hall.

The event began with a prayer from one of the Pastors in attendance. It was followed by opening remarks by a close associate.

The man of the moment was ushered onto the dance floor, amid traditional Ekiti songs rendered by a group. Ayokunle danced to the rhythm in such a skilful way and he was greeted with standing ovation.  Ayokunle challenged Ekiti indigenes who are cut off from culture to retrace their steps.

As the event progressed, the profile of the erudite teacher was read.

The profile said Ayokunle started his career as an auxiliary teacher in 1975-1976 at the Community Primary School, Are Ekiti. He later served as a clerk at the Student Account Section, Bursary Department, Obafemi Awolowo University in 1976.

He had a stint with Briscoe Motors, Apapa; New Era Girls Secondary School, Surulere and AUD Grammar School, Apapa.

He was transferred to Ajao Estate Grammar School, Oshodi/Isolo before he was redeployed to another department as an Investigating Officer.

With the creation of Education District in Lagos State, he was moved to the Inspectorate Department where he served and retired as Deputy Director on  September 23.

In a chat, Ayokunle said he would remain grateful to God for enabling him to serve his fatherland as a teacher.

He said: “Teachers build the society; they build leaders and give those they taught a direction to follow. I give the glory to the Almighty God to witness this event.

“I will miss the spirit of camaraderie, the togetherness we often shared as colleagues. But I must say, we are still going to be in touch, we are still going to see one another either in private capacity or in public places.”

He prayed for long life, saying over 90 per cent of his objectives have been fulfilled whilst he was a teacher.

‘’I thank God I have my own accommodation; I give glory to God so I don’t have anything to worry about.” He advised his colleagues left behind to be hardworking. “I want them to work as expected of them,” he added.

His wife described him as a gentleman who is caring and loving.

“He likes people around him, a very jovial person and warm. Now, that he has retired I am full of praise to the Almighty because he will always be around for the family.

“Those things we could not do in his active service days, the retirement will now afford us the opportunities to look at them.”

His friend, Ajakaye Olusola, described him as a committed public servant who gave his best to humanity. “We grew up together in Ado-Ekiti, so I have known him for a long time.

‘’Much as I know him, when he joined the teaching profession, he grew through the ranks and had his promotion regularly. He passed through the body of knowledge as a professional. He was at the college of education; he went to university and did other teaching courses.

‘’He is a diligent person and very committed; he did everything to impart knowledge to those who passed through him. Obviously, his colleagues and students alike will miss him. He has produced great minds who are now occupying key positions in the society. There was never a dull moment for him. He is a man of integrity,’’ he said.

Another colleague, with whom Ayokunle started work the same day, Mr. Olalekan Ojo, described the ex-teacher as a good listener and adviser.

He said: “I know him far back in 1980 when we were at the College of Education. He has been a very good friend. Ever since, we have been together. He is a very understanding person. He is humble and diligent.

‘’He assists people to resolve their problems immediately. When I am troubled, he knows. He will call me immediately and assist me to get over the challenge. I have worked on his pieces of advice and they have been very rewarding. He is a very punctual person when it comes to his duty.

‘’The students, who passed through him before he moved to the office, have good stories to tell about him. We started our teaching career the same year that was in 1984 after our service year. I thank God we retired the same year, just that my own retirement came in May and his in September,’’ he added.

Ayokunle later changed to a flowing white Agbada and cap to match when it was time to be formally pulled out of service. He was ushered into a black Honda CRV, which was laced with flowery ribbons. His colleagues pulled the ribbons as the car moved, to signify his formal exit from service.

He later returned to the hall to cut the cake to mark his 60th birthday and got lots of gifts from his friends and well-wishers.

Innerwheel Club of Lagos has installed its 41st president, writes AMIDU ARIJE.

Inner Wheel Club of Lagos was chartered in July 1969. Its first president was Mrs Deji Alakija. The club kicked off with 28 members with an objective to promote true friendship; encourage the ideals of personal service and to foster international understanding.

It was on this note that the club members and their friends converged at the Pinefield School hall on Christ Avenue, Lekki Phase 1, Lagos to install Mrs Olamide Da-Costa as the 41st President. She and other executive members will steer the affairs of the club for the next two years.

On entry into the school, the club’s banner was seen strategically placed along roads leading to the hall. It was to sell the club to first-timers and briefly explain what the club is all about.  Many took their time to read through the inscriptions.

More banners in the hall added beauty to its settings.

Members of the club shone in different attires, looking resplendent. The -would- be installed president, Da-Costa stole the day with her beautiful attire and became the cynosure of all eyes. With smiles, she moved from table to table, greeting and acknowledging the teeming guests. For those who she could not reach, she simply waved them from a distance.

Other club members exchanged pleasantries. The venue served as a contact point. Others still found it a fun place to relax.

The programme began with prayers.  It was led by the club’s District Treasurer, Mrs Blessing Okougbo. Then, followed the club’s anthem Guests were invited to the high table by the anchors.

There was sonorous music in the background.

The outgoing president, Mrs Chidinma Joy Ashimole gave her valedictory speech, thanking all for the success she achieved during her tenure.

She said that during her reign, the club was able to renovate toilets and provide facilities to some schools within its jurisdiction.  She attributed her to the support of all members of the club.

Ashimole called on all the members to give the new president full support for her to achieve her goals.

Mrs Da-Costa was introduced to all as her profile was read. She was immediately installed President by the District Chairman, Mrs Mrs Joe Ebo.

The out gone president Mrs Ashimole gently removed the collaret from her neck and hung it Mrs Da-Costa’s.  This gesture attracted applauds. She took up the challenge by joggling the bell.

In her acceptance speech, Da-Costa she said the plight of widows will be of top concern, and promised to improve their lots with empowerment programmes.

“Empowering the women (widows) has been a long-life dream of mine and am thankful that God give me this unexpected chance to fully utilise this opportunity to impact upon the lives of widows and single parents, whom I happen  to be a part of,” she said.

She added that their intention is to provide them with skill to practice trades.

She called on their support towards realising her dream.

Secretary of the Club, Comfort Okolie gave the vote of thanks.

The curtain was drawn with a closing prayer by the anchor of the programme, and all took to the dance floor.

At its 52nd Founders Day celebration, some alumni of the College of Medicine University of Lagos (CMUL), relived encounters with the late Provost, Prof Horatio Oritsejolomi. WALE ADEPOJU was there.

Egg heads from all walks of life gathered at the College of Medicine, University of Lagos to remember the school’s first provost, Prof Horatio Oritshejolomi Thomas; aka HOT.

The event was the 15th Horatio Oritshejolomi Thomas (HOT) and 52nd Founder’s Day Lecture.

The theme of the event was: Celebrating the Pioneering Spirit of HOT: the SEPLAT Story.

The venue was the Old Great Hall, which was full to its capacity. Guests and students who could not get into the venue in time stood outside and listened.

The guest lecturer is the Chairman, Seplat Petroleum Development Company, Dr Ambrosie Bryant Chukwuemeka Orjiako.

Former Chairman, Court of Governors, College of Medicine, Dr Sonny Kuku said there was need for alumni and other stakeholders to turn the school around.

He implored the alumni to do their best to uphold the legacy of late Prof Oritshejolomi .

He called for a better alumni association for the college.

Kuku praised the life of the late Thomas, for his strictness and professionalism, adding that many medical experts are who they are today because of him.

A professor of surgery, Shoga Sofola, described HOT as disciplinarian who was straightforward and a gentleman with interest and firm belief in academics and morals.

Prof Francis Ogunye, Chief Obafemi Olopade and and InVitro Fertilisation expert, Prof Oladapo Ashiru, all described late HOT as a good man, who observed and loved decorum.

The Vice Chancellor, University of Lagos, Prof Rahamon Bello assured the College of Medicine, Idi Araba, its sister school, of better infrastructure, among other facilities to enable it compete with the best across the world.

According to him, improving on the existing facilities is necessary because most of them are presently obsolete.

The Redeemed Christian Church of God, Complete Sanctuary, Dominion Area Headquarters, Lagos Province 17 has dedicated its building at Jas/Ojo Pipeline Avenue, Iju Ishaga, Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI was there.

It was a day of jubilation for the entire church. The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG), Complete Sanctuary, Dominion Area Headquarters, Lagos Province 17 at 14, Jas/Ojo Pipeline Avenue, Iju Ishaga, Lagos was dedicated.

The event also featured the inauguration of borehole for the host community.

Exotic cars brought some distinguished guests who graced the event.

Guests were dressed in corporate and traditional wears.

The church and its  compound were beautifully decorated.  The hall creatively decorated. Painted in cream with matching floor tiles and a touch of dark brown; the altar was painted in butter colour and decorated with tiles. The 500-seater hall had a gallery and plastic blue and orange chairs set in rows. The walls were further decorated with wine and gold fabric having lights all over. Its ceiling was dark brown and white.

The service started with praises led by the church choir during which the General Overseer of RCCG, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, represented by the Pastor in charge of Region 2, RCCG, Pastor Joseph Obayemi, arrived with an entourage. They were received by other ministers of the church.

They went straight to the main entrance of the church where Pastor Obayemi cut the ribbon and dedicated the church. He also opened the plaque by the right side of the door and commissioned the water facility in front of the church.

The train moved inside the church and joined in the praise session.

After the praises, the Assistant Pastor in charge, Corporate Social Responsibility, Lagos Province 17, Yomi Oluranti, led the opening prayers and the Pastor in charge of the church, Pastor Soji Omotunde, welcomed guests thereafter.

Pastor Obayemi in a sermon taken from Hebrews 12:6, spoke on the topic, “I work with progress in the hand of God”.

He told the congregation that God has not finished with them yet, encouraging them that they are at work with progress in God’s hand.

He said God will perfect whatever is left to be done in their lives, urging them to surrender absolutely and cast all their burdens on God.

He praised members on the beauty of the church, applauding the ministers and members for the great job done.

After the sermon, he told the congregation to go on their knees while he led them in a session of powerful prayers for the church and the members.

The Pastor in charge, Lagos Province 17, Pastor David Omunagbe, led the congregation to pray for Pastor Obayemi thereafter.

Pastor Omotunde said the water project commissioned was part of the church’s corporate social responsibility to the community.

He said though water flows from Iju Water Works to Ikoyi and Victoria Island, the locality still lacks water.

“The church has done this is to make water available in the area,” he said.

He said the church which is dedicated after being built for several years is now a settled place. “The church is a place of miracle and salvation and of benefit to all those who come in,” he said.

The Parish Pastor, Pastor Abiodun Sofoluwe said the church building which was dedicated was for the expansion of the kingdom of God. “It was an outcome of focus and dedication,” he said.

He urged the members to ensure that they are dedicated and focused with God, adding that is the only way they can achieve whatever they want in life.

The remains of the Chief Executive Officer of Awe Medical Centre on Willouby Street, Ebute Metta and former President of Igbobi College Old Boys Association (ICOBA), Olumide Olugbolahan Awe, were interred in England. A service was held on the same day at the College Chapel in Yaba, Lagos, report NNEKA NWANERI and OMOLARA OGUNWALE.

The death of the former President of the Igbobi College Old Boys Association, Olumide Olugbolahan Awe, came as a rude shock to many. He died after a terminal illness in the United Kingdom (UK) on September 21. He would have turned 60 next year.

The late Awe was a student of the Igbobi College, Yaba of the 1967/1973 set, and Chairman of ICOBA UK/Europe from 2009 to 2013.

His classmates and members of the Old Boys Association of Igbobi College organised a funeral service  in his honour. While they held theirs at the Canon Reginald Parker Memorial Chapel, inside the school, his family members were at the Redeemed Christian Church of God (Jesus House) Bent Cross, London.

Many of the ‘boys’ came with their spouses. Others, who attended the service were his extended family members who could not make it to the UK and decided to pay him their last respects. Most old boys were dressed in their yellow and navy blue  colours.

The service was anchored by the Rev Bola Oyeladun of the Methodist Church, Wesley Cathedral, Tinubu, Lagos Island, where the late Awe worshiped as a child.  Other clergies were in company of Rev Oyeladun, they were dressed in white and purple robes. The purple signifies mourning.

After Rev Omobola Akerele announced to the guests the purpose of their gathering, the opening was led by Revd. Dapo Daramola.

The first lesson taken from Sirach 38:16-23 was read by Mrs Kemi Awe. The second, read by Rev Kayode Gbelee, was taken from John 11:1-26.

The Old Boys  all rose and rendered Alma Mater’s Anthem.

There was a session of  tributes and testimonies on the life of the late Awe. Most of them remembered how they first came in contact with him. They described him in the superlatives as a selfless man, highly disciplined and hugely principled. To them, the late Awe gave his all for the good of others. His size, they said, was no match for his wisdom.

ICOBA President, Murphy Ipaye, said the event was about celebrating the late Awe’s life and how he brought the UK branch of ICOBA into limelight.

To others, he transformed ICOBA UK and Europe to what it can be boasted of today.

Demola Adewakun, a member of ICOBA UK said when the late Awe took over as their president, the association’s account swelled  from from 50 pounds to 1500 pounds.

“He was our soul and machine in Europe.” Adewakun said.

The late Awe was one of the youngest staff teachers of Igbobi College in the late 70s after his first degree, a job he held before he went to study medicine.

Doctor Omololu Oshinowo described him as an accommodating business partner.

Deputy Governor of Ogun State, Prince Olusegun Adesegun, who was his classmate, said he will miss his support and input in the coming elections.

Omoruyi Iyamu recalled meeting him in 1972 in the HSC block; decked in a clean and crisp khaki uniform, which was his trademark.

Rev. Oyeledun in a brief sermon, said the event was a wakeup call for others to consider what they can do for the college and pick from his exemplary life.

The cleric, who was also a contemporary of the late Awe described him as a much misunderstood person.

He also asked: “What will people say about you when you leave this world? What do we want to be remembered for?

He urged all thus: “Everyone will die someday, whether we like it or not. Let us use the little time we have to do positive things for God, humanity and community. Always keep your eyes on the cross and don’t be deflected.”

He ended his sermon with a solemn song and briskly walked back into the altar.

It is my pleasure to welcome you again to this column on public speaking. First, we teach that everyone is a public speaker because we all express ourselves among people at one time or the other, be it in school, at work or religious gatherings. Second, we believe that your level of success in anything you do will be determined by the attention you give to effective communication. Also, you cannot lead effectively without learning to be a good public speaker. Several leaders who are accused of not ‘carrying along’ their subordinates may be victims of not knowing how to express themselves. The higher you go in the hierarchy of your organization, the more you will be given leadership responsibilities and opportunities to represent the organization. If that happens, you will need to speak more. Instead of dreading it, why not learn it?

We have shared several things in this column, such as what public speaking is, dealing with the fear of public speaking, types of speeches and their peculiarities and how to present impromptu speeches. Though our aim is to become better speakers, we have recently started to explore the importance of listening. We observed that a lot of people would rather speak than listen. In fact, a lot of people reading this article right now find it difficult to wait and listen. Unfortunately, if we are not good listeners, we may not be able to get people to listen to us. Consequently, we have been sharing important information on how to improve our listening skills and how to get people to listen to us.

Last week, we examined Joseph T. Klapper’s assertion that audiences don’t passively receive all mass media messages; rather, they only receive messages that reinforce their existing convictions. We applied this to public speaking by stating that listeners have a technique of filtering whatever message we pass across to them and only keep what they consider relevant. Klapper identified five major factors that can determine listeners’ disposition towards messages and we decided that four of them are more relevant to public speaking. The first one was examined last week, which states that predispositions and related processes of selective exposure, selective perception and selective retention influence audiences’ reactions to messages. Today, we shall examine the remaining three as they apply to public speaking and they are the following:

•Type and norm of the group the audience belongs to.  We are more influenced by the group we belong to more that we are aware of. While teaching my students some time ago, I asked them about their attachment to some specific brands of products. One of them claimed to love a particular brand very much and would not consider an alternative. Further questioning revealed that she didn’t have any other reason for her decision apart from her family’s adoption of the brand. In like manner, people in different political parties will react to issues and candidates according to their political leaning. Hence, as a public speaker, you must learn that whatever message you give to your listeners will be screened based on the group they belong to and the norms of that group.

•Interpersonal dissemination of the content of communication. In public speaking, the extent to which you can connect with your audience on an interpersonal level will determine how successful your speech is. When that connectivity is not there, your listeners may not feel any responsibility towards your message.

•The role of opinion leaders. Whether people will listen to you or not will be determined by who they are already listening to. Opinion leaders are people who have influence over the decisions of other people as a result of the positions- political, social, financial or spiritual. As a public speaker, your understanding of who controls the opinion of your audience will help you to learn how to present your ideas. Of course, it goes without saying that criticizing such an opinion leader brings your speech to a premature end. This is not to say that you should be a sycophant. It only means that the key to the hearts of the people is with the opinion leader, so a message that would succeed must be one that has his/her approval.

I have mentioned it several times before that public speaking is mainly about the perception of the audience. You can never judge the success of a speech by the number of people present. The only true measurement of your success is the feedback you get from your listeners. Based on the foregoing, a public speaker should do a proper and detailed analysis of his/her audiences to determine the various “checkpoints” in their minds. There is no point in you being unnecessarily disagreeable or controversial. If you are not accepted by an audience, find another one. There are always people waiting to hear what you have to say. I am yet to meet the first speaker that is acceptable to the entire human population. Even the most famous and highly respect public speakers are disliked by some people. As important as your preparation is to the success of your speech, more important is the readiness of your audience to listen to you.

A group of Oyo State indigenes, Jericho Business Club (JBC) honoured some of its own at the Intercontinental Hotel, Victoria Island, Lagos State. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI writes. 

It was a remarkable day for members of Jericho Business Club (JBC) as they turned out in choice outfits at the Intercontinental Hotel, Victoria Island, Lagos, for an award ceremony.

The club honoured some of its distinguished ones including Oyo State Governor, Senator Abiola Ajimobi and Chairperson, House of Representatives Committee on Diaspora, Hon Abike Dabiri-Erewa, for their achievements in their various fields of endeavour and contribution to the development of the country.

The second floor of the hotel, where the event held, was full of attractions. The spot lights on the ceiling, the sparkling floor tiles and glass walls were a beauty to behold.

Guests occupied chairs set around the tables.

There were mouth watering cuisine and choice drinks. SAJ music Inc electrified the hall.

JBC is a group of young men from Ibadan land between the age of 35 and 55 who are professionals in their chosen fields.

The event kicked off with the rendition of national anthem. The duo of Mr Bayo Adepoju and Mr Rufai Ladipo coordinated the programme.

The president of JBC, Mr Bayo Olugbemi in his welcome address, said the club is set up to assist its members and Ibadan land.

He said the award is based on the achievement of its members in their fields of endeavour. “We are honouring them because they have excelled in their various callings and we encourage them to do more,” he said.

The guest speaker, Hon Dabiri-Erewa, urged the gathering to be politically cautious and ensure that they contribute to the development of Oyo State.

“It is not all about the award being given today, it is the charge that voters are the most important part of democracy and if the electorate is not passive, we will get the kind of leaders we deserve.

“It is, therefore, important that members of this club should get up and be part of the election process and determine who governs them, participate, register to vote, and monitor the vote and ensure your vote counts,” she said.

President, Central Council of Ibadan Indigenes (CCII), Chief Adebayo Oyero in a good will message, said the awardees have been playing their roles effectively and they are being honoured to show appreciation for what they have been able to achieve personally which is a pride to CCII, an umbrella organisation under which all clubs formed by Ibadan indigenes beset.

He said the club members are a pack of patriotic Ibadan men who have given back to the town a lot of what they have. “These people have the potential to be effective political leaders; they are leaders in their respective professions; they have attained the peak of their careers and have certain qualities to be leaders so, l urge them to use the qualities to enthrone better politics in Nigeria. They should show more interest in the politics of Oyo State and Nigeria because they have what it takes,” he said.

The representative of Senator Ajimobi, Special Adviser, Bureau of Investment Promotion and Public Private Partnership, Oyo State, Mrs Folakemi Akinleye delivered the governor’s wishes to the club, urging them to join hands with him to take the state to the next level.

The award session followed.

Hon Dabiri-Erewa was the first to be honoured. She looked elegant in her cream skirt and blouse.

Other awardees were; Governor Ajimobi who was represented by Mrs Akinleye; Deputy Governor, Central Bank of Nigeria, Chief Adebayo Adelabu; President and Chairman of Council, Lagos Chamber of Commerce and Industry (LCCI), Alhaji Aderemi Bello; Managing Director and Chief Executive Officer, Sovereign Trust Insurance Plc, Mr Wale Onaolapo and Executive Director/ Chief Financial Officer, First Bank of Nigeria, Dr Adesola Adeoduntan.

Hon Dabiri-Erewa appreciated the honour more so as it came from a group of professionals. She said the award shows that there is no alternative to hard work.

Alhaji Bello urged the gathering to participate in democracy. “We should be part of our democracy, we need to be involved in the election and exercise our voting right,” he said.

Delta State Governor Emmauel Uduaghan entered the sexagenarian club with pomp at a well-celebrated event, SHOLA O’NEIL was there. 

The 60th birthday of Delta State Governor Dr Emmanuel Uduaghan was unique in several ways. It was the last birthday the medical practitioner-turned politician would mark in the Delta State Government House as the state helmsman.

The one-week-long affair, which held at the Event Centre, Asaba, the state capital, began with a public lecture on Anger Management. It was chaired by the Sultan of Sokoto, Alhaji Sa’ad Abubakar III.

The glitz and glamour that attended the celebrations climaxed with a thanksgiving service at the First Baptist Church, Warri.

Reminiscing, Uduaghan, in an emotion-laden voice, said he had many reasons to thank God on attaining the age.

To him, “60 years is not a joke. In the last 60 years, God has lifted me from nothing to something.”

He described his life as “a living testimony of thanksgiving”, adding that at 60, he felt a lot stronger than when he was in his 50s.

He also reflected on his journey to becoming governor of the state, his successes and travails, particularly, his sack in November 2010 by an Appeal Court, which upturned his victory at the 2007 polls and ordered a re-election, which he also won in January 2011 before repeating the feat three months later, when he was re-elected in April of the same year.

He concluded his narration with the reasons why he has always prevailed over his adversaries in every situation.

“When the judges decided to remove me as governor in 2010, I was in this same church to give thanks and when I was reinstated, I also came to give thanks. So, in any situation, learn to give thanks,” Uduaghan advised.

Earlier in his sermon, President of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) and founder of the Word of Life Bible Church, Warri, Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor, praised Uduaghan’s attitude towards thanksgiving, stressing, “God is interested in your expectations; thanksgiving energises your expectations.”

He admonished Nigerians, particularly those in positions of authority, to carry out their responsibilities with the fear of God, hardwork and not to rely on undue merits and benefits.

“There are people in this country today enjoying what they didn’t work for. The scriptures say the wickedness of the wicked will come to an end. They think there’s no God, but they will know there is God. They do things without considering the God factor; they have made a major mistake.  They will suffer somehow, somewhere. Wickedness is a killer of expectations. If you do wickedness, it will wait for you in the future. If you do wickedness, it will catch up with you and when tomorrow comes, you are left with nothing,” Pastor Oritsejafor cautioned.

After the service, Uduaghan led members of his family, friends, associates and his officials, including the Deputy Governor, Prof Amos Utuama (SAN) and his wife, Nelly Tuwere, to a special thanksgiving offering.

Thereafter, the party moved to the governor’s private home, off Ogunu Road, Warri, for a reception chaired by a former Secretary to the Government of the Federation and former presidential candidate of the Alliance for Democracy (AD) in the 1999 election, Chief Olu Falae.

Uduaghan, dressed in a sky-blue traditional George wrapper with gold-colour frills at the edges, a matching cream/gold Kemeje shirt, arrived the venue with his wife, also dressed in the same attire. Their arrival was greeted with wild cheers and ovation by guests, supporters and aides, who camped outside the compound for a long time.

The roll call of guests comprised many in politics and business. More than 10 aspirants of the Peoples’ Democratic Party (PDP), who have indicated their interest to succeed the celebrator, were in attendance.

They included Senator Ifeanyi Okowa; Sir Godswill Obielum; Hon Ndudi Elumelu; Chief Ngozi Olejeme; former Speaker of the State Assembly Hon Victor Ochei; former Minister of State for Education Olorogun Kenneth Gbagi and Obarisi Ovie Omo-Agege, among others.

Other guests were: Senators James Manager and Emmanuel Aguariavwodo, representing Delta South and Central respectively; Hon Daniel Reyenieju, representing Warri Federal Constituency in the National Assembly and his Ethiope counterpart, Akpodiogaga Emeyese; Speaker of the Delta State House of Assembly Rt Hon Patrick Onwusanya and his deputy, Basil Ganagana, and Honourables Daniel Mayuku; Dan Yingi; Irene Imilar and Efe Ofobruku, among others.

Traditional rulers from the three senatorial districts of the state: the Orodje of Okpe, Francis Mujakperuo, his counterparts from Ughelli, Olomu, Akugbene Mein and Seimbiri Kingdoms, Oharisi II, Ogoni Ogbon II, Stanley Kananawei and Pere Charles Ayemi-Botu, were there.

Commissioner for Information, Mr Chike Ogeah, his counterparts in the ministries of Works, Housing, Special Infrastructure, Poverty Alleviation and Transport, Funkekeme Solomon, Paulinus Akpeki, Mrs Orezi Esievo, Dr Anthonia Ashiedu and Ben Igbakpa were also in attendance.

Falae praised the celebrator for his humility, admonishing politicians and those in public offices to learn from the modest nature of the governor. He decried the attitude of those who see public offices as avenues for self-enrichment and aggrandisement, adding that some councillors would make more noise than they are worth just to draw attention to themselves. He said the celebrator was refreshingly different and conducts himself  with humility.

The highpoint of the reception was the cutting of the birthday cake and the celebrator’s dance with his wife, Roli Nere and their children-Mrs Orode Okpu and her husband, Ryan, and Toju Uduaghan.  Members of the state executive council also joined them on the dance floor.

Entertainment was at its best as guests were thrilled by a stellar of comedians and musicians, including Ali Baba, I-Go-Die, I-Go-Save, Gordons, sensational gospel singers such as Sammie Okposo and Frank Edwards of Oghenedoh fame and Daddy Showkey, among others.

A funeral service for the former Managing Director of the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), Dame Oluremi Oyo, was held at the St Dominic’s Basilica, Yaba Lagos, after a weeklong series of events. NNEKA NWANERI reports.

The left big footprints in the sands of time as she lived a life worthy of praise and emulation. The former Managing Director of the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN), Dame Oluremi Oyo, died on October 1, in the UK, where she was receiving treatment for a cancer-related ailment. She had looked forward to her 62nd birthday on October 12, before death struck.

Dame Oyo began her journalism career in 1973 in the then Nigerian Broadcasting Corporation (NBC) now known as the Federal Radio Corporation of Nigeria (FRCN).

On October 13, a commendation service held in her hometown at St Joseph’s Catholic Church Usi, Ekiti State;  and on October 16, a Requiem Mass at the Church of Assumption, Asokoro, Abuja in her honour.

The media had a night of tributes and Papal Knights and Medallists also organised a service of songs for her. The solemn songs reminded many of eternity.

There were reminisces of her life and times last Friday during a funeral service to bid her goodbye. Her husband, children, in-laws and associates were there in their numbers. The management and staff of NAN were in uniformed purple Ankara chosen for the occasion

Even the Catholic Priests all, had their cassocks sewn with the purple material from the ankara.

In a sermon by the Parish Priest of Ss Timothy and Titus Ijegun, a Lagos suburb, Rev Jude Abulu urged the mourners to celebrate, rejoice and thank God that she has gone to a better place of rest, where there are no sadness, sickness and sorrow.

He said because she was and still many things to many people, there are a lot of lessons to take from her life.

“She was small, yet mighty. She was one who took note of small details and was one lover of nature and life itself.

“I can still remember her voice when she speaks or laughs and it is memories such as these that we should keep dear to us because she loved to love; was compassionate and accepted the things of life as they  were,  naturally becoming a philanthropist with her life and family and lived her life in the name of Christ. That was why she gave it all to her work, church and family.

“She told me once with tears that she was happy to receive the Lord during her Communion rounds. She has left a mark on us.”

He urged all to learn from her dedication and how she accepted all that came to her including her death.

“What about you?” Fr Abulu asked.

The cleric also spoke of the late Mrs Oyo’s days and her humble background noting that she sold akara (bean cake) after school hours those days. “She even assisted her parents in selling bread and puff puff in a moving train.”

President Goodluck Jonathan in a condolence letter to the family, described the late NAN boss as an epitome of the highest ideals of journalism and an archetypal professional, whose life should provide succour and inspiration to all who have crossed paths with her.

Former President Olusegun Obasanjo, whom she served as his Senior Special Assistant on Media from 1999-2007, said the late Remi earned his recognition and admiration.

He also described her as dutiful and hardworking and a woman loyal to the core. “Ever resourceful, trustworthy and conducted herself with humility” Obasanjo said.

In attendance were Frank Nweke jnr; President of the Nigerian Guild of Editors Mr Femi Adesina; Lanre Idowu, advertising guru Biodun Sobanjo;  past governors of Ekiti Dr Kayode Fayemi and Segun Oni and their Osun State counterpart Prince Olagunsoye Oyinlola.

The Okota Lions Club has installed Funke Faderera Adekoya as its 21st president at the Century Hotel, Okota, Lagos. AMIDU ARIJE and BASIRAT BRAIMAH were there.

It was a twin celebration; the investiture of Lion Funke Faderera Adekoya as the 21st president of the Okota Lions Club and her 50th birthday thanksgiving.

The fittings in the hall were beautiful. Members, guests and their family members were excited. They all appeared in gorgeous attires.

With badges on their chests, members of the club could easily be identified. Most women dressed in corporate wears while men wore the popular Atiku attire with caps. They exchanged pleasantries.

As they waited for the commencement of the investiture, a disk jockey (DJ) dished out music to the delight of all; some stood to dance while many shook their heads to the rhythms of the music.

The ceremony started with a prayer. The Lion anthem followed.

Guests were invited to the high table. The occasion was chaired by Mrs Funmi Sanusi.

When the celebrator, Adekoya, was invited to the high table, she was led in by  members who danced to Michael Jackson’s song “We are the one”.

Lion International Club District 404B-1 Governor Lion Abiola Odeyemi was the chief host.

The Matron, Vocational Training Institute, Oshodi, Dr. A. Afuwape, was the guest lecturer. She spoke on: “Our sight, our light”. She emphasised the importance of sight as she urged all to take care of it.  She shed more light on how to prevent blindness.

In her valedictory speech, the outgoing president of the club, Lion Folashade Joseph, thanked God and members for their support and cooperation during her tenure. She highlighted some of her achievements which included best club award; best president award; best 10 clubs award and a letter of appreciation from the International President of the club, Barry Palmer, among others.

“Another year has passed with great achievements in the history of our club. We had a very busy and eventful year, focusing on youth and children empowerment, aiding the blind and the visually impaired, widows’ empowerment, and reading action programmes among others. All these earned us awards at the International  and District levels,” she said.

Joseph urged her fellow Lions to stay off criticisms and support incoming president Faderera Adekoya.

In appreciation of their  support, Lion Joseph presented awards to some members of the club and non members for their contributions to the success of her administration.

Lion Odeyemi conducted the investiture. Before the installation of Lion Adekoya, Lion Odeyemi sought the permission of her husband and children for the job, after  which Lion Adekoya was installed.

All cheered and applauded the new president. Odeyemi took her round the tables to officially present her to guests and members of the club.  She acknowledged cheers from guests.

Lion Odeyemi, who dressed in a suit congratulated the new president and members, urging them to uphold the club’s code of ethics at all time. She said her theme for the year is: “Service is caring, strengthen the pride”. With smiles, he wished the members a successful service year.

In her acceptance speech, Lion Adekoya described the position as another learning stage in her life and accepted to be the president with deepest humility and a true feeling for selfless service.

“Right from inception, I have always loved to reach out to people. My core project is on prevention of sight, I don’t believe in jam-packing things but if I can with God’s help give five to 10 patients back their sight, then I will say am fulfilled,” she said.

The celebrator’s husband, Superior Evangelist Sesan Adekoya, described her as a hardworking woman who seeks to promote human welfare. He said it gladdens his heart knowing a number of her dreams are being fulfilled.

She cut her one-layer gold and white cake with her family, club members and other guests amidst clicking cameras.

Some giggled at private jokes while others ate silently as the ceremony lasted.

After the vote of thanks, people joined the celebrator on the dance floor where they were till light faded.

The wedding reception for Babajide, a nephew of the former Minister of Transport and Aviation, Chief Ebenezer Babatope, and Mariam was held penultimate Saturday at Darlington Hall, Illupeju, Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

It was a day of fulfilment for Babajide, the chief marketing officer, Daniok Nigeria Limited, and former Miss Mariam Osaji, an Information Technology personnel with Electronic-Purse Systems penultimate Saturday as they said: “I do”. A reception held at Darlington Hall, Illupeju, Lagos.

Their family members and friends gathered in their numbers, looking elegant in uniformed traditional attires. Many of the women were decked in gold gele.

Babajide, an indigene of Ilesa in Osun State, is the son of the younger brother of the former Minister of Transport and Aviation, Chief Ebenezer Babatope, Pastor Segun Babatope; while Mariam hails from Asaba in Delta State.

The hall was decorated in white and gold colours. The chairs were covered with white fabric and set around tables with golden overlays.

As guests arrived at the venue, they exchanged pleasantries amid gospel music by Kool Jay sound entertainment.

The event, anchored by Ademosu Ademola, began with hymns and accapela by The Veteran Voices, after which the emcee introduced the guests.

The bride’s parents, Ogbueshi Paul Isichei Osaji and Joy, came in first. They danced from the entrance of the hall accompanied by family members and friends amid the spraying of new naira notes. They took to their seats and the groom’s parents did same.

The entry of the couple in the hall caught guests’ attention. Many left their food, stood up to welcome the couple while some used phones, I-Pads and cameras to snap ‘the newest couple in town’ as said by the emcee. They came in with their friends and family members, took to the floor and displayed beautiful dance steps, wriggling their waists and flinging their arms around each other. They were smiled all through the event.

Pastor Emeka Izeze led the opening prayer.

The Chairman on the occasion, Pastor Solomon Odenema, took a reading from Exodus, 33 vs 14. He told the couple to allow the presence of God to follow them on their marital journey.

He urged them to show perseverance and understanding, knowing that they came from different backgrounds.

After the sermon, Pastor Odenema supervised the cutting of the cake. After which the couple fed each other.

They had their dance after the bride danced with her father and other guests later joined them on the dance floor, dancing and spraying money.

Telling her story with smiles, the bride said the journey has been good.

“We have fought, broken up and made up several times. But I thank God we are here, today, as husband and wife. Babajide is a man with a good heart, a beautiful soul and a man willing to sacrifice his own pleasure and comfort for others,” she said.

The groom said his wife is caring, homely, beautiful, and supportive in all areas.

“When we first met in December 21, 2011, I saw that she was the centre of everybody’s attention; she is very cautious about how she looked and I really wanted to know who she was and here we are today. I feel so fulfilled,” he said.

The Senior Special Assistant to President Jonathan on Public Affairs, Dr Doyin Okupe, advised the couple to hold on to God in the midst of all challenges.

“God ordained the marriage and He is capable of keeping it,” Okupe said.

Chief Ebenezer Babatope urged the couple to accommodate each other.

“Be patient and sober; do not rush to judgment in the midst of any challenge and do not be sentimental nor jump to conclusion,” he said.

The bride’s father said respect for each other is the secret of a marriage that will be successful.

“The woman has to recognise that the man is the head of the family; she must respect her husband and the husband must do likewise,” he said.

The groom’s father said there is more to life after wedding.

“The couple must live a godly life so that they can experience the riches that are ordained in marriage by God. Marriages are breaking today because God is not in it; therefore, allow God to be in your marriage always,” he said.

The bride’s mother described marriage as a sweet thing and urged the couple to be prayerful.

The groom’s mother, Mrs Olubukola Babatope, Chief Executive Officer, B8 Shawama, told the groom to love his wife as he loved himself and the wife should be submissive and prayerful, noting that the decision of her husband must overrule her own.

The son of a retired Area Manager, FirstBank of Nigeria, Mr Olakunle Osuntokun, Oluwamayowa, has been joined in holy matrimony with Adeola, daughter of the retired Executive Director, Ministry of Agriculture, Abuja. The ceremony took place last Saturday at the Catholic Church of Anunciation, Abraham Adesanya Estate, Lekki, Lagos, OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

Last Saturday was a day of joy for Oluwamayowa, a banker and Adeola, a teacher. They got married at the Catholic Church of Anunciation, Abraham Adesanya Estate, Lekki-Epe Expressway, Lagos.

Family members and friends turned out in large numbers to rejoice with them. Many turned out in gold traditional attires with burnt orange headgears/caps, which were the colours of the day.

The groom, Oluwamayo, son of a retired Area Manager, FirstBank of Nigeria, Mr Olakunle Osuntokun, arrived in a Black Fx45 car. He looked charming in black trousers, white shirt and blue suit. He went straight into the church hall and stood on the altar with the officiating priest, Rev. Fr. Anthony Okoro.

The bride, Adeola, came in an E-class Black Mercedes Benz. She was all smiles, looking elegant in her white flowing dress. She went to the altar hand-in-hand with her father to meet her beloved and the Rev. Fr. on the altar amid the hymn, “All the earth proclaims the Lord”.

Rev. Fr Okoro took the opening prayer and said the essence of the gathering after which the couple exchanged their marital vows. They exchanged rings and the Priest prayed for them.

Rev Fr. Okoro said marriage is not just a ceremony, but, a gift and an institution from God. “It is a contract and a covenant,” he said.

He told the couple that the love they have for each other must be a faithful one and that they must remain committed to each other in good and bad times.

“Love is about self-less giving, giving without reservation, and readiness to go to any length to express it,” he said.

After the sermon, Miss Madueke Eugenia led the gathering in a session of prayers for the couple.

The communion and thanksgiving were done and the couple signed the marriage register.

The service ended with the recessional hymn, “O yes in the presence of the Lord”.

Outside the church, the couple took photographs with their family members and friends.

The train moved to See Events Centre, LASU Complex, Lekki-Epe Expressway, for the reception.

Exotic cars of guests at the event filled the compound and its environs.

Security officials were on ground.  Ladies dressed in black pencil skirt and wine shirts welcomed guests and took them to their seats.

The hall was filled to capacity. It was tastefully decorated in gold and orange. Chairs were set around tables covered with white material, and there were lots to eat and drink.

Gods Perfect Sound entertainment Disc Jockey electrified the hall. The Eagle Life Band, led by Lekan Ogunyinka, was also there to entertain guests.

Declaring the event open, the Master of the Ceremony, Victor Oyebode, introduced guests and called for the entry of the couple’s parents. They both entered amid songs and in company of family members and friends. The couple came in next in the same manner.

Mr Adekunle Bamgbade led the opening prayer and the chairman on the occasion, Chief Financial Officer, Custodian and Allied Plc, Mr Ademola Ajuwon took to the podium for his remarks.

He congratulated the couple and their parents, telling the couple to always remember the joy of today and hold on to it whenever life’s challenge comes up.

He told them to run the marriage the way they have agreed to run it and not what one party wants.

“Adeola, submit to your husband the way Jesus submitted to Christ, Oluwamayowa, love your wife just as Jesus loved the church.  Don’t bring your office problem to the house, fellowship together, stay together and do common things together,” he said.

The M.C. led the couple to cut their cake after spelling of LOVE.

The party continued with the bride dancing with her father and then the couple danced alone.

Afterwards, the bride threw her bouquet to the single ladies and guests presented their gifts.

The dance floor was thrown open.

In a chat with the couple, the bride said she was  happy and thanked God for blessing her with a great man.

She said her beau was easy going, peaceful and stress less.

The groom said his beloved was understanding, matured, not demanding, trustworthy and respectful.

The bride’s father told the couple to do things together, love, pray and not to listen to gossip from anyone.

“Discuss whatever comes up between yourselves and find solution, avoid the third party,” he said.

Member, Presidential Advisory Council on International Relations, Ambassador Akinjide Osuntokun, told the couple to stay focused, open their minds to each other, be honest, and share their views and opinions so that they would be equal partners in the relationship.

“In the midst of challenges, listen to each other, respect each other’s opinion and know that both of you are equal partners, “he said.

The groom’s father urged the couple to pray together, resolve issues among themselves, “maintain your two accounts and have a common purse.”

An executive officer, WACE Lab, Mr Augustin Adebisi, told the couple to put their trust in God.

A one-stop shop in the heart of Ikeja, Lagos, Adam and Eve, welcomed customers and associates to the flag-off of its Christmas sales. Nneka Nwaneri was there.

Christmas is around the corner and many have begun warming up for the season. Among them is Adam and Eve gifts shop. on Isaac John Street, Ikeja. It has long stood as one of the unique household shops in the area

Last Sunday, the outfit not only gathered its clients to light up the season, it also treated them to good food, choice assorted drinks, and comedy.

Many of them came from far ends of Lagos to identify with them. It was in a relaxing atmosphere. The street lost its weekend serenity. Posh cars lined both sides as socialites from all walks of came to be counted.

On entry, they made straight for the shopping arena. Polished with style and class, it is stocked with a wide range of household equipment and gift items. For those who made purchases, they got 10  percent discount on every item.

Chairman of the outfit Mr Lanre Ogunlesi and his wife, Dupe (aka Adam and Eve) were on ground to welcome guests and give them a tour, showcasing their newest stocks and designs, flaunting the slogan of the shop – Dining-Giving-Living.

Mrs Ogunlesi, when asked what makes them different from the others, said: “The difference is the quality we offer because here we are taking shopping to another level.

They were proud of their Upside-Down Christmas Tree. The organisers explained that: “in the 7th century, it was believed that St Boniface while staying in Thuringia, a town in Germany, took the help of the triangular fir tree to represent the Holy Trinity made up of God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit.

“By the 12th century, it became a custom, especially in Europe to hang Fir trees upside down from the ceiling to symbolise the Holy Trinity. The Christmas tree was also considered to be the symbol of Christianity.

“Presently, the trend of hanging a Christmas tree has changed, because the tip of the Christmas tree is made to point towards Heaven,”

Outside, chairs and tables were arranged. It was celebration time and the older women were in their element, laughing to comedian Julius Agwu’s jokes. They also stole the show when they took to the dance floor as Aka, a live band, dished out music and Christmas melodies. Agwu also complemented their songs with his music.

The high point of the event was the lighting of the Christmas tree. It was done at the count of 10. The arena was colourfully beautified with frills depicting the season. From the rooftop to the floor and the walls, there was something depicting the herald of its sales and countdown to Christmas.

Present at the event were; Chief Executive Officer of Emzor Pharmaceuticals Dr Stella Okoli; Managing Direcor of Macmillian Publishers Mrs Francesca Emmanuel; renowned scholar Prof Adebayo Williams; CEO of Seka Ltd Mr Akintunde Ogunmekan and his wife, who is the Senior Marketing Manager of Great Nigerian Insurance Plc Mrs Kemi Ogunmekan; publisher of Encomium magazine Kunle Bakare and his Yes magazine counterpart Azuh Arinze, among others.

Les Brown, one of the world’s most renowned motivational speakers said, “With every technology that is created, somebody loses his job. As a speaker, however, you have an energy signature. There is an experience you can create that cannot be simulated by technology, which makes your life recession-proof.” Les is right. There is something unique about public speaking that projects your personality in a way technology cannot replicate. No two public speakers are the same. There is always something special about each one that makes it difficult for you to determine who is better.

What stands a public speaker out from the crowd? It is the energy he/she projects while speaking. Two speakers may deliver a similar speech but they will surely display different levels of energy. As good as energy is, however, a lot of people have a big problem channeling it. When you have a lot of energy and you are excited about your topic, there is the tendency to make uncoordinated moves. Whereas when you stand before your audience, you are considered as a standard for “appropriateness”. Hence, uncoordinated steps or gesticulations may be distracting.

A lot of people don’t know what to do with their hands while speaking. Since they have a lot of energy, they simply throw their hands in every direction, thinking that would convince the audience. Unfortunately, the audience is likely to be more distracted than convinced. According to Robert Krauss, Yihsiu Chen and Purnima Chawla, “all hand gestures are hand movements, but not all hand movements are gestures”. This they stated in their article titled, “Nonverbal Behaviour and Nonverbal Communication: What do Conversational Hand Gestures Tell Us?”. Moving our hands does not mean we are communicating.

In the next few weeks by the grace of God, we shall be exploring the use of gestures in public speaking. Today, let’s begin with the rules of gesticulation:

• It should complement your speech: movement of hands and body should help you to communicate better. It should help to emphasize your points. When gestures become too elaborate, they become the centre of attraction for your audience. The worst part of it is, you may be unaware of your distracting movement. Only with the exception of deliberate acts, a speaker should make the audience concentrate more on the words being spoken than hand movements.

• It should be purposeful: it is important to define your movement. Since your movement can either aid or hinder your presentation, it is advisable to plan it. Purposeless movements are movements that don’t add to your message. Such movements may include toying with your tie or hair, spinning a bunch of keys with your finger, tapping on the podium, toying with a button on your dress, etc.   It is, no doubt, a tough task to get rid of these movements. This is where practice becomes invaluable. In this column, we have always emphasized the role of practice in the success of any speaker. During your practice, pay attention to your gestures and ensure that each one is for a purpose. This does not mean that you should stand like a robot and make mechanical moves. It only means that meaningless gesture can water down the effect of your speech.

• It should be natural: the more natural your gestures are, the more graceful you will appear. One of the numerous ways to make your gestures natural is to enternalise your message such that it flows naturally out of you. As you deliver your speech, you will find yourself moving your hands to support your points.

• It should not be frequent: when you move your hands too frequently, your audience may start to pay special attention to them. You don’t need to illustrate every word with your hand or you might as well keep quiet and dramatize. I believe holding the microphone helps some people to gesticulate less, though I have seen a speaker who gesticulated so much while holding the microphone that I did not hear much of what he said. Just as punctuations come at strategic points in a sentence to make it meaningful, gesticulations should also punctuate speeches.

• It should become the speech: when you stand before people, you don’t want any part of you to stand out in a peculiar way. You really don’t want you hair, tie, dress or shoe to stand out. If any single thing stands out about you, it will be the focus of your audience. You must ensure that everything about you blends into a perfect package so that people can appreciate you in totality. Likewise, your gesticulation should not become conspicuous. Let your gesticulation become part of your speech and not another presentation on its own. When there is a perfect blend, people will not notice the difference between your speech and your movements.