City Profs Academy Foundation led by its Grand Patron and former Lagos State Military  Governor Brig.-Gen. Mobolaji Johnson has laid the foundation for an e-library at the Ayangburen Primary School in Ikorodu. It is the seventh the foundation is building, reports TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO

If you invest in education, you are building a formidable future, so goes a saying. This is exactly what  the City Profs Academy Foundation is doing with its e-library initiative. It also aims to leave a worthy legacy and revive the reading culture with the project. Since its inception seven years ago, the foundation has been pursuing its vision to build e-library in the six geo-political zones.

Last Friday, City Profs Academy Community Library Initiative (CPA-CLI) laid the foundation stone for its seventh e-library. CPA Grand Patron and former military governor of Lagos State Brig.-Gen. Mobolaji Johnson, while turning the sod of the project at the Ayangburen Primary School in Ikorodu on the outskirts of Lagos, said the project was started to boost learning.

CPA-CLI is a public-private partnership initiative established to build and equip community libraries and ICT in the public education system. The catchment area is limited to locations within walking distance of different schools, for convenience in visiting the library after school at no additional costs.

Apart from reviving the reading culture among the people, most especially the young ones, the foundation believes that education  broadens one’s horizon as nurtured minds will enhance a nation’s development. The foundation has truly kept to its words over the years with spirited individuals who are committed to serving humanity.

Today, the CPA-CLI prototyped-model e-library which started in Bariga Lagos has spread to other areas, such as Ijebu-Mushin, Kosofe, Surulere, with the latest in Ikorodu. It has also spread its tentacles beyond Lagos as such feat has been replicated in Ago-Iwoye in Ogun State and Ilara-Mokin in Ondo State.

The project is under the supervision and guidance of CPA-CLI led by stalwarts, such as the former Head of Interim National Government, Chief Ernest Shonekan; former Lagos State Military Governor Gen. Mobolaji Johnson; first Nigeria female Vice-Chancellor Prof Grace Alele-Wiliilams; frontline businesswoman Mrs Remi Agbowu and Mrs Essie Kukoyi.

The community library and ICT initiatives of the CPA-CLI are are being reviewed by the United Nations Millennium Development Goals, with the aim of adopting same in other countries.

Brig.-Gen Johnson said he was delighted to be part of the epoch- making event, which he said was necessary for our children.

“Education is the bedrock of any nation. This is what helped us while growing up,” he said.

He urged students to make use of the library when completed.

Corroborating Johnson, former Unilever Managing Director Dr Michael Omolayole, who was represented by Mr Oladipo Alla, congratulated Ikorodu for joining the train of progress coming from Lagos.

His words:“It is essentially to inculcate in the students the habit of reading voraciously.  It is to promote the reading culture which leads undoubtedly to acquisition of knowledge. We all know that knowledge is power. It is for this reason that the City Profs Academy has adopted the slogan “Vote for the reading culture.”

Chairman, Ikorodu Local Government, Sheriff Anipole, praised the foundation for its thoughtfulness, vision, commitment and selflessness. He hailed its members for their passion for education and knowledge, which is the bed rock of every meaningful development and enduring advancement.

He promised that they would continue to provide every logistics support towards attracting similar projects to the council, and would equally provide the congenial atmosphere for achieving the nine months completion target.

Anipole enjoined other non-governmental organisations, corporate bodies and public spirited organisations to take a cue from the good gesture of CPA and contribute their quota to the society.

Special Adviser to the Governor on Education Otunba Fatai Olukoga congratulated the students and expressed gratitude to the organisation for such a laudable project.  According to him, the project would assist the children greatly.

“Government is doing its best but it cannot do it alone. And that is why private organisations should help. This edifice when completed will not only serve the students alone but the entire community,” he said.

Prof Alele-Williams, chairman, Governing Board of the foundation, who was represented by Seun Fakoya, said the library initiative was beneficial to all because it is the way of the future.

She said Nigeria had enough primary school but e-library was long overdue. Citing a city like New York with about five bureaus, Alele-Williams said because of the priority placed on education, it has about 9,000 libraries, equipped to broaden their children’s horizons.

“If our children are to compete globally, we have to build a library that will benefit the children most. We have started at Bariga and Ikorodu is the seventh of its kind. We have a role to play. In the United States, as far back as 1888, Edward Carnegie started building library. And his fortune worth 400 million dollars was used in building libraries across the globe so that library can be close to the people. I think more people should emulate the man because when you nurture people’s mind through education, you are developing a nation,” she said.

Chairman, Community Library Initiative, Mrs Agbowu, praised her team for their commitment to humanity.

Mrs Agbowu believed that reaching out to companies to give a helping hand to the initiative won’t be a bad idea.

“Also, there are Ikorodu sons and daughters who are capable so that the project can be completed at the nine month stipulated time,” she said.

President of Rotary Club of Festac Town, Lagos District 9110 Nigeria Gabriel Onyema was installed last Saturday at Golden Tulip Festac Hotel in Amuwo Odofin, reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI.

Rotary events always stand out. The one hosted by Rotary Club of Festac Town last Saturday lived up to this billing.  The investiture of Rotarian Gabriel Onyema as the 33rd President of Rotary Club of Festac Town, Lagos District 9110 Nigeria was full of excitement.

He succeeds Rotarian Collins Onyenze. The event was held at the Golden Tulip Festac Hotel in Amuwo Odofin a Lagos suburb.

Rotarian Onyema, the Chief Executive Officer of Whitehall Multinational Limited, was in suit; his wife Nneka wore a black and white dress.

The event featured the induction of the  board of directors, awards, launch of the club projects and fund raising.

A past president, Rotarian Gabriel Amalu, led guests to sing the national and rotary anthems. The past Assistant Governor 9110, Steve Bassey, recognised some distinguished guests, district officers and clubs.

The investiture committee chairman, Rotarian Charlse Mbama, said the day was an opportunity to showcase the club’s projects for the year 2014/2015.

Rotarian Onyema mounted the podium, his wife and one of his children for his investiture.

Rotarian Amalu read his citation to guests’ appreciation.

Rotarian Onyenze performed the investiture with the assistance of the District governor, assistant governor and other past presidents of the club.  Rotarian Onyenze hung the President’s collarette on Rotarian Onyema’s neck as a symbol  of the transfer of power.

In his acceptance speech, Rotarian Onyema said the club’s projects would be executed as team work. He appealed to members and directors to assist the club.

The District Governor, Rotarian Dele Balogun, urged Rotarians to understand the theme of the Rotary year,  which is   “Light up Rotary”.

“We want the world to trust us that we are men and women of integrity and we are here to solve the problem of the community,” he said.

Balogun implored Rotarians to emulate Onyema who has donated about 7000 dollars to Rotary, saying the club has always done and will continue to do good to the people.

The guest lecturer, Dr Emeka Osuji, spoke on the need to give. He said a blessed man is not measured by being rich but by being a blessing to others and the number of lives he has impacted.

He said: “Giving is a sacrifice, a social obligation and a religious duty. We must be able to serve others and provide for the less privileged”.

Funds were raised for the club’s projects and awards presented to some business professionals for their service to humanity. Among the awardees and fund raisers were Sartra International Limited, represented by its Export Sales Manager, John Hughes, which donated N1.5 million. Chairman and Chief Executive Officer, Richbon Group, Chief Chike Muonagolu; Managing Director of Ukhua International Ventures Limited, Chief Anthony Izuagbe. Member of the House Representatives, Asiwaju Jerry Alagbaoso;  Chairman Managing Director, Okolison Bothers Nigeria Limited, Chief Ralph Eze-Okoli.

Other  dignitaries at the event were: Grand Knight of the Order of Knights of Saint Mulumba, Festac Town Sub Council, Lagos Chief Stephen  Obi;  a retired senior partner in KPMG Nigeria, Mrs Ibiene  Willie-Harry; Commissioner for Budget Planning and Economic Development, Imo State, Aghedo Okoijie Lawrence; Director of Tourism and Head of Leisure and Hospitality Department, Lagos State Ministry of Tourism and Inter-governmental Relations, Mrs Mosunmola Johnson.

Former President, Chartered Institute of Bankers of Nigeria, Dr Segun Aina, has given out his daughter, Lauretta’s hand in marriage to Oluwasanmi Oyeleye Famoriyo at the Catholic Church of Assumption Falomo, Ikoyi, Lagos, reports JOSEPH ESHANOKPE

INITIALLY, it appeared there would be no wedding at the Catholic Church of Assumption, Falomo, Ikoyi, Lagos on Saturday, July 5. When The Nation arrived the venue at 9.30am for the ceremony billed for 10am, the main door to the building was shut. There were not many cars or people around to indicate that the beloved daughter of the former president of the Chartered Institute of Bankers of Nigeria (CIBN), Lauretta Oluwaseun Aina, was getting married to her beau, Oluwasanmi Oyeleye Famoriyo. Even when The Nation’s man and a few others found their way through the side doors, the church was almost empty. At a corner of the well-decorated church, some members were holding group prayers.

Music wafted from the choristers, who were ‘petched’ in the gallery on the first floor facing the altar to entertain the few guests.

By 9.47am, all these changed.  The would-be couple arrived in state-of the-art cars. So did many family members and guests. A few minutes later, the door opened and they marched in amid songs. And at 10 am, the service began and ended 12:20pm.

The colour of the day, for the women, was red. They wore specially selected, expensive and designed buba, iro and head gears that marched the colour of the day.  The men had no special cloth or colour.

After an opening hymn, some selected Bible verses were read. The Bishop of Kafachan Diocese, Most Rev. Joseph Bagobiri, preached.

The cleric said a Christian life is in three stages of growth. The last, he said, being the spousal stage, where man attains a certain level of communion with God – and where his heart is captivated with the love of God.

Noting that true marriages start from friendships, Most Rev Bagobiri said sacrifice is at the bottom of spousal love. “To live in love is to fulfill God’s commandments. Love should be in the heart of our lives,” he added. He urged all to live in love. He also admonished with the words of St Augustine: “Only charity, only love distinguishes the children of God and the children of the devil.”

He believes that there is nothing like a failed Christian marriage. “It happens because there is no love. Many marry and after six months, their marriage is dissolved. This is because the three – man, woman and God – are not in the marriage. Where they are, there can be no divorce or polygamy.

Besides, Most Rev Bagobiri traced the Boko Haram insurgency to parental failure. “The problem in Nigeria is due to lack of education and because of that the children grow to be violent. These children are indoctrinated to kill. The earlier we train them, the better and no manner of indoctrination will change them,” he said. He prayed for the couple, saying: “May you leave to see your children and children’s children.”

After the charges and signing of the marriage register and others, the ‘new couple in town’ was presented to the church as Mr and Mrs Famiriyo. As the priest blessed them, the heavens opened. In some areas of this country, that rain, signified blessings on them.

Guests moved to Landmark Village Events Centre on Victoria Island, Lagos, for the reception. Though white outside, the inside was creamy. The white shelter matched the white chairs and the yellow covering on the table. Though a large tent, it was tastefully decorated, especially the ‘high table’ where the couple sat.

Security was tight. Uninvited guests and those who could not identify themselves properly were either barred from entering the ‘VIP’ tent or graciously directed to another one nearby, where there was a big screen and a speaker to make them get a feel of the event.

At the spelling of O-L-U-W-A, the couple cut the cake. Assessing their performance, the President, CIBN, Otunba Debola Oshibogun, said: “Seun is my daughter. Sanmi is my son. Who would I say won the race? I think they both deserve a round of applause.”

At the event were CIBN’s First Vice President Segun Ajibola; Catholic Archbishop of Ibadan Diocese Gabriel Leke Abegurin; Anthony Cardinal Okogie sent a representative; Bishop of Ekiti Diocese Bishop Ajakaye sent words, the groom’s parents Chief and Mrs Olusegun Famoriyo; the bride’s parents Dr and Mrs Aina; Manager, Ecobank, University of Lagos Branch, Mr Tunji Jayeola; and Mr Sylvester Ngiri . There were monarchs from Osun State, the bride’s state.

Chinonye, daughter of Justice Shedrack Nwanosike (rtd.), of the Abia State High Court and her beau, Stanley Emmanuel, have tied the nuptial knot at the Saint Michaels Cathedral Church in Aba, Abia State. NWANOSIKE ONU reports

Members of the Saint Michaels Cathedral Church in Aba, Abia State, will remember the wedding for a long time to come.

Two optometrists – former Miss Chinonye Nwanosike and Stanley Emmanuel, were joined in holy matrimony in the church.

The wedding brought many judges, magistrates and lawyers together.

The atmosphere was serene. Guests trooped to the church to witness the solemnisation of like minds.

The groom was in black suit with purple shirt; the wife looked glamorous in a sleeveless white flowing gown.

The bride arrived the church in a black Spider Camry; the groom came in a red Spider Camry.

The vicar, Ven. Dr. Polycarp Ibe, in his sermon, told the couple to be the eye and mouth of each other. He reminded them that marriage is for better for worse, adding that it should be seen as bitter and sweet just as some people call themselves honey.

Dr Ibe told them to listen to each other and solve their problems together, urging them to be steadfast in prayers also. Prayer, he said, is the master key to every problem.

After the church session, the train moved to Hotel De-La-Paix for the reception.

Guests were gaily dressed. Traditional attires were the order of the day.

Gaily dressed men and women led guests into the hall where they were served assorted wines and drinks.

The one-man band played old tunes softly, but with a good, sharp rhythm.

The couple cut the five-step white cake, decorated in wine and cream, with sparkling light, at the spelling of J-E-S-U-S.

During the cake-cutting, Stanley held his wife tightly, provoking comments that he did not want her to run away.

Stanley re-proposed to his wife in the presence of the guests, who applauded his gesture.

The wife accepted and the husband lifted her and sealed it with kisses.

She threw her bouquet to spinsters who struggled to catch the flowers.

Chinonye and Stanley thrilled guests on the dance floor, with family members, guests and friends joining them.

Chairman on the occasion Justice Kenneth Nwosu told the couple to see themselves as one and not allow those he described as “meddlesome interlopers” to wade into their affairs.

He urged them to be prayerful, so God would be the third person in their union.

The bride’s father, Justice Shedrack Nwanosike, and mother Nwanyioma expressed happiness on the success of the wedding.

They claimed that they did not know when their daughter met her husband, praying to God to give them the understanding to know each other better.

The groom’s mother, Mrs Ocheze Emmanuel, told The Nation that God has done what she had been praying for in her life.

Stanley said it was a day he would never forget.

Chinonye thanked God for making the wedding a success.

At the occasion were Justice Ory Zikeora;  Justice Lilian Agbai; Justice Stella Ururuka-Onyesoh; Justice Amanze Chikwendu Chioma; Justice Levinus Nwabughiogu and  Justice Onyekachi Chijioke, among others.

A send forth has been held for Director of Finance and Administration in the Lagos State Local Government Establishment, Training and Pension Office, Mrs Samiat Mumuni and Director of Establishment Durojaiye Jamiu Baruwa at Old Secretariat, Ikeja, reports TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO

They have lots in common; no wonder their combination was awesome in service. Their bosses spoke glowingly about their dedication to duty; colleagues were envious of their achievements while the junior colleagues highly revered them – many wish they still have more years to spend in service.

But, alas! The duo have reached their retirement age in the civil service.

Mrs Samiat Omolara Mumuni, a tall, light complexion and charming woman and handsome Durojaiye Jamiu Baruwa have been friends for over 40 years. The duo went to the same school – Ahmadiyya College, Agege where Mrs Mumuni shone like a million stars.

Mrs Mumuni, who retired from Lagos State Civil Service as Director Finance and Administration in Local Government Establishment, Training and Pension Office and her late husband, Mujeeb Adekunle Mumuni, were the only students to have performed the Holy Pilgrimage in Saudi Arabia. The rare feat made them toast of all, and loved by many.

The mother of three and Baruwa began their civil service career in Local Government Service in Lagos Island. Both of them spent 37 meritorious years in service before jointly retired in the Local Government Establishment, Training and Pension Office last month.

The office organised a send forth for them at the Establishment’s Hall, Old Secretariat, Ikeja.

An elated Mrs Mumuni came with large crowd, too many for the hall to contain; they include her family members, members of the Nasrul lahi li Fathi Society of Nigeria (NASFAT) and National Council of Women’s Societies (NCWS), where she is a staunch member and top civil servants.

Baruwa’s guests were also impressive. They were led by his wife, Mopelola.

Shortly after the guests’ settled down, the event began with a light music in the background while waiters served snacks with choice drinks.

Welcoming the gathering, Local Government Establishment, Training and Pension Office Permanent Secretary Mr Jamiu Adewale Ashimi, described the duo as wonderful administrators.

According to Ashimi, a year working relationship with Baruwa was more than pleasant.

“I relied on his knowledge on local government administration; I am missing him already. May be we should get him as a consultant. It is not easy being in the service for almost four decades and come out with your head high. He is a gentle man and easy going,” Ashimi said.

On Mrs Mumuni, the Permanent Secretary called her “Mama Eto.”

“I started missing her the second day she commenced her leave; she is always the first person that comes to my office and we discuss a lot on how to move the state forward. Not minding the fact that we went to same secondary school, she is a master organiser. She is like my pillar of support, thank God she has groomed someone to act in her capacity,” he said.

The former Permanent Secretary Mrs Iyabo Obasa was full of praises for the duo.

She reminded the gathering of how the retirees made her stay in the Establishment a success.

“Ti e ba gbo pe opolo n ja, awon mejeeji yi ni meaning If you are looking for the brain behind our success here, the duo are brainy, always come up with solution to knotty issues,” Mrs Obasa said.

Representative of the Head of Service, Mrs Raolat Alaka, thanked the retirees for wonderful time put into service.

After the goodwill messages, there were cultural dance, special prayers for the retirees, presentation of certificate and cutting of the cake.

Mrs Alaka led the guests to present gifts to Mrs Mumuni and Baruwa.

Amid special performance by a live band after choice meal, the gathering moved to the dance floor.

The eighth day prayer for Alhaja Moshudat Kareem, mother of Director of Finance and Administration, Lagos State Office of Transformation Mrs Samiat Kolarinwa, was held on Tuesday at Adeyemi  Bero Auditorium in Alausa, Ikeja. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI and OMOLARA OGUNWALE reports

It was a gathering for a beloved mother who left an impact on her children’s lives.

Family members, friends and well wishers came in large numbers for the eighth day prayers for the Otun Alatilehin Adinni of Mogaji Central Mosque in Epetedo, Lagos Island Alhaja Moshudat Kareem, mother of Director of Finance and Administration, Lagos State Office of Transformation, Mrs Samiat  Kolarinwa.

Alhaja Kareem died on July 21 and her remains were interred at Abari Cemetery in Epetedo. She was 79.

For about an hour, they prayed for the deceased. An Islamic cleric Abdul Rahman Mogaji coordinated the prayers last Tuesday at the Adeyemi Bero Auditorium in Alausa, Ikeja. He was assisted by other clerics. Guests wore traditional attires, the women made fashion statement with different styles and designs of the uniformed pink lace. They complemented their outfits with head gears.

Guests sat in an orderly row. Ushers in pink satin attires, with black Hijab ensured that the guests were comfortable. The hall was decorated in a pink and white fabric, which was hung across the ceiling. The stage was decorated in same colour.

After the prayers, there was a lecture by the Chief Imam of Lagos State House of Assembly, Hon Abdul Hakeem Abdul Lateef. He urged the gathering to serve Allah faithfully, saying no one can blame you if you choose to serve and worship him.

“Read your Quran and make sure you understand it because the solution to every question or problem is in it and ensure that you carry your entire household along in serving Allah,” he said.

He urged the guests to fill their hearts with the word of Allah and do good at all times, saying death could come at any time.

The second lecturer, Chief Imam  Abdul Semiu Ibrahim of Gbagada Central Mosque described life as a stage which “we will leave some day”. He described life as a market where goods are displayed for sale; with different people coming together for collaboration. “We engage in running around, aiming for achievements and do all kinds of stress but later in life, we would relax when we are old and later die eventually. What will be said of you when you are no longer in this life?” he asked, urging the guests to live a good life.

Mrs Kolarinwa described her mother as a loving, adding that she would miss her.

“My mother was very prayerful and always there for us. She was very blunt and would not take any nonsense from you. Mummy was always there to guide us and give us good advice on any issue,” she said.

Another child, Saliu Kareem, a sanitary engineer in the United States (US), described his mother as the best. He said: “The only way I can describe her is that she did everything a mother can do for her children; when we lost our father, she was 42 years and she did not remarried. She taught us practical Islam.”

The last child, Bariu Kareem, Chief Executive Officer, The Janitor, described his mother as a straight forward person that loved her family, including the extended family.

“She was God-conscious. Whatever I am today, my mother contributed 70 per cent of it, with her training, discipline and encouragement. She was caring and loving.

“One of the attributes I got from her is that there is no problem that cannot be solved. She taught me how to face and overcome challenges,” he said.

Obinna Kingsley, son of the Chairman and Chief Executive of Chisco Group of Companies, Chief Chidi Anyaebu, got married to his lovebird, former Miss Onyinye Peace Olie-Silas, at a colourful ceremony in Lagos last Saturday. NNEKA NWANERI was there.

The foggy and damp morning gave way to a sunny afternoon last Saturday as people headed for the St John’s Anglican Church in Falomo, Ikoyi, Lagos for the wedding of Obinna Kingsley Anyaegbu and Oyinye Peace (nee  Olie-Silas).

Policemen lined the route to the church.

A black Range Rover pulled up at the church entrance. The groom stepped out in a blue suit, white shirt and a pair of eyeglasses. The bride arrived in an exotic car, looking charming.

“Isn’t she beautiful?” whispered an onlooker. The small church hosted the high and mighty from across the country.

The Bishop of the Diocese of Ihiala, Rt Rev Raph Okafor, led other officiating ministers. He counselled the couple to remain friends.

Quoting 1Peter 3:7, he described marriage as a beautiful creation of God.

“Live in fellowship by sharing both your material and spiritual things. This leads to openness and bears the fruit of trust,” he said.

The couple walked out of the church locking arms and smiling to the crowd.

At the Landmark Event Centre on Victoria Island where the reception held, the scent of rose filled the air. The backround lightnings added colour to the surrounding.

The couple’s parents entered the hall, dancing with family members, friends and associates. Their fathers wore the same colour and style of suit; their mothers were in dinner gowns, with feathered hats to match.

The Sharp Band DJ Stramborella, the Alli Orchestra and comedian AY entertained guests.

There were choice dishes and drinks to pick from. There were local and intercontinental dishes, including Igbo traditional delicacies.

On July 12, the Igba Nkwu - traditional wedding rites was held in Afube Town Hall in Amichi, Nnewi South Local Government Area of Anambra State, the Olie-Silas’ home town.

The reception to welcome Onyinye into her new home was grand. Indians, Lebanese and Americans graced the occasion.

Secretary to the Government of the Federation (SGF) Senator Anyim Pius Anyim, who chaired of the occasion, was represented by Prof George Obiazor, Nigerian’s former Ambassador to the United States (US). He described Anyaegbu as a brother in whom the family is well pleased.

In proposing the toast, the groom’s younger brother, Chidi told guests that he introduced Onyinye to his brother. He expressed joy that his brother took her to the altar. Wishing the couple a blissful marriage, he said those who want to get married should contact him.

Dignitaries at the event were: the APC National Leader, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu; former governor of Anambra Peter Obi; Diamond Bank Managing Director Dr Alex Otti; Chief Peter Okocha; Director-General of Security Exchange Commission, Ms Arunma Oteh; former Secretary of the Commonwealth Emeka Anyaoku; Prof Anya O. Anya; Chief Chris Uba; President of Aka Ikenga Chief Goddy Uwazurike; Chief Executive Officer of Orange Drugs Sir Tony Ezenna; Chief Mike Umeh; Senator Florence Ita-Giwa; Mike Igbokwe (SAN) and Prof Pat Utomi. The First Lady, Dame Patience Jonathan sent a representative.

The Imo community in Texas, United States, has hosted Deputy Governor Prince Ezeakonobi Madumere on his 50th birthday, writes NNEKA NWANERI.

As Prince Eze Madumere entered the arena, the gathering started chanting  “Mr. Humility”, “Mr. Loyalty”, “the master strategist” and so on.

It was a gathering of Imolites in God’s own country to celebrate the 50th birthday of the number two citizen of their state.

The event took place at the home of Chief Obinna Abuachi. Members of the Great Owerri Congress and their friends were there in large number.

After exchanging pleasantries with his kinsmen, Madumere took his seat.

The Igbo tradition was on display. The ritual of welcoming a visitor with kolanut was observed. In Igboland, kolanut enjoys a pride of place and no ceremony is complete without it.

Presentation of kolanut has remained one tradition that has withstood the heat and alterations that came with colonisation, westernisation and civilisation.

He was declared the leader of Imolites in Diaspora,  his excellent representation of Imo Community in Diaspora in the Rochas Okorocha Administration.

The event turned into a rally of sorts as people took turns to speak on the Okorocha administration.

Madumere is a worthy son giving the way he has comported himself in office, first as Chief of Staff and now as deputy governor. He described Owelle Okorocha and Madumere as transformers.

Ugochukwu Dike described the Okorocha administration as the greatest thing happened to Imo State, saying Imolites in Diaspora were happy with the development.

“Today, we are witnessing change in all facets of our dear state. Security challenges that used to be our worries are almost a thing of the past. As a son of Ideato nation, I stand to say that our deputy governor is a brother to us all by his kind gestures and humility to the cause of our people in diaspora,” he said.

Chief Ralph Obijiofor also known as Big Fish, from Anambra State, drummed support for Okorocha’s re-election. He louded the governor’s philanthropic gestures and free education to the indigent under his Rochas Foundation Colleges.

A lawyer, Okey Dike, called for support for Okorocha’s administration. He thanked Madumere for his gesture to Ndi Imo in Diaspora. Imolites in Diaspora, he said, have got more recognition under Okorocha’s administration than any other government.

Chief Marcon Nlemigbo, former Chairman of Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), also called for support for Madumere for remaining himself even in power.

Madumere enumerated the giant strides of the Okorocha administration. He called for support for an administration that has transformed Imo State in less than three years. According to him, this is a proof that the state is on its way to realise  the dreams of its founding fathers. Pounded yam with Onugbu, Egusi, Ofe akwukwu was served for dinner

Prince Madumere is the third child of Eze Henry Anoruo Madumere of Ezi Achi Mbier.

The remains of Princess Emily Morolake Oluwayemi Adefila, elder sister of former Osun State Governor Olagunsoye Oyinlola, have been buried in Ilofa in Kwara State, reports ADEKUNLE JIMOH

The was a princess and she got a funeral befitting royalty. The late Princess Emily Morolake Oluwayemi Adefila was the elder sister of former Osun State Governor Olagunsoye Oyinlola and daughter of the late Olokuku of Okuku, Oba Moses Oyinlola.

The Adefilas gave their matriarch a befitting funeral about two weeks ago.

The venue of the commendation service was filled with the cream of the society.

The Cathedral Church of St Peter at Ilofa in Oke-Ero Local Government Area of Kwara State was filled. Family members and guests, including captains of industry, academics, business tycoons, government officials and traditional rulers were seated as early as 10am.

The event, which began with songs by the church choristers, was followed by reading from the scripture, prayers for the deceased and goodwill messages.

Her remains were brought into the church amidst singing and dancing by the pallbearers around 10am.

The Bishop of Ekiti Kwara Diocese, Rt Revd Andrew Olusola Ajayi, led the officiating ministers.

Rt Revd Ajayi urged the gathering to always prepare for a glorious home call, reminding them that death is inevitable.

“Man has but a short time to live in a world full of misery,” he said.

The widower, Prof Sam Adefila, in a tribute, described his late wife as an absolute loving and caring partner who, wholesomely, practicalised the Yoruba culture with deserving respect.

Her remains were moved from the church to the Adefila’s home for interment at 1:30pm.

Prof Adefila, his children and relations performed the dust-to-dust rite after the casket was lowered into the grave.

The train moved to Ilofa Grammar School Playing Ground, where guests were treated to a lavish reception

Paying glowing tribute to his sister, Prince Oyinlola said she was ever ready to part with her last kobo to put smiles on people’s faces.

Her son, Akin, said his mother touched lives and would be remembered for uniting the family, her steadfastness and fervent prayers.

He wrote in his tribute: “Thank you for always being there for me; your desire to be patient, kind and loving, were special beyond words; I know you are my miracle, unmatched and unrivalled. A master of purpose, a warrior of love; your prayers sustained me, a reminder of God’s shield over us, a reminder that we have not been left alone to journey this earth.”

The Alofa of Ilofa, Oba Samuel Dada, said the Adefilas had contributed immensely to the socio-economic development of the community and deserved commendation.

He described the deceased as a mother in a thousand, who showed interest in the community’s wellbeing.

Former Kwara State Governor Senator Bukola Saraki, moved by the show of affection by the community, promised to complete the plastering and tiling of the church.

The late Princess Adefila had her secondary education at St Monica’s College, Kabba in present day Kogi State, as one of the pioneer students and Queens School, Ilorin.

She attended Ahmadu Bello University and the International Institute for Aerial Survey and Earth Sciences in Ensechede, Netherlands where she got her first postgraduate diploma. She began working at the Institute for Agricultural Research, Ahmadu Bello University in 1977.

Dignitaries at the event include former Governor of Ekiti State, Segun Oni; former-military administrator of Bauchi and Osun states Col Theophilus Bamigboye; President, National Academy of Engineering Prof. A.F. Ogunye; Founder of the Living Faith Church Worldwide Bishop David Oyedepo, represented by Landmark University Pro-Chancellor, Pastor Yemi Nathaniel while the Vice-Chancellor, Prof Ola-Rotimi Ajayi was represented by Prof Tunde Bello; the Olomu of Omu-Aran, Oba Charles Oladele Ibitoye, the Owalobo of Obbo Ile, Oba Rufus Adebayo, among others.

Lagos State Chapter of the Federation of Muslim Women’s Association in Nigeria (FOMWAN), has held its 28th Family Day at the Tafawa Balewa Square (TBS), reports OLATUNDE ODEBIYI.

It is an event to mark the end of Ramadan. The one for this year came up last Saturday at the Tafawa Balewa Square (TBS) where members and friends of Lagos State Chapter of the Federation of Muslim Women’s Association in Nigeria (FOMWAN) gathered to celebrate its 28th Family Day.

Each branch of the association had its tent. Among the branches were Mushin, Epe, Eti-Osa, Somolu, Alimoso, Amuwo-Odofin and Ikorodu. There was no uniform outfit for the occasion; the women and girls wore either traditional or Islamic attires. They made fashion statements with their colourful and stylish hijab.

A few men were there.

Guests enjoyed free medical tests from the mobile intensive care unit of the Lagos State Ministry of Health.

The high table was decorated in green and yellow.

Banners of some corporate organisations, including Maggi, Honeywell and Stanbic IBTC Bank, were displayed at different locations. Entertainment Factory Limited directed by Patrick Oyadima played Islamic songs to the admiration of guests.

The event kicked off with a short prayer by the Dawah group of FOMWAN. An Imam from Somolu Local Government Area, Alhaji Sulaimon Bayonle, said the opening prayers; he was assisted by Yaya Alimi.

Alhaja Azeezat Modupe Adagun from Radio Lagos compered the event, which began with a reading from the Quran, done in form of a competition by children from the branches.

FOMWAN Lagos State Amirah Dr Sariyu Ashiru said the group is the umbrella body for Muslim women and youths.

She urged women to manage their family well, saying they are the pillars of the family and determine the family’s success.

President, Amuwo-Odofin Muslim Community Alhaji Waliu Ajigbotoluwa, who chaired the occasion, hailed FOMWAN for its impact on the state’s development.

Chief Imam, Gbagada Muslim Community Alhaji Abdus-Salami Ibrahim, who was the guest speaker, said the role of a woman in ensuring national security was vital. The woman, he said, has the responsibility of taking care of children.

He said: “It is the duty of mothers to train their children and it is the way a child is brought up that will determine the attitudes that will become of him when he grows. If your child is well trained, he or she will be relevant to the community but if not, they will be part of those contributing to insecurity in the nation.

“The way you train your child reflects on national security because people who grow up with godly attitudes will not get themselves involved in any criminal acts”.

Alhaji Ibrahim urged parents not to engage in things that they do not want their children to emulate.

Lagos State Governor Babatunde Fashola, his wife Abimbola and Deputy Governor Mrs Adejoke Orelope-Adefulire, among others, donated towards FOWAN projects.

Fashola, represented by the Secretary to the State Government, Dr Idiat Adebule, said the government would continue to partner with the association to develop the state.

She urged grandmothers to give their grandchildren good training as they did to their children.

“You are still alive for that purpose, therefore, ensure you bring your grandchildren up in the way of the Lord,” she said.

There was a march past by students of Arabic Nursery and Primary School and youth organisations and FOMWAN branches.

The celebration cake was cut after the chant of Alhamdulillahi three times.

Chinonye, daughter of Justice Shedrack Nwanosike, of the Abia State High Court and her beau, Stanley Emmanuel, have tied the nuptial knot at the Saint Michael’s Cathedral Church in Aba, Abia State. NWANOSIKE ONU reports

Members of the Saint Michaels Cathedral Church in Aba, Abia State, will remember the wedding for a long time to come.

Two optometrists – former Miss Chinonye Nwanosike and Stanley Emmanuel, were joined in holy matrimony in the church.

The wedding brought many judges, magistrates and lawyers together.

The atmosphere was serene. Guests trooped to the church to witness the solemnisation of like minds.

The groom was in black suit with purple shirt; the wife looked glamorous in a sleeveless white flowing gown.

The bride arrived the church in a black Spider Camry; the groom came in a red Spider Camry.

The vicar, Ven. Dr. Polycarp Ibe, in his sermon, told the couple to be the eye and mouth of each other. He reminded them that marriage is for better for worse, adding that it should be seen as bitter and sweet just as some people call themselves honey.

Dr Ibe told them to listen to each other and solve their problems together, urging them to be steadfast in prayers also. Prayer, he said, is the master key to every problem.

After the church session, the train moved to Hotel De-La-Paix for the reception.

Guests were gaily dressed. Traditional attires were the order of the day.

Gaily dressed men and women led guests into the hall where they were served assorted wines and drinks.

The one-man band played old tunes softly, but with a good, sharp rhythm.

The couple cut the five-step white cake, decorated in wine and cream, with sparkling light, at the spelling of J-E-S-U-S.

During the cake-cutting, Stanley held his wife tightly, provoking comments that he did not want her to run away.

Stanley re-proposed to his wife in the presence of the guests, who applauded his gesture.

The wife accepted and the husband lifted her and sealed it with kisses.

She threw her bouquet to spinsters who struggled to catch the flowers.

Chinonye and Stanley thrilled guests on the dance floor, with family members, guests and friends joining them.

Chairman on the occasion Justice Kenneth Nwosu told the couple to see themselves as one and not allow those he described as “meddlesome interlopers” to wade into their affairs.

He urged them to be prayerful, so God would be the third person in their union.

The bride’s father, Justice Shedrack Nwanosike, and mother Nwanyioma expressed happiness on the success of the wedding.

They claimed that they did not know when their daughter met her husband, praying to God to give them the understanding to know each other better.

The groom’s mother, Mrs Ocheze Emmanuel, told The Nation that God has done what she had been praying for in her life.

Stanley said it was a day he would never forget.

Chinonye thanked God for making the wedding a success.

At the occasion were Justice Ory Zikeora;  Justice Lilian Agbai; Justice Stella Ururuka-Onyesoh; Justice Amanze Chikwendu Chioma; Justice Levinus Nwabughiogu and  Justice Onyekachi Chijioke, among others.

The one-year remembrance prayer for Alhaji Ibrahim Ademola Fashola, father of Lagos State Governor Babatunde Fashola, was held at Surulere Secondary School last Tuesday, reports TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO

It looks like yesterday, but it has been one year since Lagos State Governor Babatunde Fashola lost his father Alhaji Ibrahim Ademola Fashola. Last Tuesday, the Fashola family gathered at the Surulere Secondary School on Ladipo Labinjo Crescent to mark the one year remembrance. Fashola and his wife Dame Emmanuella Abimbola were in their element, attending to guests.

Alhaji Fashola, died on August 5, last year. He was 80.

Officials of Lagos State Traffic Management Authority (LASTMA) ensured free flow of traffic on Akerele and Bode Thomas streets linking Ladipo Labinjo Crescent.

Security personnel directed guests to the venue and ensured that things were in order. Inside the expansive school premises, guests sat under a tastefully decorated giant canopy for the prayer session; the other canopies were reserved for the reception.

Fashola sat in the front row facing the clerics. With him were his father’s widow, Mrs Cecilia Omolara Fashola, children and other family members.

Members of the State Executive Council, members of the National and Lagos State House of Assembly, local government chairmen and royal fathers were represented.

Prayers were offered by prominent Islamic clerics under the leadership of Chief Imam of Lagos Sheikh Garuba Akinola Ibrahim  and Baba Adinni of Lagos Sheikh AbdulHafeez Abou.

The event was anchored by one of Fashola’s aides, Alhaji Shakiru AbdulGafar popularly called Mofesaye.

The clerics took turns to pray for the late Fashola, his family, Lagos and Nigeria.

The Ansar-ud-Deen Society of Nigeria Chief Missioner, Sheikh AbdurRahman Ahmad, delivered a short sermon.

He enjoined the gathering to always remember that death would come one day, followed by judgement.

According to Ahmad, it should be the preoccupation of man to invest his resources in propagating the works of Allah because He is the one that has invested man with the good things of life, including sound health, intelligence and wealth.

Sheikh Ibrahim enjoined the children to be united and continue with the legacy of their father.

The first civilian Governor of Lagos State, Alhaji Lateef Kayode Jakande, said the late Fashola was a nice man.

Fashola described his father as a disciplinarian and a man of integrity, who lived an exemplary life. His father’s life, he added, taught everyone a lesson in contentment.

The governor said his father’s life revolved around people, adding that he spent  time to build an extensive family including not just his relations, but also those whose life he impacted.

“We are sad that he is not here; we are proud to hold on to the love and the values he lived by – being his brother’s keeper, being contented in whatever situation we may found ourselves and serving God and serving humanity,” Fashola said.

Aladeshonyi of Noforija in Epe Oba Babatunde Onalaja described the late Fashola as a humble man.

“He was very accommodating and loved his family dearly,” he said.

Oba Onalaja enjoined the children to follow their father’s path. Mrs Fashola described her father-in-law as a peaceful man.

“Daddy was a lovely man, gentle, kind and generous; when you are around him, you exprience peace. There is no problem you take to him that he didn’t take in his giant stride, advising you. After discussing it with him, the problem becomes solved.

“He was a father to me; he was a father to all of us. He was always a reference point in the Fashola family, which is why we have so many people naming their child after him. We have a lot of Ademola in and outside our family,” she said.

There was light music while the guests relished sumptuous meals and drinks.

Family members, friends and associates gathered at the Ketu Central Mosque to bid the late Chief Imam of Ketu, Alhaji Yaqub Jimoh Balogun,  farewell. AMIDU ARIJE was there.

It was a solemn moment. Guests sat quietly as the Muslim cleric led them in prayers.

With their Quran and prayer beads, they prayed for the repose of the soul of the late Chief Imam of Ketu, Alhaji Yaqub Jimoh Balogun. He died on August 4. He was  65.

The virtues of the late Chief Imam were extolled. Many  described him as a philanthropist and humble man.

The prayer was coordinated by Chief Imam Sulaiman Adesina. The whole of the Quran was recited.

A sermon was delivered by the Chief Missioner of the League of Imams, Kosofe Zone, Abdulhameed Olawole.

He urged all present to remember death and always work towards the hereafter. He enjoined them to be God-fearing, saying being Godly would make one work for the good of this world and the hereafter.

Olawole described the late Balogun as a humble man. He urged his children to take after their father.

After his sermon, the Quran recitation continued.

Chief Imam of Alapere Central Mosque, Alhaji Yakub Jamiu, in paying tribute to the deceased, said the late Alhaji  Balogun was a humble man par excellence. He urged his children to emulate him.

One of the deceased’s tenants, Mr Asobara George, said the late Alhaji Balogun was a God-fearing person who never discriminated.

“He is a peaceful and God-fearing man, if every human being behaves like him, there will be no problem in the society,” he said.

Alhaja Nimotalahi Fashola said the deceased was a devoted Muslim.

Chairman, Ketu Youth Council, Rasaq Balogun, said: “We have lost a true gentleman and a courageous religious leader. It was an honour to know a spiritual father who had genuine love for his people and Ketu community”.

Another youth of the community, Ariyo Oluwafemi, said Ketu had lost a rare gem.

“We love him, he was a generous man and very humble,” he said.

The son of the deceased, Adam Balogun, described his father as a generous and accommodating man. He would be greatly missed by the family.

“He was a very honest and generous man; he was accommodating and a lover of everyone, irrespective of your inclinations; he didn’t criticise. We will miss him greatly,” he said.

He said the family would build a mosque in honour of their late father and also set up a foundation.

As the prayer session was rounded off, the Chief Imam of Jamuyatu Sudai Central Mosque, Alhaji Murtadah Adewunmi, delivered a brief sermon.

Wife of the Chairman Ikosi Isheri Local Council Developement Area, Alhaja Kudirat Oyesanya, was among the guests at the occasion. The staff of office of the Alaketu of Ketu land Lagos was on ground to represent the Oba.

It was not only his birthday, but also the day he retired from service. Mr Olatunde Idowu Agoro clocked 60 on the day he retired as Permanent Secretary, Lagos State Ministry of Rural Development after 35 years of service, reports NNEKA NWANERI.

For Mr Olatunde Idowu Agoro, former Permanent Secretary, Lagos State Ministry of Rural Development, it was time for stock-taking penultimate Thursday. He celebrated his retirement with praise and thanksgiving.

A special thanksgiving and prayer session was held at the Lagos Secretariat Mosque, Alausa, Ikeja, followed by a party to welcome him into the retirees club.

Prayers were led by Imam Lukman Asunramu of the Ahmadiyya Movement of Nigeria, a group the celebrator is a member.

The birthday boy looked different in his native wear. He was always in suit while in service but, this time, he wore a blue agbada with a cap to match. His wife sat beside him in the same attire. Members of the staff of the ministry in attendance were also in attractive attires.

Many, who were privileged to have worked with him at various levels in the civil service, attested to his dedication to work. Many spoke and eulogised him, showering him with prayers.

The first to speak was the Commissioner for Rural Development, Hon Cornelius Ojelabi, who led all in praise songs for Agoro.

He said every word said about the celebrator was true. He asked from  those in service: “How humble are you?

“His humility made him to transverse to where he is today. Let us learn from him and his humanity and how he gave back to the society that made him by training the young staff the way they should go. We enjoy working with him, so let us learn from how he discharged his duties,” Ojelabi said.

His counterpart in Agric and Cooperative Ministry, Prince Gbolahan Lawal, recalled when Agoro was a director in his ministry and how meticulous he was and the enduring legacies he bequeathed, which the ministry still enjoys have remained a reference point.

“He did a lot while with us by initiating a lot of schemes we adopted and still use till date. We wouldn’t mind giving him a small parcel of land to farm on and practise all the theories he gave us,” Lawal said.

Lagos State House of Assembly Chairman, Committee on Agriculture, Cooperative and Rural Development, Ibrahim Layode, described Agoro as a brother and friend from whom he gained great experience.

“Since 2007 when I became chairman, I have worked with three Permanent Secretaries, I dare say he is the best,” Layode said.

Thereafter, Agoro was presented with certificate of service. All, except the ‘birthday boy’ stood to sing “For he’s a Jolly good fellow”.

Mr Tajudeen Atiko-Balogun, who represented the Lagos State Head of Service, said the gathering should be used for self assessment.

Those on the high table moved to the floor to join the celebrator to cut two colourful cakes. Gigantic greeting cards were around the cake stand and those with gifts brought them forward.

In response, Agoro thanked Allah for being gracious to him. He also described his journey in the civil service as a very long one, which he began in 1979 as an Agric Planning Officer in the Ministry of Agriculture.

“Excellence is the hallmark that I and my family stand for and that is why I like to leave a mark wherever I go. I want you all to know that there is always good reward for hard work.

“All my life, I served this state in various capacities and I thank God for the diligent service rendered to my state,” he said.

One of the younger brothers of the celebrator, Hon Taju Agoro, who was asked to give the vote of thanks, began with a long oriki which mesmerised the gathering. He ended the wordings with Alhamdulahi.

Thirteen-one years ago, the late Otunba Gabriel Adenuga Taiwo was the charter president of the Rotary Club of Gbagada, Lagos. Last Sunday, his son, Prof Kayode Taiwo followed his footstep as the club’s 31st president, reports NNEKA NWANERI.

History was made last Sunday when the Rotary Club of Gbagada in Lagos invested the Deputy Director, Environment and Social Safeguards of the Lagos Metropolitan Area Transport Authority (LAMATA), Prof Olukayode Taiwo, as its 31st president. Taiwo folowed the footstep of his father, the late Otunba Gabriel Adenuga Taiwo, who was president   31 years ago.

His younger brother, Sola Adenuga-Taiwo will succeed him next year. Their mother, Lady Arinola Adenuga-Taiwo was a District Chairman of the old District 910.

The event, which held in Ikeja, Lagos was well attended by Rotarians from across the state as well as many of its past presidents. They were not only there to felicitate with him, it was also an opportunity for the club to raise funds for its projects for the year.

The grand project is the renovation of the science laboratory of a school in Ago-Iwoye, Ogun State, which has not been functional since 1995. It will cost N7 million.

Prof Taiwo’s family members, well wishers and colleagues came to share in the joy of the day and show their solidarity.

They were uniformly dressed in white agbada and yellow caps. The hall’s blue and yellow colours matched the chairs and table decorations. The brochure for the event spoke volumes not only about the club, but also about the personality of the man of the moment.

Members’ spouses were not left out in the show of style and fashion.

The President’s wife, Mrs Oladunni Taiwo, a head teacher and Director with Lagos State Ministry of Education, sat quietly beside her husband and smiled all through the proceedings.

The Rotary Grace led by Mr Bunmi Oguntade served as the opening prayer.

The out-going president, Tayo Adelaja, gave his valedictory remarks after which he presented awards to those who supported him while in office.

Urging all to continue to support the new president and donate actively towards actualising the vision of the new regime which, he said, will go a long way in bringing smiles on the faces of the less privileged.

Adelaja called his successor to the floor, took of the insignia of office from his neck and placed it on Prof Taiwo’s. This was followed by an applause and exchange of banters.  He hit the gong for the first time, calling the gathering to order.

He thereafter inducted some members as Paul Harris fellows, having contributed more than $1000 to the club. He decorated them with lapel pins and presented them with plaques.

The new president went on to induct his board members and give his acceptance speech in which he solicited help for his administration’s projects.

He also went down memory lane and told of how meetings were held in their home when the club began and how he used to accompany his father to its weekly meetings. That was how he fell in love with what they do and became a member.

Guest speaker and former Minister of State for Health Prince Julius Adelusi-Adeluyi was at his best. He said if the Gbagada Club members had vision, the club would have been called the Rotary Club of the Adenuga-Taiwos. This, he said, would be because not only was Prof Taiwo’s  father the first president of the club, his younger brother, Sola Adenuga-Taiwo, will succeed him next year. His mother, Lady Arinola Adenuga-Taiwo was a District Chairman.

Adelusi-Adeluyi urged the members not to stop doing well and strive to be on the side of the solution to the nation’s problems.  He prayed for them, quoting from Numbers 6:25.

District Governor Dr Dele Balogun thanked the club for being the only one to have produced two past District Governors and one of the most proactive.

The projects were launched by the Chairman on the occasion and Deputy Governor of Ogun State, Prince Segun Adesegun, who said he had known Prof Taiwo for more than 43 years as a man who does not tolerate nonsense.

The Ebumawe of Ago-Iwoye, Oba AbdulRasaq Adenugba, presented one of his subjects, the Oluomo of Ago Iwoye, Femi Bakare with an award. The monarch said it was no mistake that he made Bakare his Oluomo and has not regretted it for a moment. He prayed the president have many achievements before the end of his tenure.

Other awardees were Prof Obafemi Ajibola and Mr Iyiola Adegboye.

All eyes were riveted on a large projector at a strategic point in the hall where a documentary of what the Rotary does was being shpwn.   Also, past works and reasons for upcoming projects were showed.

To raise funds, some items on display were auctioned and highest bidders went home with the products. Also, prizes were won from tickets sold by a bevy of well-dressed female ushers who led guests to their seats.

President-elect and Chairman, Installation Committee, Olusola Adenuga-Taiwo, thanked all, and led them to the dance floor.

The remains of Bishop Fred Louis Menkiti, who owned Radiance Schools Group, have been buried in his Onitsha, Anambra State country home. NNEKA NWANERI was there. 

Mrs Ify Menkiti plucked a fresh red rose from a bouquet as the procession moved to her husband’s final resting place. With her head bowed, she held on to the rose deep in thought. With her were her five sons, who bore their father’s remains.

It was the funeral of her husband of 51 years, Bishop Fred Louis Menkiti, who died on May 29. He was 85.

Bishop Menkiti’s body was in a white casket. His sons lowered the casket into the grave, performed the dust-to-dust rite and their mother tossed in the rose.

Mrs Menkiti reeled backwards, with her sons supporting her as she turned around and made for the house. She controlled herself throughout three-hour funeral service, though her eyes were damp.

The story of the life of the late Bishop Menkiti owned Radiance Schools Group, were relived.

Many eulogised him at his funeral last Friday in his Onitsha, Anambra State hometown.

The service of songs and wake held in Lagos the previous week.

He was laid in state in a room in his Onitsha home where many filed round his body to pay their last respects.

Even in death, the late Bishop Menkiti looked good. He was in a suit, tie and pair of glasses. Some cried; others folded their arms and shook their heads.

Four tents were erected in the compound. The wife and sons sat around his remains. Her daughters-in-law sat with them in uniformed white native attires, with purple headgears and beaded ear and neck accessories.

The choir led guests in singing solemn hymns.

The late Menkiti’s third son, Oge, took the first Bible reading from Thessalonians 4:13-18.

The Overseer of Region V of the Mountain of Fire and Miracles (MFM), Pastor Lanre Adekunle, urged guests to learn from daily happenings. He said though he never met the late Bishop Menkiti, he was touched by stories of his good deeds.

He prayed for the bereaved family, urging them to continue with their father’s legacy.

The MFM choir rendered two special songs before the first son, Chris, spoke of his father.

Chris said: “He was very athletic in his younger days and that explained why he was fit, even in his old age. After he graduated from the University of Ibadan (UI) in 1963, he married my mother and they began life in a room apartment where I (Chris) was born.

“He was chairman of many companies including the Nigerian Paper Mill, West African Distillers Ltd, Tafawa Balewa Management Committee and also ANAMCO, Nigerian assemblers of Mercedes vehicles.

“As an educationist, he had a vision to teach children core values so with the experience my dad had as an administrator and my mum as a teacher, they used their savings to set up Radiance Schools 25 years ago.

“His catch phrase was – I am moving forward. So let’s thank God for his life and let’s carry on.”

The Osolo of Isolo, Oba Kabiru Oludegun Agbabiaka has conferred chieftaincy title on the Iyaloja General of Okota market, Chief Khadijat Oludegun-Kazeem, reports BODE MONOGBE

It was her happy day. She beamed with smiles as people gathered to congratulate her. It was the day, a business woman, Chief Khadijat Oludegun-Kazeem  was rewarded for her commitment to community development and philanthropy. The Isolo community in Lagos stood still last Saturday for the Iyaloja General of Okota market, as she became the Majeobaje of Isolo Kingdom.

Family members, community leaders, market associations, friends and well wishers were all there to add colour to the glamour to the event. Indeed, it was a gathering of the cream in market administration in Lagos State. The ceremony coincided with the 10th anniversary of the Osolo’s reign.

The clement weather encouraged aided guests large out.

The event kicked off with a visit to the palace of Osolo to pay the traditional homage before moving with her entourage to Ansar-Ud-deen Primary School, Isolo, venue of the coronation.

The initial prayers were offered by the Osin of Isolo, Asiwaju of Isolo, Chief Jinadu Bello-Arowooye. He placed the Akoko (traditional) leaves on her head and decorated her neck and hands with the traditional beads.

The Osolo, Oba Kabiru Oludegun Agbabiaka reeled out the qualities that singled her out such as her humble nature, rare native wisdom, acumen in human management, dexterity in market administration, closeness to the people, commitment to community development and philanthropy. He prayed for a successful and prosperous tenure and later decorated her with a beaded cap, a staff of office and certificate. As she was receiving her certificate, the venue erupted in praise songs for the king and the recipient. The lyrics appreciated the magnanimity of the king and the luck of the newly installed chief. She later led a procession home amid singing and drumming.

At a reception, guests looked resplendent in their green and brown Ankara outfits. They sat in groups inside the tents savouring the joy of the moment. They relished in the sumptuous local and continental dishes as well as wines and assorted drinks served by Larus Burger Fast Foods. Music was supplied by Unique Sound Affair.

One curious observation made was the bond of friendship between the new chief and her husband, Alhaji Adekunle Kazeem. They were always together.

Alhaji Kazeem ensured guests were well entertained.

He congratulated his wife for the honour.

“I am the happiest man today. I thank the king and the council of chiefs for this honour,” he said.

The Iyaloja General of Ikosi-Isheri, Alhaja Sherifatu Taiwo, described the honouree as a hard working woman.

“She is our good daughter; she is exceptional in many ways. She will succeed, no doubt,” she said.

The Babaloja General of Isolo, Alhaji Wahab Kosoko spoke glowingly of her good character saying the honour was well deserved.

“I have worked with her at various levels, I found her capable. On account of her competence and honesty, we made her our treasurer. We thank our king for this honour,” he said.

Her daughter, Mrs Kafilat Raji, thanked Allah for making the day successful.

“My mother’s installation attests to the fact that there is reward in humility and hard work. Even as a market head, my mother would not force anybody to do anything. I am proud of her and I pray for success and long life in her new assignment,” Mrs Raji said.

The Nikkah between Faheem Adelani Aileru, a Chartered Accountant and former Miss Nafisat Kofoworade Aderoju was held at the New Great Hall, Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), Idi-Araba, Mushin, Lagos. IBRAHIM ADAM reports.

For Aileru and Aderoju families, it is a day to remember. It was the day their children, Faheem and Nafisat tied the nuptial knot.

The Nikkah (marriage) was held at the New Great Hall, Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), Idi-Araba, Mushin, Lagos.

Faheem is a chartered accountant with Isiaqu Yaro and Company Limited in Apapa, Lagos; the bride is a graduate of Mass Communication from the Moshood Abiola Polytechnic, Ogun State.

Guests arrived into the waiting hands of photographers who took their shot. Many dressed in mixed mint green and peach attires with green caps and head gears.

White chairs were arranged in rows around tables with cream and gold overlays. Waiters in customised tops stood around, attending to guests.

The event was anchored by Mallam Isiaq Sulaiman, otherwise known as Abu Hikmat. It started with prayer by Amir (President), Muslim Students’ Society of Nigeria, (MSSN) Mushin Central Branch, Mallam Nurudeen Aderoju, around 11:25am.

The couple were the cynosure of all eyes as they entered the hall. They were accompanied by friends.

Faheem was in white lace Agbada with blue and white cap and a black pair of shoes. Nafisat was all smiles. She dressed in white lace native, blue head gear, ipele, hand bag, and matching pair of shoes.

Four children from Madrasatu Ibadur Rahman, Ilasamaja in Mushin, Lagos recited some verses from the Quran.

The guest speaker, Ustadh Isiaq Olajuwon, stressed the importance of marriage in Islam.

“Nikkah,” he said, “is compulsory in Islam and a prophetic teaching which must be followed.”

He enjoined the groom to be patient and the bride to be righteous.

“Faheem, you need to be patient with your wife no matter the situation. She is as precious as her name implies and you must treat her like a precious gift. Nafisat, be a righteous woman and be obedient. Protect your husband properties, always dress well and make him happy,” he said.

Olajuwon prayed for the success of their union.

The solemnisation was supervised by Alhaji Abdul Fattah Mustapha, who asked the groom if he wished to have Nafisat as his wife. He asked the bride the same question and both answered: “Yes, I do”. He also asked the couple’s fathers for their consent and both responded with: “From our heart and with the support of the family, we agree.”

Alhaji Abdul Fattah declared the lovebirds man and wife, and prayed for them.

Nafisat described her husband as gentle, intelligent and caring.

“I am very happy for this day and I thank Allah for making this day possible.” she said.

Faheem said he adores his wife so much and believes they have been ordained by Allah.

Ustadh Ismail Kailani enjoined the groom to always show love to his wife.

Sheikh Nurain Onimasa prayed for the success of the union and presented the couple with their marriage certificate.

Zainab Sulaiman and Hikmat Sulaiman entertained guests with poems and panegyric.

The couple cut the cake before moving round to take pictures with family members and friends.

Welcome to the month of September. I pray that the month will deliver to you your great expectations and desires for the year 2014. If you have achieved the goals you set at the beginning of the year, congratulations, but don’t stop trying to do more. If you have not done too well, you should review your written goals and commit to them. If you have not done anything about the goals you wrote in January, or you didn’t even write any, don’t be discouraged, a lot can still be achieved in four months. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said, “if you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward”. Perhaps you don’t think you are making as much progress as you would have wanted but the question is, “are you still where you were in January?” If the answer is no, then you have something to be grateful for. Just make sure you keep moving.

Last week, we discussed about having difficult conversations. When conversations are over-charged with emotions, they mostly become difficult to manage. Sometimes you dread having some discussions and you wish you can avoid them. However, avoiding difficult but necessary conversations can be misleading, unfair, affect other people’s productivity and efficiency, and it can also kill morale. If we hate to have difficult conversations, yet we must have them, how then can we make them less awkward and more effective? Here are a few suggestions:

• Prepare yourself psychologically: we cannot overemphasize the need for you to be confident when having this kind of conversation. You need to prepare your mind ahead. It is very important for you to take charge of the conversation otherwise you will find yourself on the defensive. Even if you are about to confess that you made an error or you are answering for a poor business decision, you should be in control. One of the major ways to do this is to state that you are aware of your error, claim responsibility and explain what you are already doing or hope to do to remedy the problem. What you have done is to play the judge in your own case, which most people won’t do. However, this works better if you come clean before your error is discovered or if you have not spent all the time defending your action until you realise that there is no escape route.

• Don’t make it personal: this is particularly important if you are performing an official assignment. Do you remember our little story from last week’s article? Mr. Charles had to break the news of termination of employment to Mr. Smart, who was a company driver in his late 50s, with an ailing wife and nine children. There are two extremes to breaking the news: one person may do so without any consideration at all, after all, it is another person’s job that is being lost, while another individual may have too much sympathy. The best approach is to find a balanced position. While you must deliver the message because you have been instructed to, you can still show that you care. Nevertheless, you must detach your emotion from the conversation so that you don’t take on unnecessary emotional burden. See your office (i.e. Chief Personnel Officer) as the one to deliver the message and not your person (Mr. Charles); that way, you will separate your personal emotion from your job responsibilities.

• Drop hints: one thing you should try to avoid when having a difficult conversation is sudden outpouring of emotions. When you break unpleasant news suddenly, that is exactly what you will get. So, attempt to drop hints so that the other party can start to figure out the direction of the conversation before you conclude. You can do so by asking subtle questions that can lead to your conclusion. As the individual responds to the questions, he or she will also be trying to think ahead of the discussing. That will at least make the realization gradual. You may also send a message (i.e. email, SMS) with a subtle suggestion of what the discussion will be about. The main aim is to avoid sudden reactions.

• Don’t prevent reactions: while it is a good idea to avoid sudden outpouring of emotions, we cannot prevent the expression of emotions altogether. When it is sudden, it tends to be excessive, but there is no way a difficult conversation will not be emotional. Never attempt to prevent the other person from speaking or expressing his/her emotions. While that is exactly what you were dreading in the first place, it is still safer that those emotions are expressed rather than bottled in. What you should do is that after you have stated your point, wait patiently until the other person has finished venting his/her anger. If you don’t interrupt, perhaps he/she will soon become exhausted and calm down for you to give further explanation. When the conversation involves your personal relationship with people, it is advisable that you try to rebuild the relationship if you can. Consequently, wait for a while for the emotions to calm, and then go for a follow-up conversation.

Since every conversation is unique in itself, you may have better ideas of how to deal with difficult conversation. Please send me a message so that we can also explore your ideas and learn from them. Have a great weekend.

The funeral service for Madam Felicia Oluremi Abina, wife of the General Overseer of Gospel Faith Mission International (GOFAMINT), Elijah Oludele Abina, has been held at the church’s headquarters at Km 40, Lagos-Ibadan Expressway, Aseese, Mowe-Ibafo, Ogun State. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

It was the celebration of a life well spent. Notable Christian leaders and members of the Gospel Faith Mission International (GOFAMINT) Worldwide, family members and friends turned out for the ceremony.

They converged on the headquarters of GOFAMINT at Km 40, Lagos-Ibadan expressway, Aseese, Mowe-Ibafo in Ogun State last Saturday for the funeral of Madam Felicia Oluremi, wife of the General Overseer, Pastor Elijah Oludele Abina. She died in the United States (US) at 75. She is survived by her widower, six children and many grand children.

Her body was not laid at the service because it arrived late from the US.

The church hall and its gallery were filled. Guests also sat under a large tent outside the church. The church hall and the tent were decorated with blue, red and white fabrics. The ushers were dressed in either cream shirts and green trousers/skirts; or black skirts/trousers with white shirts.

The service began with a processional hymn “Great is your faithfulness”, with the choir leading its singing. The ministers and family members entered amid the hymn.  All the ministers wore suit; the choir wore white shirt on navy blue skirt/trousers.

The children wore gold lace with red head gear/cap; the grandchildren wore blue lace.

The Bible reading from 1Thessaloninas 4:13-18 was taken by the first son, Folorunso.

The second hymn: “Praise, my soul, the King of Heaven” was taken next.

The National President of Pentecostal Fellowship of Nigeria (PFN), Rev Felix Omobude and Chairman of PFN’s Lagos chapter, Bishop Sola Ore prayed for the deceased and her family.

Chairman of Lagos State Pilgrims Welfare Board Rev Adega Balogun took the second Bible reading from 1 Corinthians, 15: 35-58.

The children sang in memory of their mother, followed by choir’s ministration.

In a sermon, The General Overseer, All Christians Fellowship Headquarters, Abuja, Rev Williams Okoye, spoke on “Build your life on values that would last”.

Rev Okoye urged the gathering to stop being carried away by worldly things.

“You can die at anytime and you will face God to give account of how you lived on earth. When you think of death, it will help you to re-evaluate and re-examine your life,” he said.

Evangelist Bola Aare, a popular gospel singer, rendered soul-lifting songs with the congregation singing along.

The service ended with the recessional hymn: “O Lord of Heaven and earth and sea”.

Outside the church hall, Layo Daniel Classical Entertainment life band entertained guests.

Pastor Abina said the most memorable moment with his wife was when they had no child in the early days of their marriage.

The widower said: “My late wife endured the time and it was wonderful.  Today, we have three boys and three girls. My wife also supported me when I had financial problem and in all things. When I felt sick, she came to the hospital to stay with me, as a matter of fact that was when her sickness started. “She was loving and caring; she is a woman that I cannot forget in my life.

“When she fell sick, I felt her absence because nobody was like her to me. But one thing I believe is that she did not die; she sleeps and she lives on.”

Mr Folorunso Abina, the Chief Executive Officer, Micro Alliance Limited in Abuja, said his mother was the closest example of Jesus to him.

“She was a true servant of God, a genuine and authentic leader that I wish every leader and Christian lives like her. She left the legacy of love, sacrifice and prophecy which she has poured into every one of her children even her grandchildren. I will miss her love and godly counsel,” he said.

The first daughter, Mrs Olabisi Ogundele, described her mother as loving, generous and accommodating.

“I learnt many good things from her that helped me in my marital home. I will miss everything about her – her presence, cooking and encouragement,” she said.

Her last son Mr Femi Abina, Chief Executive Officer, Real Estate Development, described his mother as an awesome human being with unique qualities.

A son-in-law, Pastor Sunday Ogundele of GOFAMINT in the United Kingdon, described her as a woman that brought to pass the fullness of God in the life of everyone who came around her.

The reception continued in Pastor Abina’s house at 1/3, Elijah Abina Street, off Lake View Estate Phase Two, Amuwo Odofin in Lagos.

Her body arrived at night and she was buried around 9am on Sunday.

A thanksgiving service was held at Pastor Abina’s church, in Mushin, Lagos.