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Marital bliss

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An Associate Professor of Counselling at the University of Lagos, Dr Monday Bassey Ubangha, has given out his daughter, Patience Komommo’s hand in marriage to the 2 I-C Provost of the Nigerian Customs, Yaba, Lagos Mainland Easter Eteng Eyong, in marriage. The solemnisation took place at the Grace and Dominion Chapel of the Assemblies of God Church, Oworonshoki, Lagos. NNEKA NWANERI was there.

Talk of a colourful wedding. A parade of officers; a union of families, show of friendship, solidarity and a bond between two young people.

It was all these and more when Patience, daughter of an Associate Professor of Counselling at the University of Lagos, Dr Monday Bassey Ubangha, exchanged marital vows with her beau, Easter Eyong in Lagos.

To the couple, it was a dream come true.

Men of the Nigerian Police and Customs Service were there to share in the couple’s joy.

The nuptial knot was tied at Grace and Dominion Chapel of the Assemblies of God Church, Oworoshoki, a Lagos suburb.

With the opening hymn: “My Hope is built on nothing less,” the bride was ushered into the church by her father. At the altar already waiting was the groom, kitted in ash-coloured Customs uniform.

Rev Ekah Egere, from The Redeemed Evangelical Mission (TREM), Idimu, Lagos branch, where the groom worships, in his homily, admonished the couple to see marriage as a respected institution ordained by God.

He urged them to treat each other with respect and lean on God who has promised to neither leave nor forsake them.

After the sermon, the Grace Choir rendered a special song for the couple after which they were joined by the host minister, Rev Israel Nnejiwuihe, who later presented them with their certificate.

The filing out of the church was dramatic. Customs officers did a parade for their colleague. It was a match past with the couple in their midst. Patience was all smiles as she clung to her man.

The officers replaced the conventional grooms men, but the set up comprised ladies too, all numbering about 10, led them out of the church while others followed behind.

Officers with feathers on their caps and swords above their bellies did a slow match, lifting each foot simultaneously to the beat of theacomplanying band which produced epic tunes using the Scottish pipebag.

They also stood at attention one after the other before the couple and threw sharp salutes.

The wedding train moved to the Police Officers Mess in GRA, Ikeja for the reception, where many guests were already waiting.

Guests shone in orange and green coloured Ankara, George fabrics and blouse. There was a tent outside for those who could not get a seat in the hall.

The couple’s entry into the hall was as dramatic as their exit from the church. Their friends did a replica of the parade they put up in the church. As they marched, their sword jackets dangled from their sides.

They led the couple all the way to where they sat.

Chairman of the occasion and the Chief Executive Officer of St Anthony Group of Schools, Otunba Edward Ohore, urged the couple to tolerate each other as the only way to ensure a lasting union. Communication, he said solves a lot of problems.

He enjoined them to always apologise to each other for peace to reign in their home.

There was the presentation of the sword. ASP Estu Mesembe, in introducing the presentation, said it is a symbolic gesture given to the military and paramilitary. The groom’s sword was given by the Comptroller General. His colleague, ASP Omini Ebri, who attended the same school with the groom, and also joined the customs service with Easter in 2011, handed it to him.

The groom, on receiving the sword kept matching on the spot.

Same sword was used to cut the wedding cake amid fireworks.

Dr Ubangha told The Nation of the mixed feelings he has for the day. Though visibly excited, his parting was with his daughter is one that will be difficult to forget. He also said he is not bothered that Patience get married to a uniformed man.

“Though she has come of age, parting with her is not an easy thing. My daughter has been my friend, companion and confidante. She has been very close to me apart from my wife so it won’t be easy coming home daily without seeing her,” he said.

He urged the couple to be tolerant, even in the face of challenges.

The bride’s mother, Mrs Mary Ubanga, a Deputy Superintendent of Police and the Divisional Police Officer (DPO) for Ijaiye Ojokoro, a Lagos suburb, described her daughter as a friendly and jovial girl.

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The President’s daughter’s wedding

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President Goodluck Jonathan’s daughter, Faith Osakwe, has wedded Prince of Osimotu Kingdom, Godswill Osim from Abi, Cross River State. The two-legged carnival-like wedding took place in Otuoke, Bayelsa State home town of Jonathan and Abuja, the Federal Capital Territory. MIKE ODIEGWU reports

EVER witnessed the wedding of a president’s daughter? It is full of pomp, colour and ceremony. This was what happened when President Goodluck Jonathan’s daughter, Faith Osakwe got married. The whole country virtually descended on his Otuoke, Bayelsa State hometown and Abuja for the two-legged ceremony. The engagement was held on Otuoke and the wedding in Abuja.

Faith met her beau, Godswill Osim, a prince of Osimotu Kingdom in Cross River State at the University of Calabar. Osim is from the same community with Governor Liyel Imoke, who played a major role at the wedding. He and his wife, Obioma joined the Osim in asking for the President’s daughter’s hand in marriage at Otuoke.

The engagement, which began on Friday climaxed the next day when the President formally handed over Faith to her in-laws. Bayelsa was agog for the ceremony. The capital, Yenogoa, wore a colourful look as the president and his entourage passed through the town to Otuoke.

The celebration began at the Port-Harcourt International Airport, Omagwa in Rivers State, where a group of women received the President.

The negotiations for the bride price lasted till late in the night. Jonathan, after accepting the Osim family’s offer, asked them to return the following day for faith. The Jonathan home was filled with top politicians, captains of industries and other well-meaning Nigerians who came to share in the couple’s joy.

The ceremony, which had the trappings of Ijaw culture, was chaired by Vice-President Namadi Sambo, who was with his wife, Hajia Amina.

He said he was honoured to be part of the ceremony, adding that the event was ordained by God.

Sambo urged the couple to embrace the secret of a successful marriage which he identified as faithfulness, tolerance and honesty.

“The secret behind a successful marriage, he said, is for both the bride and the bridegroom to be faithful to each other, to be tolerant and honest. When you do this, God will manifest in your life and good luck will be your portion.”

The congregation thundered Amen.

Imoke recalled how Jonathan called him some years ago that his daughter had gained admission into the University of Calabar.

He said nobody envisaged that the admission would snowball into a marital union between Cross River and Bayelsa states. He reeled out the traditional rites satisfied by the groom and the state. He said they paid N51,000 dowry, adding that the President did not collect all the money. The President’s daughter was in ‘good’ hands and would be adequately taken care of.

He said: “We are honoured. We came with trepidation and went through a tedious exercise. I got the deal of the century. The President ensured that his daughter was given to us with a condition. He asked us to pay the price of N51,000 less N1000. The President took it and asked us to go and come back. Now we are back and fully prepared to take our daughter.”

The host, Bayelsa State Governor Seriake Dickson, blessed the couple and thanked the guests, for supporting the Jonathans. He said the young man who crossed many creeks to find a wife at Otuoke had done well.

He hailed Dame Patience for nurturing Faith, saying the first Lady has proved herself a worthy mother and an excellent example for women.

Concluding the marriage rite after Faith had identified her husband and taken him to her father, Jonathan blessed the couple.

He said: “With what has happened today, you have now become my son. Congratulations, my son. We pray the marriage will succeed”.

The second leg of the wedding at the National Ecumenical Centre in Abuja last Saturday was breathtaking.

The ceremony started at 10.56 a.m when Jonathan and his wife, wearing blue traditional attires, led Faith into the venue. They were accompanied by family members.

Faith’s wedding gown was exotic.

It is believed that she made history.

The wedding was officiated by the Primate of Church of Nigeria (Anglican Communion), Nicholas Okoh, assisted by Bishop of Kubwa Diocese, Church of Nigeria (Anglican Communion), Timothy Akamisoko.

The couple exchanged vows following which they were pronounced husband and wife.

The groom, took the first Bible lesson from Genesis 2, the bride took the second from Ephesians 5: 21-33.

In his sermon, General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) Pastor Enoch Adeboye admonished the couple to live in peace and harmony.

Pastor Adeboye charged Godswill that as the head of the family, he should not criticise his wife but correct her with love.

Adeboye, who said he has been married for 47years told Godswill: “You are the head of the family; being the head means that you are extremely important. The success or failure of the marriage rests on you. The head contains the eyes; it is the light of the body. So, you decide where the marriage will go. The head also has two ears and one mouth. Be swift to hear but slow to speak. When your wife cooks for you, don’t think it will be like that of your mother; your mother has been on it for long. If there is too much salt in the food, or the meat is tough, don’t blame her but try and use wisdom to tell her.”

Adeboye enjoined the couple’s parents not to interfere in their affairs, saying: “Those who God has joined, let no man put asunder.”

Former President Olusegun Obasanjo and Rivers State Governor Rotimi Amaechi stole the show at the church. Dignitaries and others were surprised to see them.

Clad in a white agbada, Obasanjo arrived at the church about 11:15am after the sermon. Amaechi, who was there earlier, left at 10:30 am before the service ended.

Prayers were later offered by President of the Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN) Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor, and other clergies at the ceremony.

After signing the marriage register, the couple was ferried from the church to the International Conference Centre, Abuja, in a beautifully-decorated horse-drawn carriage for the reception.

Former Head of State Gen Yakubu Gowon, who chaired the reception told the couple that marriage, is give and take.

“No matter the problem that may come your way, never allow the day to pass without resolving the problem through prayers and love. It is only you that can make it a success. Look at your parents and emulate them,” he said.

The cutting of the cake was supervised by the wife of the Senate President, Mrs Helen Mark.

The father-daughter dance by Jonathan and Faith saw many guests standing to catch a glimpse.

Jonathan described the day as special, saying.

“We are all smiling and dancing; but also note that there will be periods when the relationship will not work smoothly. That is a part of the life of husband and wife.”

According to him, there is no couple that will not have some moments when their faces will not be too bright, but it depends on how they reach out and really find time to understand themselves.

He wished the couple a happy married life saying: “Our duty as parents is to continue to pray for you, to encourage you; and if there are some issues you feel we can solve, you can tell us. But don’t depend on your parents to solve your matrimonial problems. If you have disagreement with your husband…, don’t always run to parents or get advice of your mother or father. Sometimes, they will not give you the best advice because your parents are analogue people while you are digital generation.

“So, we don’t belong to the same generation and so don’t expect us to give you the advice of the modern way of life. But we will encourage you to succeed,” he said. Security was tight in Otuoke and Abuja for the twin events. Security agents were deployed to ensure things went well.

Dbanj and Iyanya thrilled the gathering.

On the roll were Senate President, David Mark and his Deputy, Ike Ekweremadu, led a delegation from the Senate; Speaker of the House of Representatives, Aminu Tambuwal, also led members of the lower chamber; Secretary to the Government of the Federation (SGF), Anyim Pius Anyim; Chairman of the PDP Governors’ Forum and Governor of Akwa Ibom State, Chief Godswill Akpabio, Governor Theodore Orji (Abia); Seriake Dickson (Bayelsa), Martins Elechi (Ebonyi), Dr. Emmanuel Uduaghan (Delta); Gabriel Suswam (Benue); Ibrahim Shema (Katsina); Jonah Jang (Plateau); Idris Wada (Kogi); Willie Obiano (Anambra), Isa Yuguda (Bauchi) as well as former governors of Ogun and Oyo states, Gbenga Daniel and Adebayo Alao-Akala.

Also were Chairman, Dangote Group of Companies Alhaji Aliko Dangote; Forte Oil Chairman Mr Femi Otedola; Managing Director of Access Bank, Aig- imoukhuede; Chairman of Visafone, Jim Ovia; ministers including Olajumoke Akinjide (FCT State), Emeka Wogu (Labour) and Diezani Alison-Madueke (Petroleum); immediate past Minister of Education, Prof. Ruqayyatu Ahmed Rufai (Jigawa); former Head of Service, Ebele Okeke; People’s Democratic Party (PDP) Chairman Adamu Mua’zu; Chairman of PDP Board of Trustees, Chief Tony Anenih, former PDP Deputy Chairman, South West, Chief Bode George among others.

 

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A conjugal bliss

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Ibiyemi, daughter of The Nation General Manager (Corporate Services) Mr Soji Omotunde, wedded her beau, John Ikechukwu, at The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) Praise Palace, New Oko-Oba in Lagos last Saturday. TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO writes.

The hall of La Royale Events Centre at New Oko-Oba in Lagos went up in celebration. Occupants of the front seats to those at the back, were all on their foot, dancing.

Sister Bukola Bekes, a songstress at The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) and The Paradise Minstrels thrilled the gathering.

The hall was electrified with irresistible soul-inspiring songs, and the guests responded with beautiful dance steps.

Make no mistake, the gathering was not for Holy Ghost camp, Congress or Convention, rather a wedding reception between Ibiyemi Omoyeme, daughter of The Nation General Manager (Training and development), Mr Soji Omotunde and her beau John Ifeanyi Ikechukwu.

The hall was tastefully decorated. The colour blended well with the colour of the uniformed attire, chosen for the ceremony.

The bridal’s seat was awesome, backing a stylish satin clothes used to decorate the stage.

The couple thrilled the gathering with good dance style while coming into the hall. They were led in by the bridal’s train.

The groom, John, looked resplendent in an ash suit, a pink shirt and tie and matching pair of shoes.

Delectable Ibiyemi, the bride shone in a white flowing gown, silver wrist watch and ear rings with beautiful shoes. The lovebird was the cynosure of all eyes.

The groom’s men equally decked in same type of attire with the groom while the bride’s maids turned out in pink Ankara fabrics.

Guests stood to catch a glimpse of the couple’s grand entry. It was preceded by their parents’ entry who danced through the hall to the seats reserved for them on the front row.

The couple barely seated before the Masters of Ceremony led by a comedian, JC Victor called on Pastor Fred Thomas for the opening prayer.

Chairman on the occasion, Mr Lekan Kareem, took the microphone after the prayer.

Kareem congratulated the couple and their parents.

He wished them successful marriage and long life in good health.

He enjoined John and Ibiyemi to always be each other’s friend.

“Always resolve your differences quietly and avoid third party’s intervention except God,” he said.

Kareem urged the lovebird to always take decision together.

The cutting of the four-layered cake was supervised by the emcee.

Before feeding each other, the emcee asked the couple to show their love for the gathering and the couple kissed.

This drew laughter from the hall.

After feeding each other, one of the groom’s men, Oluwamuyiwa Akinmejiwa proposed the toast.

Miss Damilola Sadiq, a banker and one of the bride’s maids beat other contestants to pick the bouquet thrown by Ibiyemi.

The couple later returned to the dance floor with family members, guests and other well-wishers joining them.

Earlier on at The Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) Praise Palace, (Lagos Province 17 Headquarters), New Oko-Oba, the couple was declared man and wife having fulfilled the rites of marriage.

The church choir thrilled the gathering for 15 minutes before the service commenced.

After this, Mr Omotunde, a Pastor led his daughter in.

The solemnisation featured processional hymn, praise and worship, bible reading, congregational hymn, joining and blessing, choir ministration, signing of marriage register and recessional hymn.

A sermon was delivered by Pastor Thomas.

However, it was Pastor-in-Charge Lagos Province 17 David Omunagbe who anchored the most interesting part of the solemnisation – the joining of the couple as one and their presentation to the gathering.

Shortly after joining them as man and wife, the latest couple signed marriage certificate with their parents.

John, a Field Service Engigeer with Schnieder Electric, described his wife as humble, loving, God fearing and intelligent.

“Immediately she came into my life and today that God has actually confirmed it, I see the completeness in me. The rib that God took out of me to create her is now back to my body. So, I feel complete and I feel so joyous and am so happy about that,” said the Delta State-born groom.

Ibiyemi, the Samsung Electronics West Africa MDF Analyst, described her husband as loving and kind-hearted.

“What attracts him to me is his commitment in church, a very loving person who is always ready to render assistants; he has a kind heart and most especially his love for God,” she said.

Mr Omotunde said: “Today is my day of being blessed, my day of rejoicing, my day of celebration when my daughter is getting married. I see everything happening by the grace of God. I see today as a very wonderful day in my family. So, that is why you can see me smiling and happy.”

The bride’s father urged the couple to continue allow God to dictate their way of life.

Representative of the groom’s father,‘ Tony Ikechukwu, an engineer, prayed God to give the couple the wisdom, the understanding, the love and the peace of marriage.

“Above all, they will live to carry their children’s children and will live a long life and a prosperous one,” he said.

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Their day of joy

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It was a three-in-one celebration for the family of Prince Semiu Oluwa, of the Ecological Office at the Presidency. Last Saturday, Oluwa turned 55 and his wife Folashade, 50. Besides, it was their 33rd wedding anniversary. The event was held at the Federal Civil Service Club in Ikoyi, Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

IT was a day to thank God by the family of Prince Semiu Oluwa of the Ecological Office of the Presidency. Oluwa was celebrating his 55th birthday, his wife, Folashade’s 50th and their 33rd wedding anniversary. All roads led to the Federal Civil Service Club in Ikoyi, Lagos for the three-in-one event.

uests filled the Executive Chairman Events Hall of the club and the tents in the compound.

The couple sat on a bridal chair; their children – Yinka, Moni, Zainab, Fehintola and Funmilayo-were on another table.

The hall was decorated in yellow and blue. Guests exchanged pleasantries and took photographs before the ceremony began.

Many of the guests wore blue native attires with yellow head gear/cap.

The event started, with prayer led by Alhaji Abdu Fatai Ajagbe. He also read some portions of the Holy Quran.

Alhaji Fatai Ajitokun Oluwa anchored the event.

Chief Imam of Oja-Oba Mosque Jamiu Naja, who delivered a short sermon, said the Oluwas were a grateful couple who recognised God’s wonder in their lives.

After the sermon, people prayed for the family.

Reception followed in the same venue.

Femi Ayeni-led Perpetual Music Band electrified the hall.

Abiodun Ololomus assisted by Bodunrin Okoya were the Masters of Ceremony (MC).

The couple entered the hall with their children, family members and friends, dancing to music by the band.

Chairman on the occasion and the Obanikoro of Lagos, Chief Adesoji Ajayi-Bembe, prayed God to bless and keep the Oluwas.

A family friend, Alhaja Ismat Adenike Busari, described Oluwa’s wife as a wonderful and hardworking sister and friend.

Alhaji Segun Tijani described Oluwa as a good person.

The couple then cut the three-step blue and white cake. Families and friends joined them in taking pictures.

Princess Folashade described her husband as gentle, loving and kind hearted.

“He just wants me to be happy and he is ready to do anything for me, I give glory to God for the kind of man He has given me,” she said.

“Thirty-three years of marriage, it has not been easy but I thank God for keeping us up to this time. My wife is everything to me,” Prince Oluwa said.

Fehintola wished her parents many more years together in prosperity and sound health.

Semiu’s mother, Alhaja Airat Ashabi Oluwa, who urged the celebrators to keep doing everything together, prayed that they would eat the fruit of their labour.

Present were Minister of State for Defence Senator Musiliu Obanikoro; Erelu of Lagos Abiola Dosunmu, among others.

 

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‘Don’t mock an old man’

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A thanksgiving service was held at the First Baptist Church in Ajegunle-Apapa, Lagos for Pa Remi Williams, a lawyer and grassroots politician, who clocked 85. JOSEPH ESHANOKPE reports

AT 85, Pa Remi Williams has cause to celebrate. He remains happily married and is in good health. Penultimate Sunday, he went to the First Baptist Church, Ajegunle-Apapa, Lagos to give thanks to God for His infinite mercies.

At 11 am, the service kicked off. But it was a two-part English service – the Sunday service,which included a child dedication and the thanksgiving. The dedication of baby Victoria Ogunniyi lasted less than an hour. This over, Pa Williams who had all along sat in the front pew, took over.

A man of many parts, Pa Williams was accompanied to the church by his amiable wife Yemi, children and friends. Also with him were members of the All Progressives Congress (APC), of which he is a stalwart. They included the Chairman, Ifelodun Local Development Council Area (LCDA), Alhaji Fatai Ajidagba; his deputy, Alhaji Lateef Ojora-Adejiyan; Majority Leader Lamidi Kareem; Leader of the House, Muyideen Are; former House of Representatives member, Hon Olusegun Ogunbanjo, former Chairman, of the LCDA, Dr Abiola Ajijola and ex-Secretary, Education Board, Adewale Adeogun.

The Choir opened the day with some special songs prepared to suit the occasion. These were interspersed by songs raised by the celebrator and his people who were given room to sing. This over, opening Hymn 159 titled: Fu’mghin lowuro, Irugbe iinure was taken.

The Minister in charge of the church, Rev Joshua Adetunji Ojuwoni, who described the service as unique, said Pa Williams had cause to thank God. He noted that the octogenarian is an epitome of good character, humility, forgiveness and ‘a politician to the core’. He recalled that as a member of his church, any time Pa Williams met him, he would bow to greet. But when the cleric corrected him, saying it should be the other way round, Pa Williams insisted, adding that he (Rev Ojuwoni) is a man of God.

The cleric, who spoke on Managing our time, said there was need to manage one’s time because life belongs to God. “This age is the grace of God. It is not by might or power. Only God can set back the time. To waste time is to miss opportunities. You can borrow money, but you can’t borrow time, “ he said. He warned the young not to laugh at an old man or a bald person, adding that it was risky.

Earlier, Pa Williams, who wore aso oke, and a pair of glasses, stood. When many thought he would tell the story of his life, he did not. Rather, he counselled. He cited about five verses for reading. They included Galatians 6: 7 – 8; II Corinthians 9: 6 – 9; and Deut 15: 10. He urged the congregation to give cheerfully, saying there is blessing in giving. He added: “Anywhere you may be, try to do good. Continue to give to God’s work. I have something to contribute that is why I am alive today. I pray that God will bless all of you.”

This was followed by a thanksgiving and praises. The ceremony later shifted to the Bola Tinubu Multipurpose Hall on Ojo Road for reception.

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A golden moment

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Jama’atu Nasril Islam (JNI), the umbrella body of Muslims in the North, is 50. It celebrated the golden jubilee at Lugard Hall, Kaduna in grand style, writes TONY AKOWE.

At 50, the Jama’atu Nasril Islam (JNI), the umbrella body of Muslims in the North, has come a long way. Its 50th anniversary was marked with fanfare on April 13 at the Lugard Hall in Kaduna. Dignitaries came from far and wide for the celebration.

Meaning “Society for the support of Islam”, the JNI has been involved in several activities since it was established and its voice heard on national and international issues.

Founded by the revered Sardauna of Sokoto and Premier of the defunct Northern Region, the late sir Ahmadu Bello, the JNI with the Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs (NSCIA), has been propagating Islam. It was founded on January 5, 1961, but was formally inaugurated in 1963. Its golden jubilee celebration attracted among others Vice President Namadi Sambo and House of Representatives Speaker Aminu Tambuwal.

The ceremony featured a special lecture titled: Nigerian Muslims and the JNI: Strength, Achievements, Prospects and Challenges by the former Nigerian Ambassador to Saudi Arabia, Prof Shehu Ahmad Sa’ad Galadanci.

Noting some of the challenges facing Muslims, Galadanci said JNI should merge with NSCIA and Muslims Ummah of South Western Nigeria (MUSWEN) to form a body that would be a rallying point of all Nigerian Muslims.

In his address, JNI President-General and Sultan of Sokoto Alhaji Muhammad Sa’ad Abubakar III, said the organisation went for a lecture to know its challenges and prospects. He described JNI as a reputable organisation.

“It is, indeed, appropriate for us to commend JNI as it has become the umbrella that brings all Muslims together on occasions like this. Muslims are united in Nigeria and will continue to be united, Insha Allah. And for those who think the only problem of Nigerian Muslims is unity, today we have proved them wrong because we are united,” the Sultan said.

JNI, he said, would continue to say the truth when things go wrong as it stands for the unity.

Alhaji Abubakar, who chaired the occasion, said Islam and Christianity should not be seen as an accident of history but God’s design which cannot be changed by anyone.

According to him, insecurity is the major problem confronting muslims and christians in the country.

“Every day, he said, hundreds of lives are being lost, particularly in the Northeast. We are worried about the number of Christians, Muslims, Fulanis and innocent people that are killed every time and, therefore, we condemn such cruel acts. I urge Christians to partner with Muslims to find a solution to the security challenges facing the country. We are not out to fight for religion or fight anybody, we are out to practise our religion as we are taught by the Qur’an and the Hadith. As Muslims, we should engage in good conduct that will bring non-Muslims closer to us in order to foster mutual understanding and, thus, mutual love.

“Please, let Christians understand that nobody can Islamise Nigeria. There are no plans by Muslims to convert non-Muslims to Islam just as nobody can Christianise Muslims or the country as a whole. So, why are we fighting? Let us live together as God has created us to be Muslims and Christians. We should go about our religion peacefully and let God judge who is right and who is wrong. I encourage non-Muslims to bear with us because we are not out to challenge anybody.”

Sambo urged JNI to continue to be steadfast in its obligations by promoting unity, oneness, brotherhood and inter-religious harmony among Nigerians.

He paid tributes to Sir Ahamdu Bello for conceptualising the organisation.

“We must not forget to honour the founding fathers of this organisation, most of whom are not here with us today. The late Premier of Northern Region Sir Ahmadu Bello, the Sardauna of Sokoto, deserves honour today for his great wisdom and deep foresight in bringing to existence this great body that would promote the deep moral teachings of Islam and protect the interest of the Muslim Ummah.

“The late Sheikh Abubakar Mahmoud Gumi, the erstwhile Grand Khadi of Northern Nigeria, must be remembered for his role in sustaining the great legacy bequeathed to us up till the time of his death. May Allah reward their good deeds with Aljannat Firdausi,” he said.

Kaduna State Governor Mukhtar Ramalan Yero said JNI should begin to identify ways of engaging in inter-faith dialogue, especially with Christian organisations across the country. The governor said the objective of such interaction is to devise means of promoting peaceful co-existence in the country. Yero argued that without peace and stability, there can be no meaningful development, adding that the country will economically stagnate while majority of the people, irrespective of faith, would wallow in abject poverty.

He said: “It is, therefore, a collective responsibility, especially on the part of the JNI and similar bodies in the country, to galvanise the people towards achieving lasting peace and security. At this historic stage, I wish to urge JNI, especially as we enter the golden age of its formation, to begin to take necessary steps in addressing internal misunderstandings within the religion. It is imperative for Muslims to uphold the bond of faith in sustaining our brotherhood as servants of Allah.”

The event climaxed, with the launch of the JNI golden jubilee almanac by Sambo.

In attendance were Shehu of Borno Alhaji Abubakar Umar Ibn Garbai el-Kanemi, Emir of Zazzau Alhaji Shehu Idris; Emir of Gwandu Alhaji Bashir Iliyasu; and Kano State Deputy Governor Abdullahi Ganduje, among others.

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Wedding of a princess

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Aderonke, daughter of Adeniyi Ajakaiye, a prince of Iyin-Ekiti, has tied the nuptial knot with Olukayode Omotilewa at the Light House Christian Outreach Centre in Oregun, Lagos. The reception was held at Matinos Hall in Ikeja last Saturday. TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO reports

Call it a political gathering, you won’t be wrong. But it was a wedding at which politicians stole the show.

Hon Abimbola Daramola, a member of the House of Representatives and Director-General of the Kayode Fayemi Campaign Organisation, was quite visible in his all-white dress, a pair of eye glasses and a blue cap.

Senator Babafemi Ojudu, who represents Ekiti Central, came in white flowing lace agbada, a pair of eye glasses and a befitting cap. His wife, Tola and her friends glittered in their blue lace.

So also were Hon Oyetunde Ojo, a member of the House of Representatives and son-in-law to Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, the National Leader of the All Progressives Congress (APC) and Mrs Bunmi Dipo-Salami, Special Adviser to Ekiti State Governor on Millennium Development Goals (MDGS).

The E-eleven, a socio-political group of Ekiti State professionals, to which the bride’s parents belong, was well represented.

They all turned the wedding reception for Aderonke, daughter of Adeniyi Ajakaiye, a prince of Iyin-Ekiti and Olukayode Omotilewa, into a mini-carnival.

The hall erupted in joy when the Taiwo Omotunde-led band mentioned ERO, which stands for Ekiti Rebirth Organisation, Ojudu’s campaign slogan.

The musician followed it up with O duro so ke, meaning he remains on top – a slogan for the re-election campaign of Governor Fayemi. This further enlivened the hall with the bride’s parents, E-eleven and others raising up their hands.

The band capped it with Merin merin o to to – four four years of different terms. It was a tribute to Dr Fayemi’s performance. This electrified the hall. Ajakaiye, his wife Toyin, Ojudu, Daramola, Ojo and Mrs Dipo-Salami hit the dance floor, raising four fingers

These were the sideshows at the wedding that saw the couple, Olukayode and Aderonke, mesmerising the audience with contemporary dance steps.

The lovebirds were led by the bridal’s train, amid songs from the band.

Ojudu said the opening prayer.

Royalserve Group Managing Director/Chief Executive Officer Mr Olusola Alabi, described by his friends as “shy” and “restrained”, chaired the ceremony.

He danced with his wife, Aderonke when called by the emcee for his remarks.

Alabi, a businessman who has been married for 22 years, described marriage as a school from which couples never graduate.

He enjoined the couple to be each other’s helper.

“Both of you are not perfect, so try to complement each other. I pray by next year, we will come and celebrate twins – a boy and a girl- with you,” he said and the gathering responded with a loud Amen!

Mrs Dipo-Salami supervised the cutting of the cake. The bride’s and her father’s dance enthralled the gathering.

Adeleye Adewale proposed the toast before the bride threw the bouquet.

The lucky girl, Kikelomo Popoola, who picked the bouquet, quickly let the guests know that she was not searching when she introduced her fiancée, Olumuyiwa Afolabi, to the gathering.

The groom, Olukayode, a Presales consultant with Dimension Data, described his wife as a good friend.

“She is cute, God-fearing, has good manners and right attitude; I’m happy she is my wife now and I am looking forward to a great time with her,” he said.

He promised the Ajakaiyes to take care of their daughter.

Aderonke, a System Engineer with the same company, described her husband as humble, loveable and God fearing.

 

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20 years on the throne

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The Oniru of Iruland, Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru, has celebrated his 20th coronation anniversary at his expansive palace, Iru near Lekki, Lagos. TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO reports

It was a week to remember in Iru/Victoria Island in the heart of Lagos. The Oniru of Iruland, Oba Idowu Abiodun Oniru, was celebrating his 20th anniversary. For that week, Iru was a beehive of activities. There were huge banners on street corners greeting the monarch.

The weeklong activities began on Wednesday with traditional rites and prayers

Princess Moses and Moris Oniru led the Christian prayers at the palace before the congregation moved to the Oniru Central Mosque, few metres from the palace for the Muslim version.

Traditional appeasement featuring Elegba, Awo Opa, Ogboni and Igunuko followed later in the day.

Thursday was Family Day. It started with the unveiling of the statue of the late Chief Yesufu Abiodun Oniru at the Junction of Akin Adesola Road/Ahmadu Bello Way on Victoria Island.

There were visits to orphanages/motherless babies homes, presentation of scholarship to the best pupil of British International School, commissioning of Millennium Homes and novelty match.

At the grand finale penultimate Friday, Iru played host to the Creme de la creme.

Three attires were prominent on the occasion. There were orange and purple ankara fabrics and the golden lace wore by the Oniru’s wives.

The ceremony was held inside a large white canopy erected on the palace ground.

Itinerant drummers, who gathered close to one of the canopy’s entrances added glamour to the ceremony.

After the opening prayers by Mufasir of Lagos Sheikh Mujitaba Giwa and Pastor Moris Oniru, one of the monarch’s wives, Olori Aramide, took the gathering to Oba Oniru’s roots through rendition of his panegyric (oriki).

The Elegushi of Ikateland, Oba Saheed Elegushi and the wife of Ayangburen of Ikorodu, Olori Muhibat Oyefusi, silently, read the oriki along with her.

She had barely finished before Oba Rilwan Osuolale Akiolu took over to complete it.

Oba Akiolu went historical on Oba Oniru’s battle for the throne.

He prayed God to grant the celebrator long life.

While thanking the Oloris for taking care of the monarch, the Olowo Eko Baba Fuad as Oba Akiolu is fondly called, jokingly told them that the celebrator is not done yet with marriages. The gathering burst into laughter.

He also thanked the former Lagos State Governor Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, who was present with his wife, Senator Oluremi for choosing a worthy successor, Governor Babatunde Fashola.

Oba Oniru’s daughter Justice Ayisat Oniru-Opesanwo delivered a welcome address on behalf of the royal family.

Asiwaju Tinubu described Oba Oniru as a progressive.

“We are very proud of you and your achievements,” the Jagaban Borgu said.

He recalled how the monarch allowed the government to control the ocean surge that nearly chased people out of the Island.

“Through the Eko Atlantic project, the ocean surge problem was resolved. The Yemoja that has been collecting cows from Kabiyesi is no longer relevant; we told Kabiyesi to stop giving cows to Olokun and allow us to work on the place. If they did it in Holland, Durban and other developed nations, we can do it here as well. Today, we have put Lagos on international map courtesy of the project. Kabiyesi can now save lots of cows and they should be directed to my house having bailed you from Olokun crisis,” he said.

Dignitaries on the high table roared in laughter as Oba Akiolu hailed the Asoju Oba of Lagos Chief Molade Okoya-Thomas by his Muslim name – “Kareem”- when the industrialist was invited for brief remarks. Thanking the monarch for informing the gathering of his Muslim name, Chief Okoya-Thomas said: “Please address me as AbdulKareem Molade Okoya-Thomas; that is my proper name.”

The Asoju Oba said he has been relating with the royal house since childhood.

He prayed that the monarch would live up to 120 years.

There was a cultural display by some children.

Chairman, Iru/Victoria Island Local Council Development Area Prince Muideen Daramola proposed the toast.

Daramola, the Arobadade of Iruland wished the celebrator long life, saying: “Kabiyesi, your father lived for 120 years, I don’t see the reason why you cannot live for 130 years; Iru today is peaceful and secured due to your efforts.”

Thanking his guests, Oba Oniru said the peace in the community is due to the love among the people.

He led guests on the dance floor where King Sunny Ade) thrilled the gathering.

 

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Farewell to a loving mother

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The remains of the wife of the founder of Motailatu Church Cherubim and Seraphim Worldwide, Lady Comfort Febisola Akinadewo, were interred at the St Adekahunsi Motailatu Cathedral in Oke-Imosan, Ondo State. AMIDU ARIJE was there.

March 23 will be etched in the heart of the Founder and Supreme Head of the Motailatu Organisation Worldwide, Dr Motailatu Akinadewo. His wife, Lady Comfort Febisola died that day. She was 66.

There was grief in the family, associates and friends were not left out of the mourning.

A Christian wake-keep was held for her penultimate Friday at the Motailatu Church Cherubim and Seraphim Worldwide, St Adekahunsi Motailatu Cathedral, in Oke Imosan Ondo, Ondo State.

The seat of the Motailatu Church in Lagos was virtually moved to Ondo for the funeral service.

The burial ceremony followed on Saturday at the church. All were moody as they marched quietly to the church for the service. They queued behind the hearse en route the church.

The corpse was placed at the entrance of the church following the tradition of the Motailatu Church that corpse must not be taken into the premises.

The funeral service began on a prayer note. Apostle Kunle Ojo coordinated the service. Apostle Gabriel Afolayan took the congregation through a bible reading.

Prof Joseph Otubu gave the sermon. In his sermon entitled: ‘Rest for Faithful Soul,’ Prof Otubu said considering the struggles and tribulations in life, death is a resting place for the true servants of God.

Reading from Rev 14:13, Prof Otubu said, those who died in the Lord are blessed.

He reminded the congregation that life is vanity upon vanity hence they should sacrifice all they have for the service of God in return for His mercies.

Prof Otubu described the deceased as an epitome of simplicity, humility and prayer warrior.

“Mama was a prayer warrior and very grateful for every little thing she has and people do for her and always grateful to God,” he added.

After his sermon, the deceased’s children knelt before him for prayer.

A thanksgiving service followed. The children of the deceased announced a foundation in honour of their late mother.

The foundation called ‘Mother Comfort Akinadewo Foundation’ is meant to sponsor indigent students on university scholarship throughout their programmes. On the spot two beneficiaries were announced and they were assured of their commitment of sponsoring them to the university of their choice.

The first born and Supervising Head and General Secretary of the Church, Dr Isreal Akinadewo, made the announcement.

After the service, the remains were taken to the mission house for burial.

The body was lowered at 2:30pm.

 

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Golden cheers for a ‘blind giver’

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The General Manager Business Development Division of Jubilee-Life Savings and Loans Limited and Area Pastor, Province 12, the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Lagos, Pastor Shem Oladiji Oluwagbayi, has marked his 50th birthday at the Radisson Blu Anchorage Hotel and Resort, Victoria Island, Lagos. AMIDU ARIJE was there.

The Lekki Hall of the Radisson Blue Anchorage Hotel and Resort was decorated with colourful bounties penultimate Wednesday. It played host to captains of industries, technocrats and religious associates, who despite their schedule, came to honour the one they adoringly call Pastor Shem, who marked his 50th birthday with a spectacular dinner.

But for the elderly among them who chose to wear traditional attire, all came in black suits with shoes to match and accompanied by their spouses, in obedience to the host’s invitation. It was an indication that it was not only a dinner affair; it was an occasion to be lectured by the management guru and Chairman of the occasion, Elder Felix Ohiwerei.

For them, Pastor Shem is worth celebrating. An Ipokia prince and seasoned banker, Shem is one of those behind the transformation of Jubilee Development Foundation, (which was established to mark RCCG’s 50th anniversary), into a mortgage bank. He was the first member of staff and  the inspiration behind the success of the bank.

Guests were not only served with continental and local dishes and wines, a life band supplied Christian tunes to their pleasure. A young Christian comedian ‘Godly’ also cracked interesting jokes.

When the birthday boy was ushered into the hall, he was simply celestial. Dressed in a shimmering white suit with a diamond laden shoes to match, he was accompanied by his wife, Edith, dressed in a black skirt suit, and their two children Ayinoluwa, girl, 14, and Inioluwa, the boy of the house, in tow.

Elder Ohiwerei gave a good account of himself as a management guru with the talk he gave on the occasion.

Speaking on “Life, Career and family,” Ohiwerei tasked all guests, especially the men, to pay closer attention to their family. For him, the only way to build a virile home and society is for men to be closer to their families.

Drawing from personal experience, Ohiwerei urged all those at the event not to leave their children to the care of the maids.

Ohiwerei, who admitted that career is important as it helped build brighter economic fortunes, added: “Your children need you; career is important; money is important, but your presence at home is more important to bring up the children. If you don’t give your children time they may grow to develop nannies and maids’ mentality.”

JLSL Managing Director, Mr. Wale Osusanya who moderated the testimonies, described the celebrator as a focused and reliable person.

“You can misunderstood him when you first meet him, but when you closely observe him, you will understand his passion for success,” he said.

Pastor Gbenga Mayungbe, JLSL’s General Manager, Mortgage, who was Pastor Shem’s pastor, said: “Over the years, we have become very close family friends and very few people understand me like he does. He is a go getter and highly spiritual,” he said.

Managing Director of Fidson Healthcare Plc, Dr Fidelis Ayegbae, described the celebrator as a man of his words.

Asipa Akinyemi Oladeji, said: “He is an epitome of hard work, a great character and unassuming.”

Member Federal House of Representatives, Hon Bamidele Faparusi, described him as a blessing.

“I was on the verge of changing parish when you came and confirmed to me that it’s worthwhile doing business with God. He is a blind giver of no limit, lover of God, frank preacher and an asset to the Kingdom of God,” he said.

Pastor Fred Odekhian described him as a true man of God who has the interest of the people at heart.

When the celebrator took the stage, he got a rousing ovation.  He thanked God for his life.

Pastor Shem said he got his lift in life because he gave up everything.

“The most important thing to remember is to be ready to give up what we are for what we want to become,” he said.

His wife, Edith, got a shock when her husband, before the guests, admitted he never really appreciated her and begged her forgiveness.

He sealed the plea with a big cake, bouquet of rose and a chest of gift; the first, he said, in 17 years of their wedlock. The gifts, he said, were to mark a reunion.

The couple were joined on stage by their children, Elder Ohiwerei and his wife, Margaret, the Personal Assistant to the RCCG General Overseer among other men of God and the JLSL management and other associates, to cut the birthday cake.

Evangelist Tope Alabi later climbed the stage and rendered enchanting songs from her repertoire of evergreen songs which got the guests gyrating to the songs.

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Their day of joy

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The wedding between Mojisola Sarah, daughter of Pastor Moses Abimbola and Olabanji Oluyemi, son of Mr Olabode Ogunrekun, has been held at the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Court of His Majesty in Ipaja, a  Lagos suburb. AMIDU ARIJE was there. 

Their smiles were infectious as they were joined in holy matrimony at the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Court of His Majesty in Ipaja, a Lagos suburb.

Family members, friends and colleagues looked resplendent in the chosen uniformed dress (Aso Ebi).

All were joyous.

The couple, Mojisola and Olabanji, looked cute.

Mojisola shone in her white flowing gown. Olabanji decked in a black suit.

Hand-in-hand, the bride and her father walked into the church to meet the waiting groom.

The opening hymn “A new thing” was taken to commence the event.

The church service was supervised by the Zonal head of the church, Pastor Fred Odekhian. The sermon was delivered by Pastor Wale Odeyale.

Pastor Odeyale urged the couple to be submissive to each other.

He urged the bride to submit herself to her husband and the husband to love his wife.

There were signing of marriage register and presentation of certificate shortly after the officiating priest declared them man and wife.

A processional hymn was taken after the couple had been blessed.

The reception, held at Estate Festival Hall, was anchored by St. Rhymes.

The couple arrived the venue in a chocolate brown Land Cruiser.

The band of So Fine entertained the gathering.

The reception was chaired by Mr Samuel Oladimeji. It started on a prayerful note.

The couple’s parents were called to the podium as the ceremony began.  Their entrance into the hall was greeted with ovation and dances.

The conviviality increased when the couple entered; all stood to welcome them. They were accompanied into the hall by their bridal train.

Oladimeji thanked God for the success of the occasion.

He enjoined the couple to take to the words of God as preached in the church.

Marriage, he said, is for companionship and must be based on love and trust.

He supervised the cutting of the cake.

The bride described the day as most joyful.

“It is my joyous day; he is very loving and understanding,” she said.

The groom described the day as his happiest.

“I’m so happy and excited that, at last, I have a wife. She is very loving, caring and intelligent,” he said

Guests were served choice foods and drinks.

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Festival of songs and praises

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Archbishop Vining Memorial Church Cathedral, Ikeja, Lagos, hosted the Anglican Diocese of Lagos West to a special programme tagged: Jesus Festival 2014. AMIDU ARIJE reports

It was a time of praise and thanksgiving at the open field of the Archbishop Vining Memorial Cathedral in Ikeja, the Lagos State capital. Members and guests gathered for a special programme tagged: “Jesus Festival 2014.”

Officials of the Federal Road Safety Corps (FRSC) helped to reduce the traffic snarl on Oba Akinjobi,  Road leads to the church. Other security agencies also had a hectic controlling human and vehicular moments inside and outside the church.

The church members shone out in various customised shirts designed for the occasion. Church members also pitched their tents on the field according to their zones and archdeaconry.

It looked like a political gathering but it was not.

It was a programme to praise God and thank Him for His mercies upon the church.

The programme is an initiative of the Diocese of Lagos West, Anglican Communion.

The Bishop of the Diocese of Lagos West, Anglican Communion Bishop James Olusola Odedeji was the host.

The Boys and Girls Brigade of the Cathedral entertained the gathering.

Each archdeaconry also marched round the field while Rev Odedeji and other ministers of God stood and waved.

Afterwards, songs of praises continued.

Chief Olusegun Osunkeye took the congregation through a bible reading.

It was followed by a sermon by the Rector of St Francis of Asisi Theological College, Wusasa, Zaria, Kaduna State, the Rt Revd Praises Omole-Ekun.

His sermon centered on creation, redemption and restoration.

He urged Nigerians to desist from ungodly activities to receive the blessings of God.

“God’s blessing to mankind is that: It must be fruitful, you must multiply; replenish; subdue and you must have dominion on the land,” he said.

He called on the country leaders to be more patriotic in the governing of the affairs of the citizenry.

“Our leaders should become more patriotic, most of the leaders are only interested in what they will gain and not the interest of the people,” he said.

Rev Omole-Ekun urged the leaders not to abuse the privilege of office God gave to them.

“Our leaders should understand there is an honour and privilege in what God has given them they should not abuse it,” he said.

He prayed for the deliverance and salvation of all people present on the occasion.

BJ Sax band entertained guests after the sermon.

Speaking on the importance of the festival, Bishop Odedeji said it is meant to increase the spiritual level of the members and thereby making them closer to God.

“The major vision of this diocese is the spiritual growth of our members, if our members are spiritually grown, other things will follow,” he said.

He urged Nigerians to be their brother’s keeper and shun every form of violence or activities that may ginger violence in the country.

He seized the occasion to remind the leaders of trust God placed on them and urged them to provide adequate security for the people.

“Leadership is very important, every citizen is entitled to right of security, our leaders should wake up from their slumber. I believe if everyone cooperates and the leadership lead as expected, this situation will be better, there is no place in the world where we don’t have disaster and calamity but the one in Nigeria is alarming and the leaders of the country should be cautions that God will ask them on what they did,” he said.

“Nigerians are living in fear, poverty is everywhere, wherever you go, you will see poverty written on people’s faces, I pray this doesn’t not boomerang, when the poor man cannot sleep, the rich man will not sleep; for those at the helms of affairs it is high that we see to the security of our people,” he said.

The festival came to an end with prophetic declarations and Episcopal benediction

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Exit of a ‘sweet mother’

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The final funeral ceremony of Madam Nusirat Tijani, mother of the Chief Executive Officer of Medris Integrated Technologies, Mr Kamoru Tijani, has been held in Lagos, writes NNEKA NWANERI

THE late Madam Nusirat Tijani, according to many, was a  peace loving and industrious woman.

She was a trader in Lagos until she retired home to Oyo in Oyo State.

She died on January 3, after a brief illness.  She was 76.

Though she had four children, one of them died about five years ago. She is also survived by five grandchildren,  three great grand children and her widower.

The eighth-day Fidau prayer was held in Oyo on January 10, and a final burial, to celebrate her life was held at the Ikorodu West Local Council Development Area, Hall in Lagos on April 18.

Earlier in the day, short prayers were said in the  Lagos homes of her children for those that could not make the Fidau prayer in Oyo.

There were lots to eat and drink.

The uniform ankara fabric chosen for the occasion was sewn in different styles by guests. It dominated the occasion. The late Madam Tijani’s children and their spouses, were in lace with red headgears and caps.

The family members ensured that guests were well taken care of. Women also distributed souvenirs to guests.

The deceased’s first son, Kamoru Tijani, the CEO of Medris Integrated Technology Communications and Medris International Properties Ltd, said he would remember his mother for her pieces of advice to her children.

He recalled that when he was younger his mother would cook and serve not only her children, but also the neighbours.

“Though I wasn’t present  at the time of her demise, my aunty who was with her on her death bed said she requested severally to see me  few hours before she died.

“I learnt she said a lot of prayers for all her children before she died. She will be remembered for her kindness and charity; she was always giving. She was an Alasalatu woman and held a title in her Oyo home town.

Mrs Olasunmbo Owolegbon, the deceased’s daughter, described her mother as a woman who lived a fulfilled life.

“My mother was an accommodating, neat and very religious woman. I never valued her until I went through the experience of giving birth to my first child. It was then I began appreciating her and knowing what she went through.” She said.

Members of Anwar-Ul-Islam College, Agege Old Students Association (ACAOSA) were  there to support one of their own, Kamoru Tijani.

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A royal wedding

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A prince of Leyo Ruling House in Ondo, Dr Seyi Roberts, has given his daughter, Princess Morounke, in marriage to Oluwasegun, son of Prince of  Otileta Ruling House in Owu,Abeokuta, Ogun State. The solemnisation took place at the Anglican Church for all Nations on Victoria Island, Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

The wedding was classic. A display of exotic cars; a show of beautiful traditional attires, formal and dinner outfits.

It was the wedding of  Princess Morounke, daughter of Dr Seyi Roberts of the Leyo Rulling House in Ondo and Prince Oluwasegun, son of Prince Olusunmade Akin-Olugbade of the Owu, Otileta Ruling House in Abeokuta, Ogun State.

Guests came from far and wide to share in the couple’s joy.

The service was held at Church of the Resurrection, 1004 Flats on Victoria Island, Lagos.

Amid the opening hymn, “Praise to the Lord, the Almighty,” the bride entered the hall with her father. The groom was already in the church dressed in a dark grey long suit with white shirt.

Venerable Yinka Akinlade was the officiating minister.

Venerable Segun Ladehinde of the Cathedral Church of Christ in Marina, Lagos, in his sermon urged the couple to love each other.

He told their parents to stay off the couple’s  affairs.

After the sermon, the church choir led the hymn, “Trust and obey,” after which Venerable Muyiwa Oyewole joined the couple in holy matrimony and blessed them.

The wedding continued with the signing of the marriage register, taking of the Holy Communion and thanksgiving.

The clerics later took photographs with the couple and the choir led the closing hymn “To God be the glory” .

Outside the church, the couple’s parents, familiy members and friends took turns to take pictures with them.

The wedding train moved to the Federal Palace Hotel on Victoria Island, Lagos, for the reception.

The hall was covered in blue with white fabric and lights design on the wall. Chairs were set round tables.

Guests looked gorgeous in choice outfits. A bevy of beautiful women dressed in white attire led guests to their seats.

The couple’s fathers were the first to be called into the hall together with family members and friends. The mothers came in next.

The couple arrived at the venue in a cream Rolls Royce.

The reception kicked off on their arrival. They were ushered in by the bridal train of about nine women and nine men. The chief bride’s maid wore a long brown dress while the other women were on uniformed blue long dress of different styles. The men wore long dark grey suit.

The bride was all smiles, looking elegant in her flowing gown.

They danced to their reserved seats, to music supplied by World Class Disk Jockey (DJ).

Akinsope Robert and Dr Leke Osunniyi anchored the event.

Pastor Yinka Ahove said the opening prayer.

Chairman on the occasion, Mr George Etomi, urged the couple to let God be the foundation of their marriage.

He told the groom never to forget Princess’ birthday, nor tell her that he loves or prefers another woman and to ensure that he wears the wedding ring always.

The couple moved to the cake stand. They cut the cake at the spelling of L-O-V-E and fed each other.

The bride’s father, Dr Roberts, told the guests his reaction the first time he met Segun.

He said Segun is the son of his  friend adding that this, confirmed  that Segun is his son too and there was no need for further investigation on the man his daughter brought home.

Ayodele Ojerinola, a friend to the groom, described Segun as his longest standing friend that brought him back to Nigeria after 17 years.

Segun went on his knees before his bride and sang a special song for her – “All for love”- by Bryan Adam. Princess smiled all through.

After the song, he told the guests that Princess was behind all his achievements, adding: “She is everything to me.”

He looked into her eyes and said: ‘I love you’ sealing it with kisses.

The event continued with the bridal dance.

The couple’s parents took turns to dance with the bride and her groom after which the couple had their dance alone.

Mr Akinbo Akin-Olugbade proposed the toast.

The throwing of the bouquet saw spinsters in dinner dress and high heels scrambling to catch the flower. Together with the bride, they danced in uniformed steps before she threw it.

The event continued with dancing to rhythms by Faith Music Life band.

The groom’s father, Prince Akin-Olugbade, wished the couple a happy married life. He described his son as a brilliant and hard working young man who has passion to design and build cars.

Roberts urged them to continue to love each other.

Present were: The Osemawe of Ondo, Oba Victor Kiladejo; wife of the former Kwara State Governor, Mrs Toyin Saraki and Managing Director, The Guardian, Mrs Maiden Alex Ibru, among others.

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A town’s finest hour

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The ‘biggest’ mosque in Southwest was opened last Sunday in Aiyepe Ijebu in Ogun State. Sultan of Sokoto and Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs Alhaji Sa’ad Abubakar and Awujale of Ijebuland Oba Sikiru Adetona led other dignitaries to the event. TAJUDEEN ADEBANJO was there.

When he received the invitation to the opening of the mosque, Sultan of Sokoto and President-General, Nigerian Supreme Council for Islamic Affairs (NSCIA), Alhaji Muhammad Sa’ad Abubakar, was reported to have said: “A mosque of this magnitude, if I’m still alive on that day, I will be there.”

The Sultan kept his promise. He was in Aiyepe-Ijebu in Odogbolu Local Government Area of Ogun State last Sunday for the opening of the biggest mosque in the Southwest – the Aiyepe Central Mosque – which can accommodate no fewer than 5,000 worshippers.

The edifice brought glory to the town, placing it on the world map for tourists to visit.

Touted as the biggest in the Southwest, the inauguration of the mosque drew many dignataries, including Ogun State Governor Ibikunle Amosun and his Osun State counterpart, Ogbeni Rauf Aregbesola, the Awujale of Ijebuland, Oba Sikiru Adetona and others to the town.

The Sultan’s and Awujale’s arrival marked the beginning of the event.

“Visitors” dubbed the event as a ‘carnival.’ To the indigenes, it was the celebration of another Aiyepe Day.

The event attracted Islamic scholars and Chief Imams from the Southwest and Edo State. They were led by Sheikh Mustapha Ajisafe, President-General, Council of Chief Imams and Alfas in Southwest and Edo/Delta.

Royal fathers were also there in large number.

It was a day of cultural displays with the Yoruba and the Hausa showcasing the best of their culture.

The Yoruba shone in Agbada, buba and sokoto; the Hausa capped their dresses with turban.

The Yoruba proudly employed Gangan and Iya Ilu – talking drums – to praise their monarchs, the Hausa responded with  Kakaaki – long flute.

The crowd yelled in response to the show of culture and brotherhood and chanted Allahu Akbar (Allah is the greatest!).

Religious tolerance, the hallmark of the Southwest, was also on display . The Aiyepe-Ijebu Christians, came in their numbers to celebrate with their Muslim brothers. They embraced one another to the delight of the gathering.

An elated Oba Adetona enthused: “This is our culture; this is what gives us pride and we cannot thank Allah enough for the peaceful co-existence between different tribes and religious sects.

“There is no house or family in the Southwest that you do not have Muslims and Christians as members of the household, and we live in peace; we do not discriminate because we are brothers,” he said.

Amosun, who could not contain his delight at the structure, promised to liaise with Imams in Egbaland to see how they could replicate such a gigantic edifice in their domain.

Ogbeni Aregbesola described the mosque as a great development for Islam and Muslims.

The duo, went round to exchange pleasantries with the low and the mighty.

The gathering was impressed with their gesture.

The three-hour event started on a prayer note. It featured recitation from the Holy Quran, keynote address, soul-inspiring lecture and prayers for the nation.

In his welcome address, Aiyepe Muslim Community Chairman Alhaji Musibau Oyefeso described the mosque as one of the biggest in the country. He said it was built on a land area of 30,000-square metres with the mosque covering 6,400-square metres and ablution centre on 850-square metres.

Began in 1987, the over 5,000-worshipper capacity mosque, according to Oyefeso, is worth N2 billion.

“It is, indeed, a great honour and privilege for me to welcome you all to this historic event representing a major milestone in the life of Aiyepe Community and Ogun State in general. It is a well known fact that Aiyepe is predominantly populated by Muslims who in so many ways have demonstrated their unusual love for the practice of Islam. This edifice before us all is a testimony to that fact,” he said.

Oyefeso hailed those who pioneered the project in October 1987 and saluted those who  completed it.

Oba Adetona, who chaired the occasion, congratulated Aiyepe people for the  initiative. The mosque, he said, is another testament to the great things happening in Ijebuland.

“It is rare to see a community in this country with this kind of structure. May Allah bless those behind this project, especially the late Prince Shafi Shittu and the late Alhaji Salabiu Ladejobi. Like the name of this town Oju aye pe si aaye yii (the world eyes are here),” he said.

The monarch praise Sultan Abubakar for his efforts at uniting Muslims and ensuring peaceful co-existence with non-Muslims.

Delivering an address on the Importance of Mosque NSCIA Secretary-General Prof Ishaq Oloyede said a mosque is not only a worship centre but a place of learning.

“The mosque is also a temporary accommodation for visitors to any town, a court of law, centre of socialisation and training centre. We are not surprised that the first university in the world started in the mosque,” he said.

Islamic scholar Sheikh Muyideen Ajani Bello, in his lecture, enjoined the community to remain united.

Aregbesola said: “If not that Makkan Mosque is bigger and has more reward to pray than other mosques in the world, I would have come here to perform I’tikaf (seclusion in the mosque for the last 10 days of Ramadan). But we all know that mosque is bigger than mosque,” he said.

Amosun praised Mr Biodun Sobanjo, a Christian, who donated N1 million during the fund raiser for the maintenance of the mosque.

“Though you are Omo Alhaja, you have demonstrated that whether you are a Muslim or Christian, we are one,” he said.

He congratulated Oba Adetona for witnessing the opening of the mosque which foundation he laid 27 years ago.

After inaugurating the mosque, Sultan Abubakar led the Jama’ah (congregation) in Zuhr prayer.

Afterwards, the large gathering was entertained with various cuisines including Ijebu dishes – Ebiripo and Egusi soup.

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Farewell to a disciplinarian

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The remains of former Business Times Editor, Pa Godfrey Jesuorobo Bamawo were interred last Friday after a funeral service  at the All Saints’ Anglican Church in Yaba Lagos. AMIDU ARIJE reports.

His  children remember him as a disciplinarian. He was strict but loving. He lived by the scripture spare the rod and spoil the child. So, he did not spare the rod so that his children will not become spoilt. That is the kind of father the late Pa Godfrey Jesuorobo Bamawo  was.

The remains of Bamawo, a former editor of the defunct Business Times, was interred in Lagos last Fridayafter a funeral service at the All Saints Anglican Church   in Yaba. He was the father of Stella Bamawo of The Nation.

The funeral service began a few minutes to 11am; with the priests led by Rev. Olusegun Oloju receiving the body from the pallbearers at the church entrance.

The  hymn, “Jesus lives”, was taken. It was followed with the reading of Thessalonians 4: 13-18 from the Bible.

The sermon centred on the life of the late Pa Bamawo. Rev. Oloju urged the gathering to fear God and be prayerful.

The service ended with the withdrawal hymn, “I am a stranger here”. Pallbearers took the casket out of the church amid songs.

After a short prayer, the Bamawo’s family moved to the Atan Cemetery.

At the cemetery, the hymn, “Sleep on beloved, sleep and take thy rest” was taken. The body was lowered into the grave about 1:30pm.

The train moved to the Viginis Event Centre, Yaba  for the reception.

The hall was beautifully decorated. The Sunny Jay Music Int’l dished out melodious songs to the admiration of all.

There was never a dull moment. The Bamawo’s and their guests celebrated the late Bamawo’s life.

The children took turns to dance with their guests.

The widow, Mrs Yetunde Bamawo, said she would miss the care and love of  her husband. The vacuum he left, she said, “is too big for me to fill”.

“He was a very strict but also very kind man. I will miss him because, if the children misbehaved, he would scold them, but now I am the only one to correct them,” she said.

The first daughter, Mrs Isabel Odusoga, described her father as an accomplished man.

“He lived a fulfilled life. The last time I met him he asked me if I wanted soft drink, I said ‘yes’, he told me to buy it for him; after I bought it, he sipped it and said to me ‘God bless you my daughter’,” she said.

Stella Bamawo, said her father meant the world to her. Mrs Funmilayo Ekundayo was also full of praises for  their father.

“He was a very good man though a disciplinarian, but it was all the best for us. Today we are happy that he gave us the best training any child could ask of a parent. I will miss a true friend, teacher and confidante,” she said.

Mr Benbella Bamawo, of  the Dangote Group, said the memory of his father remains evergreen. The last son, Osayande Bamawo, a Biochemist said his father’s memory would forever be etched in his heart.

“It is so hard for me to describe him, but he is a very loving, caring and understanding father,” Benbella said.

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‘They are wonderful parents’

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Pa Zacheous Adedayo Ogundeko and wife, Florence, parents of Mr Segun Ogundeko, a director in the Legal Department of the Lagos State House of Assembly,  have celebrated their 100th and 93rd birthdays. The event took place at Aladeshoyin Hall in Noforija, Epe in Lagos State. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

IT was a rare twin birthday celebrations. The husband was celebrating 100 years and the wife, 93. Pa Zacheous Adedayo Ogundeko and his wife, Florence, turned 100 and 93 on April 26. Their Epe, Lagos State hometown stood still that day as they celebrated their birthdays. The Centenarian was a teacher and store keeper at Kingsway Store in Ibadan, the  Oyo State capital in his younger days. He also loved teaching,  reading, prompting him to establish his own private lesson in Ibadan where he was referred to as “Baba lesson” (Father of lesson).

His wife, an industrious woman is fondly called “Iya Olole” (Mother of beans cake). She was certified as a food vendor in Oyo State; she supplied food to various schools on daily basis.

April 26 was a joyful day for the Ogundekos. The Aladeshoyin Hall in Noforija Epe, where they marked their birthdays brimmed with guests.

The hall was decorated in blue and white. Most of the guests wore the blue Ankara fabric chosen for the occasion.

Guests were treated to both continental and local dishes and drinks.

The celebrators wore the same white traditional attire with blue cap/head gear to match.

The celebrators sat beside each other, with their children, Femi and Sesan and Gbenga  on the front row.

Many came at intervals to exchange pleasantries with them.

The celebration began with praise and worship. It was led by the Choir of Christ Apostolic Church (CAC), Revival Centre, Poka, Noforija, Epe. They took the hymn: “E fi ogo fun Oluwa”.

Pastor Paul Oluganna of CAC, Aiyepe-Ijebu in Ogun State, in his sermon, described the celebrators as people committed to the work of God.

“They took good care of their children and brought them up in the way of the Lord,” he said.

He told the congregation to live in accordance with the will of God.

The choir sang a special anthem and some of the songs that Baba loves to sing, including; “Awa ju eniti o segun lo,” Apata ayeraye”, “Fi ibukun fun Oluwa iwo okan mi.”

Thanksgiving followed.

The couple cut their birthday cakes at the spelling of JESUS.  They sat behind the blue and white colour cakes.  One was in the shape of 100 and the other 93. Family members, relatives and friends took turn to take photographs with them.

An elated Pa Ogundeko  thanked God for sparing his life to see the day.

Mama was grateful and thanked God for her life and that of her husband and family.

“I give God all the glory for keeping me and my husband alive till this day. It has not been by our power but by the mercy of God.

“I trust God to keep us healthy till He will take us home,” she said.

She joined the guests on the dance floor and she was sprayed new naira notes.

Mr Sesan Ogundeko, a director in the Legal Department of Lagos State House of Assembly described his parents as caring, good and nice.

“They brought us up well, struggled to make us what we are today and spent all their life on the children and other peoples’ children,” he said.

He said his dad’s love for teaching made all his children to go the extra mile in reading and that made them to excel.

“My mum is a disciplinarian. If you don’t wake up by 4am, she will beat you and throw things at you until you are awake.

“Even though we were only two left out of about 11 or 12 children that my mum gave birth to, she will not spare the rod on us.

He prayed that they should remain healthy.

Mr Gbenga Ogundeko described his parents as pillars of the family, who support their children with prayers.

Prof Wasiu Olowu said the celebrators are his maternal parents, adding that they are everything to him.

“Words cannot express what they mean to me because they are my all,” he said.

Mrs Adewumi Ogundeko, a daughter-in-law said, the celebrators have been wonderful in-laws to her.

“Mama keeps no secret from me, I love her and she is the best. She treats me just like her own children and she stayed in my house for several years taking care of my children. Mama is wonderful and awesome, I love her so much for her care and she is ever ready to help and support,” she said.

Mr Femi Ogundeko described his parents as disciplinarians.

He said they are devout Christians, who still fast despite their age. He thanked God for their lives.

Mr Adeshina Adebanjo whose mother is a sister to Pa Ogundeko said he wished the celebrators good health.

Adeyinka Adebanjo Okunade, a granddaughter, described her grandparents as easy going people.

“They love their grand children and like talking to them, showing them the way to go. I wish them many more years in good health,” he said.

Aduragbemi Ogundeko, a grandson, thanked God for the celebrators, life.

Dignitaries at the event include: the Aladeshoyin of Noforija Kingdom, Epe-Lagos, Oba Babatunde Ogunlaja; Alade Uraka of Poka land; Oba Aare Kolawole Aleru and their chiefs; lawmakers, heads of departments and members of the Lagos State House of Assembly.

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Promoting healthy living

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The maiden Nigerian Healthcare Execellence Award (NHEA)has been held in Lagos, reports  WALE ADEPOJU .

IT was time to unwind for medical personnel. Many doctors put away their stethoscopes to catch some fun. It was the maiden Nigerian Health Care Excellence Award (NHEA) organised by the Global Health Project and Resources (GHPR) and the Anadach Group. The event was held at the Eko Hotel and Suites on Victoria Island, Lagos.

The awards were in 16 categories. They  included a lifetime achievement award presented to Professor of Surgery Adeyemo Elebute.

Elebute, who came with of his wife, Prof Oyin, said when he was approached by the organisers, he asked for more time to think about the award.

He called for a universal health care coverage for Nigerians, saying: “That is the level the country should get to. Dreams without expectations are only hallucination,” he said.

Other recipients were 445 NAF Laboratory, Lagos, which won the Laboratory Service of the Year; Pathcare Nigeria Limited won that of the private sector.

Pharmaceutical company of the Year award went to Fidson Healthcare Plc; Rivers State got the Outstanding Government Healthcare Programme of the Year award.

NHEA Chairman, Dr Anthony Omolola said he did not believe in posthumous award as most people preferred to be honoured while still alive.

“I would like to be recognised when I’m doing well. When people are recognised they will be encouraged to do more,” he said.

The selection of winners, he said, was carried out by a credible committee.

“The committe is thorough and the award is not a “cash and carry one” because the awardees deserved the honour.”

GHPR Chief Executive Officer Dr Wale Alabi described the award  as recognition for individuals and organisations that contributed to the development of facilities and service delivery in the sector.

Rivers State Governor Rotimi Amaechi  said the award did not come as a surprise, adding: “I wasn’t surprised to have won the award because the state had achieved 100 per cent in routine immunisation coverage in the assessment by the World Health Organisation (WHO)”.

Amaechi, represented by his Commissioner for Health, Dr Tamunoiyoriari Parker, said the state would work harder to consolidate its gains.

“People no longer die from preventable/avoidable deaths. They now enjoy unfettered access to health care.

“The state built 120 functional Primary Health Care (PHC) centres with doctors and other health care workers working in the facilities. This has solved 70 per cent of the problems people face,” Amaechi said.

In attendance were Ogun State Commissioner for Health Dr Olaokun Soyinka; former Lagos State Commissioner for Health Dr Leke Pitan; Special Adviser to Lagos State governor on Public Health, Dr Yewande Adeshina and Majority Leader, Lagos State House of Assembly Dr Ajibayo Adeyeye, among others.

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All hail ‘The trusted one’

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Kaduna State Governor Mukthar Ramalan Yero has been conferred with the title of Dalhatun Zazzau (The Trusted One) by the Emir of Zazzau, Dr Shehu Idris. Yero is a Prince of Zazzau. Vice President Namadi Sambo led other dignitaries to the ceremony. TONY AKOWE (Kaduna) reports. 

IT was not a durbar, but it had all the trappings of one. Horses and heavily turbaned riders raced through the court of the Emir of Zazzau in Kaduna State. The crowd cheered as some of the horse riders performed some stunts. The palace was thick with a crowd which gathered to witness the decoration  of  Governor Mukthar Ramalan Yero as Dallatun Zazzau (The trusted one), a title reserved for princes. He is the 19th Dallatun Zazzau and the third to be decorated by the Emir of Zazzau, Dr Shehu Idris. The governor’s father, Ramalan Yero, is the Turakin Dawakin Zazzau.

Praise singers had a field day plying their  trade. But petty traders had it rough as they were pushed far off the palace by security men.

Dignitaries started trickling into the palace as early as 7am. Most of the governor’s aides, particularly those from Zaria were in white flowing attire with turban.

Vice President Mohammed Namadi Sambo was also in traditional attire.

Kaduna State Deputy Governor Ambassador Nuhu Audu Bajoga came to celebrate with his boss.

The  emir turbaned the governor and his wife, Fatimah. She was decorated as Tauraruwan Dallatun Zazzau. However, she was not publicly decorated.

Following the opening prayer by the Chief Imam  of Zaria, Muhammadu Sani, the event took off with Governor Yero sitting at the feet of the emir. The Lawani  (the long head scarf) was tied around the governor’s head with a red cap by a palace chief. The dressing was completed with a long flowing embroidered red royal gown draped round the governor’s shoulders..

Yero, in line with tradition, paid homage to the emir before the monarch addressed the gathering. There was also a traditional mini durbar, involving some traditional title holders in the Emirate and their subjects. The governor took part in it.

The Salanken Zazzau, Dr Bello AbdulQadir, explained why the governor was honoured while his father, who is also a traditional title holder, is still alive.

He said: “The title of Dallatun is reserved for the princes of Zazzau. It can also be given to someone who the emir trusts, as well as some indigenes that have dedicated themselves to the service of the people.

“Governor Yero has those qualities. His father is the Turakin Dawakin Zazzau. By this, he is a prince. He has also demonstrated his capabilities in the human development, the development of the state and the Zazzau emirate. The title is also meant to encourage the governor to do more for his people, state and the nation,” he said.

The emir said he honoured the governor because of his contributions to the development, peace and social unity of his community and the state.

Dr Idris said: “The traditional title of Dallatun Zazzau is one of the highest traditional titles which existed in Zazzau Emirate for many decades. It is always conferred on the most distinguished son of Zazzau. We believe Governor Yero deserves the honour not only because he is the governor of the state, but because of his humility and leadership ability.”

Vice President Sambo charged the governor to follow the footsteps of those before him.

“As a custodian of our rich history, culture and tradition, I urge you to follow the footsteps of your predecessors by being steadfast in the responsibilities assigned to you. You must, at all times, keep in mind that you represent our rich and noble values and must continue to protect the positive image of the emirate locally and internationaly,” he said.

The governor, Sambo said, has done well in sustaining peace in the state.

Governor Yero, pledged his continued loyalty and commitment to the emir.

He said: “This honour, will spur me to remain focus and committed to good governance all through my tenure as the people’s leader in the state and ensures the current peaceful atmosphere in the state is sustained.”

Niger State Governor Muazu Babangida   Aliyu thanked the emir for honouring Yero.

Ambassador Bajoga said the honour done to his boss was well deserved.

“This new responsibility given to the governor confirms popular views that Yero is an embodiment of leadership whose quest for service to humanity is unparalleled. No doubt, the Dallatun Zazzau will bring his wealth of experience to bear on the development of not only the emirate and Kaduna State, but the country,” he said.

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‘Complement your wife always’

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The  Lesi and Somolu families have become one following the wedding of their children, Olugboyega and Oreoluwa, in Lagos. OLATUNDE ODEBIYI reports.

The day of the week was no hindrance to the guests who came from far and wide to rejoice with the Lesi and Somolu families when their children Olugboyega and Oreoluwa got married. Olugboyega is the son of the late Prof and Princess Foluso Lesi. Oreoluwa is the daughter of Mr and Dr Foluseke Somolu.

The wedding took place on Wednesday, April 30, at the Ruby Gardens on Lekki/Epe Express Way, Lekki in Lagos.

Guests looked resplendent in traditional, formal and dinner wears. Some of those from the bride’s family wore forest green lace with gold head gear and cap. Those from the groom’s side donned royal blue lace with red head gear and cap.

Oreoluwa came in a silver Prado  Sport Utility Vehicle (SUV); Olugbenga used a black Prado.

Oreoluwa looked elegant in her white flowing gown. She entered the hall with her father. All guests stood as they entered amid the hymn, “Give you more” by J. Moss and “Great is thy faithfulness”.

They moved to the front where the groom, Olugboyega, in a Navy blue suit, was standing with Pastor Carlton Williams of the High Life Church, Lekki.

Pastor Williams read from the book of Ephesians 3:21. He told the bride to submit to her husband and urged Olugboyega to love Oreoluwa.

He urged them to do everything in their power to see that the union worked.

The couple exchanged marital vows and rings following which they signed the marriage register.

Pastor Williams told the couple that their love and faith in God would keep them going. He said they must always wear the ring, adding that it is a reminder of their love and faith in each other.

He prayed for them and presented them as husband and wife.

The congregation stood and clapped as the recessional hymn “God give us Christian homes” was taken.

Guests moved to the big hall of Ruby Gardens for the reception.

The hall was filled; some guests sat outside under a tent.

A bevy of women clad in bronze dress and flat black shoes led guests to comfortable seats.

There was a lot to eat and drink.

Helen Paul a.k.a. Tatafo was the Master of Ceremony (M.C.). Faith Music entertained guests.

The arrival of  the Alake of Egbaland, Oba Adedotun Aremu Gbadebo, who chaired the occasion, caused a stir. He entered in the company of his chiefs amid trumpeting and chanting of his praises.

The couple danced in with their friends and family members to songs from ATTE Disk Jockey (D.J.).

The entourage formed a big circle at the centre stage and the couple danced in their middle for about 10 minutes.

Oba Gbadebo led the guests to observe a minute silence for the groom’s late parents.

He prayed that their marriage would be a blessing.

He told the couple that God must always be in their marriage, adding that they must spend time to pray together always.

“There are no rules for any marriage but it is the duty of the two of you to write out how you will conduct your own affairs. Do not share different rooms no matter how big your home is, complement your wife at all times, do not economise the good things you see about her and never make her feel unwanted,” he said.

He told the wife that Olugboyega is the head of the home and he has no permission to be the head, saying: “Permit him to do anything he wants to do whenever and wherever he wants to do it. He should kiss you anywhere in the body and anywhere in the house; he should grab you any where he sees you”.

“A man never accepts that he is old for anything; men are always ready. Women, never make your husband feel that he is not wanted. As a married couple, you must do everything not to let the fun get out of both of you because that is where problem starts in every marriage; when the woman says she is tired or the man says he is busy all the time”.

He supervised the cutting of the four step cream and green cake at the spelling of JESUS.

The couple fed each other and had their first official dance. The toast followed; it was led by the groom’s friend, Ayo Akinloye.

The groom said he was glad that he now has a new set of parents.

“From the first day I met the Somolu family, I knew there would be no one else to raise a perfect woman into my life,” he said.

He led the guests to observe a minute silence for his late sister-in-law, Ayoola Somolu

The bride’s father, Mr Foluseke Somolu, urged the couple to continue to love each other. He urged them to build a home and ensure that they kept their problems to themselves.

Dr Olatokunbo Somolu told the couple to be tolerant, understanding and patient with each other.

Representative of the groom’s father Mr Olabode Ogunlana, an insurance magnate, urged the couple not to shun the advice given to them during the wedding.

“Follow all the counselling we have been giving you since you agreed to get married to each other and all will be well,” he said.

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